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What to do when someone is crying

Do:
-give them a hug
-rub their back
-give them space if they need it
-tell them everything will be okay
-let them talk to you about whatever is wrong
-wait until they seem happy enough to talk to them about it so they don’t get upset again

Don’t:
-ask them what’s wrong with them (no matter what their gender is)
-force them to talk about anything they don’t want to
-say anything that could possibly make them feel worse
-when they’re done, don’t try to talk too much about it if you can see whatever is wrong is still making them upset
-DO NOT GET MAD BECAUSE THEY ARE CRYING. It doesn’t matter the subject, when someone is crying it’s for a reason. DO NOT TELL THEM THEY ARE TOO SENSITIVE. DO NOT YELL AT THEM BECAUSE YOU THINK THAT ITS NOT A GOOD REASON TO CRY.
-if they run away to cry do NOT yell at them to get back there or bang on their door (unless you think that they may be putting themselves in danger)

Honestly I’m quite sensitive to certain subjects. I get mad easily to mask that really I’m upset, but in some situations, there’s nothing to be mad about. I don’t cry often, but it’s always because I have a reason. I don’t like breaking down in front of people, but sometimes it happens.

One of my friends says that they don’t know what to do when someone is having an emotional breakdown, but honestly they are one of the best people to comfort me when I’m not feeling great.

What do they do?
They…
-let me cry it out on their shoulder (no matter how wet or snotty I get it)
-ask me if I’m okay
-see if I need to see the student counselor or talk about it
-ask where I’m going to be (in the bathroom, etc.) in case they need to check up on me
-IN CASE ANYONE SEES, THEY DONT REVEAL ANY PERSONAL INFORMATION TO ANYONE
-ask if I need anything (tissues, a hug, etc.)

EVERYONE DESERVES EMOTIONAL COMFORT WHEN THEYRE CRYING. DO NOT YELL AT THEM OR MAKE THEM FEEL WORSE. GIVE THEM SPACE, BUT MAKE SURE THEYRE ALRIGHT.

Thank you.

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THE CREW COMFORTING/ REACTING TO A CRYING S/O:

A/N: Sorry you’re having a bad day, anon! I already had this one mostly done, and the requests went together. In fact, I may have missed another ask that resembles this topic as well, but it’s suuuuuper deep in my in box and it’s late!

Black Hat:
-Uhhhhhhh… what should he do?
-He’s not supposed to comfort them is he?! How do you do that?! He’s the one who makes people cry, not stop them from crying.
-Whoever made you this upset shall pay! You read the newspaper and their entire work, town, home, etc. is in ashes.


Dr. Flug:
-“Oh, no….Are you okay, do you want to talk?”
-Either hugs them or awkwardly pats them on the shoulder reassuringly and walks away, depending on if they want to be left alone or not.
-When you go to bed you find freshly cleaned sheets, and a small note about why he appreciates you.
-If you do hug him, he will just wordlessly hold you until you feel better.

Demencia:
-“Oh my gosh you’re leaking!!!!”
-“What’s the matter?”
-It’s like the only time they’ve ever seen her speak quietly.
-She would hug them and love them until they fell asleep and then go kill whatever the problem was.
-She listens intently and offers her heartfelt advice if that want it.
-Her way of cheering them up almost always includes ice cream and their favorite tv show.

5.0.5:
-Cookies fix everything right? Well he made them some to help cheer them up.
-Its okay if they don’t wanna talk about it.
-He literally is a giant teddy bear so…hug away!
-He is sort of like a safety blanket for them.

Reaction (SNSD): When they see their girlfriend crying for the first time

Taeyeon: “Awe baby, seeing you cry is making me so sad.”

Originally posted by taengs

Hyoyeon: “Come here and promise me that you’ll be happy. Please baby.”

Originally posted by blindkpop

Jessica: “That’s something that I never wanted to see. Please don’t cry.”

Originally posted by jessicagifs

Yoona: “Who made you cry? I’ll kill them, I swear.”

Originally posted by miyoungie

Yuri: “Baby, you’re breaking my heart.”

Originally posted by coffeeyuri

Seohyun: “Awe baby, I love you, please don’t cry.”

Originally posted by joohyun-ah

Sunny: “Whoever made you cry better watch out. I’ll hurt them.”

Originally posted by coldpool

Tiffany: “Come on baby, please tell Fany what’s wrong.”

Originally posted by gingerfany

Sooyoung: “But wait, why are you crying? What happened?”

Originally posted by justmyperfectgoddess

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uh my hand slipped while I was yelling about this

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Mike Mignola’s comic adaption of Bram Stoker’s Dracula (1992)

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I had a friend once. We ran together when I was little. And I thought we were the same. But when we grew up, we weren’t

I need you to know we’re not so different. I need my friend back.

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