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I see a lot of really nice posts about feminine trans boys, and I want to make one for tomboyish trans girls:

masculine trans girls are as beautiful as they want to be.
beauty isn’t everyone’s goal.
if cis girls are allowed to wear baseball caps and jerseys and jeans, so are trans girls.
short or buzzed hair doesn’t stop you from being a girl.
it’s cool to be a cis tomboy, which means it’s cool to be a trans tomboy.
anyone who says you’ve gotta be hyper-feminine to affirm your gender? they can go get fucked.
you don’t have to conform to gender roles.
you don’t have to be beautiful.
you are you, and you are a wonderful woman.

Here’s a thing that happened to one of my friends. I was there.

Basically, we were walking down the sidewalk, talking about something meaningless. I think it had to do with a card game. Then this bus screeches up, stops next to us, and a bunch of people with “Magic Cool Bus” shirts climbed out and started beating him up. I was punched and kicked a bit too, but I managed to avoid brutalization by going for their faces. After figuring out what’s happening, I started attacking them back, getting them off of him. He was quite injured but I called 911 and he made a full recovery at the hospital. I was fine, with only a cut on my arm that they patched up.

To anyone who says “[Character] is [insert]sexual and everything else is wrong because I said so! uwuwu”

To anyone who says “[Character] is obviously [insert gender identity here], so if you’re viewing them differently, you’re the worst uwuwuwu”

To anyone who harrasses others and/or talks shit about them because they headcanon something differently and thus, want to invalidate these people’s opinions in any way.

a cool thing for cis people to do when they mess up on a trans person’s pronouns: simply correct yourself when you catch it, rather than apologizing 30 times in one go and telling them “it’s hard to get used to” and calling yourself trash and telling the trans person to hit you or something if you mess up again cause that’s uncomfortable and can be even More upsetting than you just misgendering them please stop