coz i was bored :)

This Season of the StClaires...
  • A baby is born, 
  • We get another teen in the house (god help us) 
  • Broody Nathan.. 
  • Teenage rebellion 
  • Cute grandparents doting on their grandchildren
  • A little Devil Angel in the form of a toddler
  • and terrible writing as always :D 
Accent Challenge
Me, myself&I
Accent Challenge

wlw skam accent challenge

  1. what is your name and username?
  2. where are you from?
  3. what languages do you speak? say something in each language!
  4. what is your sexuality?
  5. Pronounce the following words: Aunt, Roof, Route, Theater, Iron, Salmon, Caramel, Fire, Water, New Orleans, Pecan, Both, Again, Probably, Alabama, Lawyer, Coupon, Mayonnaise, Pajamas, Caught, Naturally, Aluminum, GIF, Tumblr, Crackerjack, Doorknob, Envelope.
  6. What is it called when you throw toilet paper on a house?
  7. What is a bubbly carbonated drink called?
  8. What do you call gym shoes?
  9. What do you call your grandparents?
  10. What do you call the wheeled contraption in which you carry groceries at the supermarket?
  11. What is the thing you change the TV channel with?
  12. what made you get into skam?
  13. what is your favorite season?
  14. who is your favorite character?
  15. which character would you marry?
  16. which character would you want as a best friend?
  17. which character do you hate?
  18. who are your favorite ships?
  19. what ships do you not like?
  20. what are your sexuality headcanons for the characters?
  21. Choose a book and read a passage from it.
  22. end the post by saying any 3 words you want.

I hope you’re happy now @lesbiannooras 

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forever-a-smith-deactivated2017  asked:

But some people say that John and Sherlock are in a abusing friendship but with Sherlock abusing on John and it does disturb me... What do you think ? ( I like John not being perfect and violent sometimes tho it makes his character more interesting)

@curu-monk i agree actually. they’re NOT a healthy relationship at this point (not since s3 tbh)

perhaps they are not being deliberately abusive towards each other, but they are too codependent on each other for it to be a healthy relationship (friendship or otherwise). 

Sherlock is too dependent on john as being the centre of his entire universe. Sure, when you romanticize it you can say it’s love, but it isn’t a healthy one. Everything sherlock ever does is for john, he lives for john, he killed magnussen for john and he alone suffers the consequence of incarceration or a death mission. Yet despite the potentially fatal consequence, he does it anyways. Why? Because for john. He is so dependent on john that sherlock completely disregards his own well-being and his own life. When he returned and his incarceration got cancelled, what did he do (in the entirety of tst)? did he live his own life (and by live his own life i mean having a life/priorities of his own but still keeping john as part of his life)? No. Instead, what sherlock chose to do was to make John’s family life as his own personal mission. That he lives mainly to protect mary and rosie and john to give john the domestic life john wants. And then when john got angry with him and asked for distance, what happened to sherlock? He went off his tits on drugs and hallucinated and is a complete mess– all simply because john no longer needed him there. Again, if you romanticize it, this can sound like an oh-so-special love story. But the reality is that it is more appropriate to call it dysfunctional. ANY relationship that would cause serious mental or emotional or physical harm to either parties is NOT a healthy relationship. And considering the amount of times sherlock has complete disregard for his own life and safety, unable to have a will to live without john, that isn’t a healthy relationship.

Same goes for john, the way he views their friendship isn’t healthy either. From what i see, sherlock is his safety net. When Mary was still alive, he completely lets go of the wheel and expects sherlock to be in control of it. He’s complacent, “sherlock is there and sherlock promised to be their bodyguard so ok yeah that’s sherlock’s job. and i can enjoy my life how i wish to” and he cheat-texts on E coz he got bored of domestic family life and once Mary dies, he’s still burdened by his own guilt of cheating. But instead of facing his own emotions and admitting it to himself, he instead lashes out in a violent outburst. Lashes out on who? Well, sherlock ofc, because that’s what sherlock is there for, sherlock is a willing target, and there’s enough flaws and past resentment that sherlock has done to make john feel somewhat justified to beat him up in the heat of the moment.

so yeah, these two people are so broken and are both so full of self-loathing. Sherlock’s self-loathing manifests itself in self-destructive behaviour, thinking he deserves to be beat up, he deserves to be hated, he deserves to be alone, etc.

