Okay so
  • I got to meet Lucy. We got to cuddle, and talk in person, and do sexythings. It was/is great.
  • I got to meet telegantmess, their awesome trans lady partner, and their adorable little toddler. Many yays were had.
  • I also got to meet cuntofdoom, which was unexpected and cool.
  • A couple nights ago, I was horribly suicidal and wanting to die. telegantmess came outside and found me, and talked me down from doing it. We went and sat under a tree, listened to the frogs, and talked for what felt like hours (in a good way). They gave me lots of hope.
  • So did Lucy, when I woke up that same night, bawling and saying that I was scared and I wanted to live. Ze cuddled me lots while I cried. I felt, and feel, so loved.
  • I had no idea how much I needed this. I am just… eee yay. Love.

cuntofdoom asked:

so what you're saying is that you are oppressed by trans* people?

How are you not embarrassed to be ignorant enough to ask a question like this? Is your thinking really so black and white that you can’t even account for basic nuance like “two groups can be oppressed by the same oppressor”?

cuntofdoom asked:

still pity you. Just so you know, feminism will still welcome you back if you ever decide to come back to it.

You mean the kind of feminism that purposely triggers women with photos of ~liberating~ bdsm because you know what’s best (porn and penises obviously) for the silly separatist lesbians and abuse victims? Your kind of feminism?

Leave us the fuck alone, you are the lowest kind of lesbophobic, victim silencing, libfem shit, and I mean that. 

cuntofdoom asked:

I keep on dropping shifts and forgetting appointments and I am terrified of getting fired because I love this job and I was unemployed for like 2 years before I got this job a month ago

Do you have a system in place to help you keep track of things? Some kind of planner would seem to be in order here, probably an electronic one with alarms would be most helpful, though you might want a paper planner as well.

When you get your schedule, put it into your planner right away. Set alarms if you need to. Whenever you make an appointment, add that to your planner as well.


Followers, do you have any tips?

cuntofdoom asked:

3 10 14

3. Name some songs you listen to while doing work.

  • Led Zeppelin - The Battle of Evermore
  • Stevie Wonder - Very Superstitious
  • Outkast - B.O.B.

10. What are some songs you listen to when you need a pick me up?

  • Noisettes - Don’t Give Up
  • Pistol Annies - Hell on Heels
  • Poets of the Fall - Lift

14. Can you recall the first song you ever listened to? If so, what was it? (Excluding nursery rhymes, unless you want to put Twinkle Twinkle Little Star, etc.)

Two come to mind - The Longest Time  by Billy Joel and Let’s Dance by David Bowie

today i was excitedly like “i’m going on hormones” while milo and i were on the bus and they were like “are you gonna get titty bones?”

cuntofdoom replied to your post: please share widely - in case anyone e…

Well fuck. If I were you, I would contact BGD with all of this information as soon as possible so you yourself can let them know what’s going on.

thanks, yeah, i intend on doing that myself. i think the assumption here was that i was gonna lay low and not do anything like i have in the past when they have violated other boundaries.


we’re on the train back from Rochester and I finished my book and now I’m just kinda bummin’ around Tumblr so have some pictures

the bruises on my face are from when we went sledding the other day and we had a rough fall and my face hit the snow sorta hard

but I think they’re kinda cute and I wish they had darkened a bit more

oh well

and then there are some pictures of Milo and I being super cute


here you go