cycling in pair

jeremyturnips  asked:

You made a vine about heartache and someone saying "ill only break your heart."that drastically altered the way I looked at the people. Now if someone says "im a wolf with gnashing teeth and i think you're delicious " i don't think "well may Be he's vegetarian". I go shit I believe you and totally peace the fuck out. Like thanks. I know it was just a 6 second vine. But it changed me for the better.

that was honest to god the purpose of that vine

yeah its 6 seconds and said comically but there are so many things I wish I was told as an adolescent - this being one of them.

these people, men and women alike, start off the dating process by saying things like “ill only break your heart” or “i suck at relationships” or “I always do the wrong thing” so that a) you can soothe them, reassure them that’s not true so that they can feel better about themselves and b) they can use that back at you when the dating inevitably fails (i.e. “i told you id break your heart idk what you expected”) so it’s a way to not take any responsibility for their behavior while simultaneously getting consoled for their behavior - always using the other individual in the process and never actually getting better no matter how much this individual “helps” them. Most of the time this type of behavior is completely unintentional and deals with someone stuck in a cycle of abusive behavior paired with self-hatred; using people to soothe that lack of love for themselves and then pinning the blame on the other person for “not knowing better” that “they were bad”

so i’m so touched and thrilled that the message effectively went across the way it was supposed to! ultimately these people need help and i know often their partners/friends take up the role of therapist and punching bag when they’re not being paid to do so - but i think the lesson here is to know your worth and what you’re willing to put up with. regardless of how good of a person Joe is, if Joe is unaware of how abusive he’s being, you are in no way obligated to stay in that friendship/relationship. You’re a person and not every individual you come across is going to be what’s best for you. ♡

I know I’m a bit late to the party, but I felt obliged to contribute something to pride month. The scene made in Blender shows a pair of asexual Daspletosaurus enjoying a sunset on one of the beaches along the interior seaway 75 million years ago. I gave them a blanket and pillows in the colors of the asexual pride flag.

As for me, I see myself somewhere in the ace spectrum as I do not really feel this special sort of attraction (the sexual one) to others.

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pairing aesthetics: ronan and adam

“I’m going in,” Gansey said as Ronan sat down on the step beside Adam. As Gansey shut the door behind him, he heard Adam say, “I don’t want to talk,” and Ronan replied, “The fuck would I talk about?”

Madohomu is Canon!

Ok Guys, listen up!

This ship is canon

Madohomu is canon. It’s the only ship in PMMM that has the most potential, a complete background, it has a perfect and strong basis. Moreover. The “What” and ‘When” of the Madohomu moments have perfectly explained, “Why” and How”.

Everyone needs to know that if you are going to give a what and when, be sure to give a why and how. Please be perfectly clear that “what” and “when” are born from “why” and “how”. There can’t be a “what” and “when”, without a “why” and “how”. But also know this, some “why” and “how” are also born from “what” and “when”. But these “what” and”when” are also born from other “why” and “how”. Just because sometimes we don’t know the “why” and “how”, it doesn’t change the fact that the result, “what” and “when” were not born from them.

Example:

What: A baby was born.

When: On X day, at X hours, in X year.

Why: A man and a woman fell in love, or any other VALID REASON.

How: By the process of reproduction in humans.

Please be sure to give why and how when we are discussing what right and what’s wrong. Give sources and links.

Now, onto the main topic. Why is Madohomu canon? One of the members whispered that the feeling they have for their lover is Love. Let me make it perfectly clear that there was never any obsession to begin with, and still isn’t.

In the Anime, it was only about keeping and fulfilling her promise to Madoka of the third timeline.

In the Rebellion, it was about coming to terms with her true feelings of love.

Proof for why the feelings are not obsession was said by Nagisa Momoe herself during the dethronement scene.

In the manga, she explicitly asked “is it obsession?”

This was said by Nagisa.

