Knowing you would hurt a baby for the sake of a love that left you and not knowing you would hurt anything trapped in a pod are two veryyy different things. Although I think the pearl hate is unnecessary cuz she didn't didnt even hurt him, your argument wasn't very strong.
She didn’t know it would hurt him. We still don’t know if it would hurt him. They directly addressed that in “Bubbled”. There’s no precedent to go off of