meanwhile john’s self-loathing manifests itself in denial, unrealistically high expectations in himself followed by extreme self-loathing for not being able to live up to that expectation, and it becomes a cycle. The self-loathing reinforces the denial and high expectation. The disappointment to meet that expectation reinforces the self-loathing. And it repeats and repeats until he reaches a breaking point and burst– in the form of excessive violence towards sherlock.

they need a therapist and they need to sort themselves first before they can actually fix their relationship into a healthy one.

using “it is what it is” as an excuse to let things be the way it is is not good. because “the way it is” is not healthy. And it isn’t an unfixable problem so yes, working towards a healthier outcome is an effort worth exploring. And that’s what i hope i can see in these characters one day, because let’s face it, one time or another we will all end up in a somewhat unhealthy relationship without realising it (at least I have) so to see how something that’s dysfunctional can turn and grow into a relationship that’s mutually-beneficial and positive and healthy, isn’t it quite a nice and hopeful thing to witness?

and that’s the end of my ted talk x’D that got wayyyy longer than i expected

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Raúl Esparza drawing Nr. 124: Rafael Barba and Amanda Rollins in tonight’s episode “Know It All”.

I know this is not my best drawing and I was about to abandon it. But then so many people wanted me to continue, including nbcsvu itself, so I pushed through. I guess I’m not happy coz it’s kind of a boring photo, but it’s the only Barba pic we have from Know It All so far.
Maybe you find at least a little joy in it. ❤️ I haven’t drawn Kelli in ages, so it was a nice challenge. 😉

Hope we find out Barba’s secret tonight…
-How many pyjamas do you own?
Honestly, I’m not really a pyjama guy, like I stay in me tracksuit or I just sleep naked, to be honest. I’m not really one of them, well to do like, you know, stripey blue & white pyjama kinda guy, it’s not really me. 
-Not your vibe?
Not really. No offense if you have some like that. 
-Hang on, you sleep in a tracksuit, did you just say??? 
Yeah, I do. Especially coz honestly, this is a boring, trivial story but I can’t really get a heating right in me house, so I like it cold, and then… Anyways, there you go, I sleep in a tracksuit or naked.
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Louis on

Key 103 with Darryl Morris

one thing i’ve noticed from quitting weed (even tho i take it sometimes now, but not even a quarter as much as before) is that i was in a total fuckin haze for like 2-3 years of my life like permanently stoned, i barely remember those years what the actual fuck was i doing??????

5HonFallon

Bish you best believe the minute I got home I quickly put on my awesome headphones and watched 5H on Fallon.

I did set my expectations on the lowest level, coz my girls tend to be a hot mess sometimes, and yet, here I am, saying I was satisfied. I’m somewhere in between “giddy” and “shookt”. It’s a good emotion.

They all brought something gooood to the table and I am eating it all up. IMO, Lauren carried the song; she did the most she could do to her verse, I loved her part. If rich melted Belgian chocolate could sing, it will sound just like Lauren. I think her tone has improved. Her note change got me smacking my thigh as well, idk why, it was just an attractive note change. 😂 that “thank you Jimmy” is the best part of the song, it should be the chorus 😂

But that’s not to say the others aren’t as good. They did so well, nobody was breathless (although, I wish Dinah’s mic was louder – it was a waste that I didn’t hear her that much during her adlibs in Gucci’s part - but I guess, it’s so not to drown out Gucci’s verse), nobody is off-key, nobody’s struggling with their low register.

Ally’s note, Normani’s velvety voice, Dinah’s adlibs — everything’s good.

I love the harmonies, their runs, their adlibs. I love that they’re starting to play with their voices/notes now. It’s nothing out of this world but I love the subdued energy of this performance.

I think it’s their best Down performance I’ve seen so far (I haven’t seen them all, just the important ones), I loved it enough to watch it twice (and I’ll probably watch it again later) and that’s saying something coz I usually get bored with this song.

I don’t have high expectations for 5H3, but I do have extremely high hopes that they will prove me wrong.

And this performance really gives me hope.

Side note: I’m not digging Lauren’s costume, or at least, the bottom half. The upper part though is 👌🏼👌🏼