So there you go, it’s plain Love, love has many faces, shrieking “obsession” in the face of love doesn’t mean that’s the kind of love it is. Obsession of any and every kind, NOT PRESENT FROM THE BEGINNING. This “Love” is the purest form of love. Do you want to know why?

Because in the ending, madoka is with her family

And Homura is all alone,

This is why I call this ending a sign of true love. The truest form of love is not to get in bed with the person you love, it’s the moment when you are simply content with the fact that they are happy and secure, as well as even breathing.

There are many canon reasons for the dethronement part, not just AI YO.

Here they are.

There are many canon reasons for why the Love Homura has for Madoka is anything but Sexual, or non consensual.

Here they are.

I also have explained why it isn’t abusive or unhealthy up there.

There are pictures and sources present about Urobuchi signing Homu posters with “Homura is the best girl”. “Homura did was nothing wrong” was what he signed as well. Now we don’t know whether it was asked or he did it himself, that is up to you. 

Also, people say the relationship is going to be unhealthy and abusive. 

Shut up. 

Once again, where is your “why” and “how”? 

The only evidence that Magica Quartet slapped in our faces to imagine the post rebellion world is by giving us official art of the post rebellion world.

Here it fucking is.

GODDESS OF HOPE. 

Hope to redeem your best friend or never giving up until getting your best friend back, is included in that. Please don’t forget that Madokami will keep trying, because this story is basically about “HOPE”. 

The only character to have whispered “It’s Love” is Homura.

The MadoHomu ships is already half way to island Canon. We just need to hear Madoka Kaname’s answer.

Her voice actor herself said about Madoka’s probable answer in the future regarding Homura’s feelings for her. It was ”No matter what form you take, Homura-chan is Homura-chan. Falling in love wirh someone is wonderful, so don’t call yourself the devil. I love you”.

Here is the original page.

Homura hates herself :( , that’s why the clara dolls are present. 

But just because she hates herself, doesn’t mean she’s not happy.

Urubouchi stated in an interview that the ending of Rebellion was atleast Happy for Homura. He said “atleast”. “Atleast” means that more than Homura, there are others who are happy as well. The others?

But Homura is also happy. Like I stated, she’s happy that the person she loves is finally living a normal life she wanted. Yes, Madoka did want to live with her family, she never wanted to leave them, it was the circumstances, because of which she had to put her personal wishes aside, Otherwise, she would’ve never left her family and friends. 

In this scene

(My God, just look at all the love!)

The things that Madoka said were all true! Please read Shinbou’s interviews as well, one of the translated one states that these were the true feelings of Madoka. This is one of the reasons for the dethronement part. I have given the link above.

So yeah, this pairing is canon. It’s awesome, 

it’s touching, 

it’s unique, 

it’s sad,

it’s beautiful, 

it’s tragic, 

and it’s love in it’s purest form. 

Where you’re ready to shoulder any burden, 

any sin, 

anything, just for the person you love 

and make sure they’re happy, no matter whether it KILLS YOU 

in the process.

But who cares right? 

Since the one you love is happy and secure, that calls for some celebration right? Come on guys get up!

And let’s not forget to invite the one who has been screwing with you since the beginning!

Let’s party!

the “i have a crush on a raven gang member” squad
  • joseph kavinsky [has a crush on ronan]
  • tad carruthers [has a crush on adam]
  • henry cheng [has a crush on gansey]
  • that tj kid from blue’s school [has a crush on blue]
  • matthew lynch [has a crush on noah]

now imagine all of these people having like actual support group meetings and discussions like “being an asshole to your crush to show affection: effective or not?” 

