Ok, maybe I'm overreacting
I’m all for adult conversation, but doesn’t it seem like the information these men ask for is unnecessary?
For example, if he asks what I do and I respond with “retail”, then he’ll probably ask what store. Fine. I tell him the store. Then he wants to know what mall. FINE. I tell him the mall.
Then he STILL inquires on what specific department and what my hours for the day are? At this point I’m concerned about whether or not he’s going to pop up on me, which I don’t need.
All of this before we ever meet in person. Honestly, am I overreacting? I feel like if ever he’s really trying to do is figure out if I can hang out or talk on the phone, then he can just ask that and I’ll respond accordingly.