comfortable as can be


Part 2 .
I’m no chef, and I hate cooking… but I cook because I have to. While I’m in the kitchen, why not make it enjoyable and fun. These are just some of my dishes I made, it’s way more on my instagram. I try to use cooking as a stress reliever and it works.

anonymous asked:

I think there's a creature in my closet, how do you think I should introduce myself?

Whatever you do, just don’t force them out of the closet . They’ll come out when they’re ready , but until then try to make them feel comfortable . you can still make friends before their ready to come out or let you in .

anonymous asked:

i saw your got7 crash course and i was wondering if you could give me an exo one?


EXO consist of 9 members

Debuted on April 8, 2012 with Mama

Under SM Entertainment (also home to SHINee, SNSD, F(x), NCT, Red Velvet and more)

EXO Official Accounts: Twitter, Instagram, Facebook

EXO Fandom Name: EXO-L


  • Real Name: Kim JunMyun
  • Born in Seoul, South Korea
  • Position: Leader, Lead Vocalist
  • Birthday: May 22, 1991
  • Languages: Korean
  • His ideal type is a girl with literary interests and has long straight hair.


  • Real Name: Kim MinSeok
  • Born in Guri, Gyeonggi-do, South Korea
  • Position: Lead Vocalist, Lead Dancer
  • Birthday: March 26, 1990
  • Languages:  Korean, Chinese
  • Part of EXO’s first sub unit EXO-CBX
  • His ideal type is someone who is hug-able and can give comfort to others.


  • Real Name: Zhang Yixing (张艺兴)
  • Born in Changsha, Hunan, China
  • Position: Main Dancer, Vocalist
  • Birthday: October 7, 1991
  • Languages: Chinese, Korean
  • His ideal type is someone who is cute and filial
  • Instagram: @zyxzjs


  • Real Name: Byun BaekHyun
  • Born in Gyeonggi-do, South Korea
  • Position: Main Vocalist
  • Birthday: May 6, 1992
  • Languages: Korean
  • Part of EXO’s first sub unit EXO-CBX
  • His ideal type is a woman with full of charms
  • Instagram: @baekhyunee_exo


  • Real Name: Kim JongDae
  • Born in Siheung, Gyeonggi-do, South Korea
  • Position: Main Vocalist
  • Birthday: September 21, 1992
  • Languages: Korean, Chinese
  • Part of EXO’s first sub unit EXO-CBX
  • His ideal type is someone who is like a noona: someone that would take good care of him


Real Name: Park ChanYeol

Born is Seoul, South Korea

Position: Main Rapper, Vocalist, Visual

Birthday: November 27, 1992

Langauges: Korean

His ideal type is someone cute, sincere and who smiles a lot

Instagram @real_pcy


  • Real Name: Do KyungSoo
  • Born in Goyang, Gyeonggi Province, South Korea
  • Position: Main Vocalist
  • Birthday: January 12, 1993
  • Languages: Korean
  • He is a popular actor
  • His ideal type is a girl who is kind and eats well. As for celebrities, his ideal type is Minah from Girl’s Day


  • Real Name: Kim JongIn
  • Born in Seoul, South Korea
  • Position: Main Dancer, Vocalist, Rapper, Visual, Face of the Group
  • Languages: Korean
  • Best friends with SHINee’s Taemin
  • His ideal type is someone like Han Yeseul


  • Real Name: Oh SeHun
  • Position: Lead Dancer, Lead Rapper, Vocalist, Visual, Maknae
  • Langauges: Korean
  • His ideal type is a kind woman
  • Instagram: @oohsehun



  • Real Name:  Wu Yifan (吴亦凡)
  • Born in Guangzhou, Guangdong, China
  • Position: Main Rapper, Vocalist
  • Birthday: November 6, 1990
  • Languages: English, Mandarin, Cantonese, Korean
  • His ideal type is someone who is kind, knows how to cook, is filial, and can take care of people.
  • On May 15, 2014, Kris filed a lawsuit against SM asking for the termination of his contract and left EXO.
  • Instagram: @galaxy_fafan


  • Real Name: LuHan (鹿晗)
  • Born in Beijing Haidian, China
  • Position: Lead Vocalist, Lead Dancer, Face of The Group
  • Birthday: April 20, 1990
  • Languages: Chinese, Korean
  • His ideal type is someone who is demure and quiet.
  • On October 10, 2015, Lu Han filed a lawsuit against SM Entertainment asking for the termination of his contract, and left EXO
  • Instagram: @7_luhan_m


  • Real Name: Huang Zitao (黄子韬)
  • Born in Qingdao, China
  • Position: Lead Rapper, Vocalist Maknae
  • Birthday: May 2, 1993
  • Languages: Chinese, Korean
  • His ideal type is is someone who is pretty and has a nice body, as well as a nice personality.
  • On August 24 2015, he filled a lawsuit against S.M. Entertainment
  • Instagram: @hztttao






gnomer-denois  asked:

I think my notes hc was eaten, but hc that Anxiety had his hoodie filled with stimmy objects and comfort objects that he can hold or fiddle with whenever he needs to and his hands are usually in the hoodie for the videos because he's worried about being with the group, like that they'll kick him out. But also to calm him down because he gets frustrated that Thomas doesn't listen to him when he's not being mean.

ooooh i like it !