imagine kavinsky asking matthew if he can kidnap him to get ronan’s attention and matthew is just like [looks into the camera like he’s on the office]

imagine henry bringing in a stack of the most obnoxious polo shirts he can find and asking them which one they think gansey would like best

so i’ve mentioned how my favorite thing is fake ah crew ryan being a complete dork masquerading as a badass, right

one night like way after midnight michael wakes up to the sound of loud, steady, insistent pounding at his door, and he’s up out of bed in his pajama bottoms with a gun in his hand before he even wakes up completely

and when he gets to the door he looks through the peephole and sees the fisheye lens version of ryan standing in the hall of his apartment building wearing his skull mask and looking generally creepy and imposing

so michael opens the door and for a moment there’s just this silence with michael holding the gun loosely at his side and ryan creepily silhouetted against the lights of the hallway, jacket spattered with deep red spots

and a list of things michael is expecting ryan to say, having come to his apartment in the middle of the night without warning covered in blood:

  • i need you to help me bury a body
  • i’m on the run from the cops
  • i’ve decided to kill you and everyone you love

but this is what ryan actually says, words muffled through his mask, body language abruptly sheepish: “i forgot to pay my bills this month and they shut off my water. can i use your shower?”

michael stares, and then he nods dumbly–what else can he do?–and ryan murmurs a thanks and pushes past him into the apartment.

later, ryan haywood is sitting in michael’s living room in a towel while his bloody clothes are spinning through the wash cycle

(“do you have a pair of sweats or something i could borrow,” ryan had asked when he came out of the bathroom

“sure,” michael had replied, and had then turned around and actually looked at ryan, towel around his waist, hair dripping, bare chest still slightly wet, upon which he’d blurted, “actually, no.”

“…you don’t have any spare clothes.”

“that’s right.”

“…okay…? i’ll just…hang on to the towel until my clothes are done, then?”

“that’d be great.”)

and after some awkward silence, michael says, “you know, you can probably set your bills up to auto pay,” and ryan blinks once and breathes out an oh that seems to carry the weight of a dozen forgotten months of water bill payments, what a fucking nerd.

anonymous asked:

ey can i ask u about shuichis true personality? im really confused about it

I can certainly try, anon! It’s normal to be confused—ndrv3’s ending allows for a lot of speculation and leeway, and there’s still not a lot we know about most of the characters pre-game. But Saihara’s audition video is perhaps the most startling and drastically different glimpse we get of any of the characters’ pre-game and in-game selves, which is I think exactly why Tsumugi showed it to them during the Chapter 6 trial.

In a way, the reveal about Saihara and even the other characters having potentially signed themselves up for the killing game is even more shocking than the reveal about Hinata being Kamukura in sdr2. Where the latter was a reveal that came as a surprise, certainly, it also made sense given the clues that had been presented up until then, and all the fixation Hinata had with the idea of “talent” and wanting to join Hope’s Peak, to the point where it was understandable once the player realized he had willingly signed up to be experimented on and throw his true self away.

But the Saihara reveal comes as a bigger shock specifically because of the way Tsumugi phrases it. Without context, it certainly looks as if pre-game Saihara, the one who we see in the audition tape, is simply someone who was so into Danganronpa that he was interested in murders, closed-room tricks, etc. that he had almost none of the compassion or empathy for others that in-game Saihara does.

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No One’s Favorite, Part 3

*A Declan/Jiang Story (Now on AO3)

Declan’s week passed without any more interruptions or visits. He saw Jiang on campus, often in the company of Kavinsky and his entourage. Jiang would spot him, catch his eye, and throw up a peace sign, an infectious grin prompting Declan to smile back and nod before hurrying off to his next class. Now that he had seen Jiang “out of uniform” he couldn’t see the uniform as anything other than a façade. It wasn’t Jiang at all: the uniformity, the tie and blazer and shoes and creased pants, his long hair pulled back in a low ponytail, his piercings removed. It was just wrong and it made Declan feel oddly depressed every time he saw Jiang’s perfect conformance to the dress code, knowing how much Jiang probably hated being stifled like that. Not that Declan was doing anything different it was just…he didn’t like it.

