Using newly coined names for your gender(s) is nothing to be ashamed of. In fact, it’s something to be proud of.
It takes tremendous courage, creativity, and diligence to examine yourself so closely that you come to realize that there are few (if any) existing terms that describe you. And taking on a new term (one that many people may not even know of) requires great bravery.
These new terms are are badges of such strength and ingenuity.
Carry your labels proudly.