conversation-with-him

prompt: phil’s at the store, when he spots dan, who looks oddly familiar. he sparks up a conversation, in hopes of recognizing him, but he just can’t put his finger on it. it’s until dan bends over to pick up something that he fell out of his cart, when phil realized where he knows him from. dan’s a pornstar.

anonymous asked:

I met this guy. He's really nice and things have been going good. He said he's vers like me, which is cool, but all he does is top me. I haven't seen any action with him as bottom and I'm feeling really bummed out about it. I had a long-term relationship where I didn't get to top and it killed me inside. Am I a jerk for breaking it off with this guy if he doesn't bottom soon? I can't have another one-way relationship in the bedroom. Stuff like that is important to me.

First and foremost, have you talked to HIM about this? If this is a serious enough issue to where you would consider breaking things off with him, then you need to have an open and honest conversation with him where you can express your concerns over how you would also enjoy opportunities to top. Relationships are all about communication, ESPECIALLY when it comes to sex. You gotta make sure you both know what the other wants, feels, needs, all that stuff. So I would say this: talk to him about it. If he’s open and receptive to it and is willing to change things up, then good! If not, then you need to evaluate the situation and decide what is the best option in order to ensure that you are happy. Just tell him what you’re feeling. If he’s truly a good guy, then things will work out! Feel free to update me on the situation 

Monday 8:27am
I woke up with you on my mind.
You called me babe last night —
my heart is still pounding.

Tuesday 10:53pm
Today I realized we won’t work.
What we are is hurting her.
And I think she matters more to me than you do.

Wednesday 11:52pm
I broke things off with you today.
She barely said a word.
I’ve never regretted anything more than this.

Thursday 4:03pm
I shouldn’t have sent that message.
You shouldn’t have been so okay with receiving it.

Friday 9:57pm
I almost messaged you today.
I didn’t.

Saturday 8:49pm
I’m walking around town in search of alcohol.
They say that liquor numbs the pain of having a broken heart.
I want to put that to the test.

Sunday 2:32am
I heard you texted a girl you’ve never spoken to before.
I wonder if it’s because you’re trying to replace me.
I can’t help but wish you weren’t.
I thought I was irreplaceable.

—  a week with you on my mind, c.j.n.