Friday came and the campus descended into its usual revelry, boys running off for weekend adventures and parties. The introverts retreating to their rooms or solitary road trips or whatever they did. Declan was, at least according to all of Aglionby, an extrovert. He stopped and talked to various acquaintances, made plans, laughed, texted, made calls, but under it all he just wanted time to himself, to be quietly miserable. And yet he also desperately needed all this distraction, the extra credit, the internship, the girls, and the parties, to keep functioning. It was a conundrum.

Jiang texted him to see if he was coming to Kavinsky’s party but Declan declined. He had plans to see a girl, not that he told Jiang that. The girl was lovely. Laura. She had a sweet southern accent and a drive to create social change. They met through his internship and she had been impressed with his work (and his straight teeth and dashing smile and smooth talking). He spent the night at her apartment before returning to Aglionby early Saturday morning.

Declan had finally settled in for a morning nap when someone knocked on his door. He recognized the pattern: knock tap-tap-tap-tap knock. With a quiet moan Declan rolled out of bed, self-consciously trying to tame his bed head before he realized he was essentially primping to see Jiang.

Jiang looked like he had been out all night. He smelled like smoke of various kinds and his eyeliner was smudged, his eyes bloodshot. There was a dark purple bruise at the base of his neck that Declan tried very hard to ignore but his eyes kept coming back to it, filled with questions like who had been sucking on Jiang’s neck? and did Jiang like it?

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“It wasn’t me,” Ronan said. He looked to Blue, who shrugged. He caught Adam’s eye. When Adam’s mouth quirked, Ronan’s expression stilled for a moment before turning to the loose smile he ordinarily reserved for Matthew’s silliness. Adam felt a surge of both accomplishment and nerves. He skated an edge here. Making Ronan Lynch smile felt as charged as making a bargain with Cabeswater. These weren’t forces to play with.”
—  The Raven king
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hello i love my gay apple wife so i made some backgrounds for otp to end all otps,,,, gansey and his magical sleeping boyf inspired by these beautiful renison ones

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A Rec For Every Raven

Richard Gansey III

  • you’re ripped at every edge but you’re a masterpiece, by @lynchly
  • There seemed to be a silent conversation happening in the front seat. Ronan’s quirked, angry eyebrow shouted at Gansey’s oblivious shoulder. Or maybe Gansey was purposely ignoring him. It was hard to tell which parts of his persona were faux Aglionby and which, if any, went deeper than that.

Ronan Lynch

  • The Gates of Horn, by ariadnes_string
    “You’re aware that Virginia law forbids minors getting tattoos without the express permission of their legal guardian?”
    Ronan paused in the doorway of The Gates of Horn, reputedly the best place on the beach for just that.

Adam Parrish

  • Academic, by Oureias
    Adam drives himself to college, but concedes to take Ronan and Ronan’s car. Ostensibly so that the former can drive the latter back —“What are you gonna do with a car at Harvard?” Ronan had said, “park on top of a fucking building?”— but really because he doesn’t want to make the ride alone.

Blue Sargent

  • Blue, The Reaper, by @kiiouex​ 
    You made the deck yourself. One month ago, Aglionby issued the invitations to Henrietta business owners who wanted a stall at their gala, and the deck has been your weekend project since you accepted on 300 Fox Way’s behalf. It is, without exaggerating, the greatest thing you have ever created.

Noah Czerny

  • we’ll keep tattooes for homes, by @colburns​ 
    “Sorry. Ronan’s terrible with girls,” the other boy said. This one was around Adam’s height, with bleached hair and a snapback. He fiddled with the straps of his backpack and rocked back on his heels. “Well. People. He’s terrible with people. I’m Noah. I like your tattoos.”

Henry Cheng

Pynch fic rec list

I’ve read some lovely fic for this pairing, so decided to compile a list of some of my favourites. Recs, organised in order of longest to shortest, under the cut. I’ll be updating this post as time goes by. Fics marked with ** were my absolute favourites. Enjoy <3

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