So yeah, violence. If you’re living in a place where the state holds a monopoly on it, then you’re not going to get away with much.
There are forms of violence the state tends to overlook, but if someone shows up dead then there will be paperwork. And the trouble with humans is that they are fragile, so low-level violence can turn out to be fatal violence if someone takes an awkward fall to the pavement.
What to do for the hot-headed youth whose honour has been impugned in a manner that demands a robust reply?
In most cases, an utter disregard for consequences is the answer. But if you cared a great deal for consequences, and still wanted to deliver justice in the traditional manner, ie. by a non-fatal application of blunt instruments, it escapes me exactly how you might go about doing so.
Honestly, probably the most straightforward way would be to do it with the tacit approval of the state, ie. make sure your dad’s a cop.