If you think you’ve hurt too much, then let the pain go away. If you think you’re still in the same place, then maybe you should take some steps away from where you are. And if you feel that you can’t move on, then I think, you’re trapped. Do not confine yourself in the wraith of the past. The more you think of it, the more impossible to escape from its shadows.
Heartbreaks happen to us very often. And the pain will always be everywhere, ready to make people suffer. You are able to dodge it til you get tired. If you can no longer maneuver yourself to avoid it, then you’ll get it. But it is okay to get tired. That means you’re still human. Vulnerable and weak… with a heart and soul.
No person can tell exactly when can we feel the the eternal happiness while we live here on earth. And no person can tell when do we experience worst things that interrupt our enjoyment of such happiness. Because living life, while it is pleasant and feels so good, is still very unpredictable and full of surprises.
To get used to pain is not an easy task. It requires more time to learn and to make the heart a bit numb. And who would dare to do that? Nobody! It’s just that, people accidentally learned it and made it to themselves, like passing through a one-way road without any possible means to deviate.
Keep in mind that whatever happens to us; whatever failures that we face; and no matter how many heartbreaks that we have in our lives, we have to keep on going. All of these things are just add ons to the trials in our daily living. We should maintain our trust and confidence to ourselves and our faith in Him.