You remind me of the ocean. Your voice can lull and rock me into a comfort, you seep deep into every fiber of my body. Water falls over me, the lapping of warm ocean water a constant only you can provide. Other times you heave your powerful hand from deep within and suck me into a drowning panic. You can throw harsh sprays and lashes that leave words imprinted like sand grains embedded in the skin.
—  g.e. // March 23rd

“You still love him.

its written all over your face.”

Something in the silence says.

“He broke my heart. I can’t pretend that it didn’t hurt me when he left me to find comfort in loneliness. I can’t let him do that all over again.”

I say

“Would you take him back.?”

“yes, yes. my god, I would take him in a heartbeat.”

he was awfully good at catching my heart and I was always weak to call him mine.

anonymous asked:

Im about to get a binder soon but im scared that people will start noticing that i wear it and idk what to do?? Do people notice and all? Or do they just not care?

Kii says:

People who already know you might notice, but in my experience, they’re not really going to say anything. Commenting on the size of someone’s chest is usually not appropriate, so people usually aren’t comfortable asking about it. If someone does say something, you can also just ask them not to talk about/look at your chest.

Every morning, the ray of the sun wakes me up. It tells me to start a new day. It gives me comfort and warmth that can make me feel better. And i always think that the sun never get tired of shining to give us light and that gives me motivation to keep moving. Sometimes i feel hollow inside that i don’t want to open my eyes and just sleep for the rest of my life. But God never fails to wake me every single day to remind me how blessed i am to wake up every morning to continue and accomplish all the things i need to do and be better than yesterday. We are all lucky to be given the chance to see the sun and to spend another day.

anonymous asked:

Hi Nat. I have a wacom intuos but every time I use it I end up with some sketches and a pain in my neck. No, I'm not sitting like some kind of snake I just can't find a comfortable position I guess o-o Any tips? thanks :)

Do you want me to help you find the comfortable position?… ( ͠° ͜ʖ ͡°) You can always hire a masseur who would massage your neck while you’re working. Or buy a better chair. Or take breaks and stretch. Or consult your doctor.

what if

Okay so like we all know Lena probably isn’t that experienced in the dating department (because who would want to date a Luthor + probably being pretty focused on her education most likely) – like she’s obviously not dated zero people (that guy who I still headcanon as having been a beard and Veronica Sinclair) but those were probably still when she was in boarding school plus she wasn’t actually into Jack anyway. Plus it’s (or at least can be) so intimate and that really scares her until Kara?? so like

What if she’s actually a virgin?? And she goes to have sex with Kara and she’s super nervous but definitely doesn’t want to admit she’s never done this before. Though Kara of course picks up on her nerves and asks what’s wrong, and she’s not gonna let things go further until Lena is comfortable.

Which, Lena can’t deny being nervous but she totally tries to play it off as being because it’s her first time with Kara specifically rather than at all. And Kara tries to reassure her but it’s not really working – Lena tries to say she’s fine, but Kara can tell she’s still nervous, and she’s getting the feeling there’s something Lena isn’t telling her. So finally, she’s just like, “Please, tell me what’s actually wrong? We don’t have to do this if you don’t want to – you know that, right?”

“I want to!” Because that’s one thing she knows for sure. But that leaves her with pretty much no choice but to admit it. And really, it does make her feel safe that Kara doesn’t want to go charging on when she’s nervous for no known reason. So she mumbles, “I’ve just never done this before.”

Ohh,” she says, thinking she gets it. Kara smiles reassuringly “Don’t worry. I’ve never been with a woman before either, but we’ll figure it out.”

She fidgets slightly, feeling even more embarrassed. “Not just ‘with a woman.’ I’ve never been with anyone in this way.” And she quickly starts to explain, “It’s– so intimate, and I was never comfortable with that until you…”

Kara brushes some hair from Lena’s face. “You don’t need to explain yourself to me. It’s okay.” She kisses her gently. “I’d be honored to be your first.”

(Lena being Lena, she might cry a lil tbh.)

ladydreamgirl  asked:

I was wondering if you had any posts other than the "Things I will not do to my characters" live journal post laying out potentially triggering things that you will or won't include in your work under your own name? I have a vague memory of reading something of the sort from you, but now I can't find it and I want to know wether I need to look up spoilers for my triggers so that I can comfortably continue reading the Toby books after running into a trigger I didn't expect.

