I got to meet Lucy. We got to cuddle, and talk in person, and do sexythings. It was/is great.
I got to meet telegantmess, their awesome trans lady partner, and their adorable little toddler. Many yays were had.
I also got to meet cuntofdoom, which was unexpected and cool.
A couple nights ago, I was horribly suicidal and wanting to die. telegantmess came outside and found me, and talked me down from doing it. We went and sat under a tree, listened to the frogs, and talked for what felt like hours (in a good way). They gave me lots of hope.
So did Lucy, when I woke up that same night, bawling and saying that I was scared and I wanted to live. Ze cuddled me lots while I cried. I felt, and feel, so loved.
I had no idea how much I needed this. I am just… eee yay. Love.
so what you're saying is that you are oppressed by trans* people?
How are you not embarrassed to be ignorant enough to ask a question like this? Is your thinking really so black and white that you can’t even account for basic nuance like “two groups can be oppressed by the same oppressor”?
still pity you. Just so you know, feminism will still welcome you back if you ever decide to come back to it.
You mean the kind of feminism that purposely triggers women with photos of ~liberating~ bdsm because you know what’s best (porn and penises obviously) for the silly separatist lesbians and abuse victims? Your kind of feminism?
Leave us the fuck alone, you are the lowest kind of lesbophobic, victim silencing, libfem shit, and I mean that.
I keep on dropping shifts and forgetting appointments and I am terrified of getting fired because I love this job and I was unemployed for like 2 years before I got this job a month ago
Do you have a system in place to help you keep track of things? Some kind of planner would seem to be in order here, probably an electronic one with alarms would be most helpful, though you might want a paper planner as well.
When you get your schedule, put it into your planner right away. Set alarms if you need to. Whenever you make an appointment, add that to your planner as well.