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I used to be so uncomfortable in my own skin, terrified to show anything deemed “inappropriate” for a fat girl to wear while everyone else could wear clothes I loved but “couldn’t” wear. But nah feck that, if my fat rolls and stretch marks makes you uncomfortable then that’s your problem boo😍 because I love my body and I’m unashamed☺️✨ it took me a long time but I’m finally at the stage where people calling me names doesn’t hurt me anymore, yeah I’m fat? And? 🙄 is that all?🙄 fat and faBULOUS 👏🏻

As many of you know, I’ve done a lot of work with healing the younger me’s.
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I’ve received many questions on how you guys can heal your younger yous.
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It is very helpful to have someone who knows how to do this guide you through the process.
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But it can totally be done on your own.
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The purpose of going back to heal a younger you, is for that specific you to come to a place of understanding.
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Here’s an example:
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I went back to 22 year old me after gaining weight following huge weight loss success.
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Gaining weight after losing so much was almost depressing.
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I didn’t understand why that happened.
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I felt like a failure and I dragged those feelings of unworthiness for months!
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Going back to that younger me, I explained to her why it had to happen that way. I told her that it was okay. That she could let go of all the guilt, shame and frustration.

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I reconnected her to the reason of why I started my journey. Because somewhere along the line of losing weight I had forgotten that.
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I brought her to a place of understanding. A place of love and compassion.
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Healing the younger yous doesn’t have to be only about weight or body image.
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It can be about anything you feel you need to heal.
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When I began doing this, I used to do it through a guided meditation.
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I would ask to see any part of me that needed healing and I would see an image of me at that age.
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And with that, I went in and did all the inner work.
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Which has brought me to here I am now💓🤗

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“big girls shouldn’t wear crop tops”
“big girls shouldn’t wear rompers”
“big girls shouldn’t wear short shorts”
“big girls shouldn’t wear tight dresses”
“big girls shouldn’t wear jumpsuits”
I’ll wear whatever the hell I want, and look damn good in it 😍😍 seeing a big girl with big confidence INTIMIDATES them. Don’t ever let anyone tell you that you can’t wear something because of your body type. Big girls CAN and SHOULD wear whatever they want. 😊💖