Unfortunately, no.  The “things I will not do to my characters” post was less about trigger warnings, and more about “this is a thing I do not do, if you’re looking for the thing, you will not find it here.”  Everything else is still on the table if I need it.

I don’t know what triggered you, so I can’t say whether that thing is going to happen again.  I also can’t promise, even if there are no plans for a thing now, that something won’t happen in the future.  I try to be kind, and I try to be mindful, but I am also working from the place of my own sensitivities, and that maze sometimes takes me to places where you may not want to go.

If you want to ask direct questions, I can sometimes answer them; I will frequently not answer them publicly, so a new Ask would be best.

anonymous asked:

Hey i'm a transmasculine hs student and I need some advice. Softball season starts next week and it's my favorite sport, but the uniforms give me super bad dysphoria. It's these tight v-neck tops and tight capris. It really shows off my curves in a way I'm uncomfortable with, especially bc i can't bind while exercising. I didn't wanna quit bc it's my senior year and I'm the captain, but idk what I can do to make the uniform feel more comfortable. Please help!

There are sports bras that flatten your chest a little without restricting breathing in the way a binder does, so you could look into getting one of those. Other than that, I would recommend talking to your coach about it and asking if you can wear something else, such as a loose v-neck instead of a tight one. If it’s a uniform shirt, ask if you can order a different fit of the same style/color/design somehow. The sooner you bring it up, the better, as there may exist solutions that are time-sensitive.

You don’t need to out yourself in order to talk about this; you can say something like, “The uniforms are so tight that I’m really uncomfortable wearing them, and I think I really need to wear something else or I don’t know if I can play. I don’t want to cause a problem or stand out, but my discomfort from wearing this particular style of uniform will be constantly on my mind and I would really like to work out a solution so I can enjoy playing this season.” It might help if you talk about it with some of your teammates so they’re aware of how you’re feeling and can support you, though that is something you should judge based on your specific relationship with them. I went through this same experience in drumline when I was in high school, so I totally understand what you’re going through and I hope you can work something out!


If I die..
I wanted to become one with the clouds. To feel its softness and comfort. I wanted to be up in the sky where I can always look down on the people I love. To pour my heart out in the form of small droplets of water. To let them know I’m sad and hurting in the form of a raging storm. To express my anger with thunderstorms. To always stun people with flashes of lightning. But more importantly to make them smile as they look up to witness a double rainbow in the sky.

anyareh  asked:

Question! It was mentioned in ch18 that yuuri had a different choreographer for his joe hisaishi programs. Why /did/ they bring in a new choreographer? Especially since minako and riku did an amazing job for the previous season :o thank you!! And thank you for your drabbles, they're amazing <3

Riku and Minako are great at choreographing for Yuuri, but, and this was Alexei’s thought process – Yuuri has to be able to work with other people.  Alexei approaches his time as Yuuri’s coach as temporary, always has.  Soone of his goals is to make sure that Yuuri can work with people outside of his comfort zone.  It wasn’t that the choreographer was bad, in general, it was just that his style didn’t mesh with Yuuri’s style and it took a lot of tweaking over the entire season to get the pieces where they ended.  It wasn’t that they were bad pieces or weak technically, just that it took time to make them mesh with Yuuri’s style.

His next choreographer is going to be awesome. (And also not Alexei, Riku or Minako) :P 

anonymous asked:

Do you have any tips for helping partners/friends/etc be more helpful to littles?

Well, I am not an expert and am still figuring it out but here goes:

  • make a list of instructions for them to follow depending on which alter is out, this can really ease anxiety and create a safer space quickly
  • list safe media and items so that they know what is okay to give/show whoever is fronting
  • remind them that littles are KIDS and even though they may have a handful of adult skills, they should be treated in a developmentally appropriate manner
  • create boxes of goodies for various frequently fronting littles! include a favorite snack, a comfort item, and a movie/show they like, maybe a coloring book? it really depends on the kid
  • i really recommend investing in a weighted plushie or weighted blanket. it can be comforting to all ages but especially littles 

the best advice is provide plans! let people know what they need to do for alters and most will do their best to meet those needs. having written instructions makes everything so much easier!

when i was at school and basically lived on skype calls, i gave my friend a list of instructions about our little. things like a list of behaviors she might display and appropriate ways to handle them. i also listed some websites with kid friendly doll makers and links to kids movies. it really helped ease anxiety for everyone and made situations more manageable!!!!

anonymous asked:

"And if Mila was there to comfort hr during her off times with Lucy and vice versa I can see how she would suck between them both." ~but wouldn't that be unfair for mila and lucy tho..? i mean of course we don't know the exact timeline but it's only 4 and a half years we've witnessed, wouldn't that be like enough time for lauren to choose who she really wanted to be with, and let go of the other for good?

Not necessarily… She could have honestly not been able to choose between the two and Mila’s leaving made it easier for her to decide. But it doesn’t look like things lasted very long during this Laucy “on time”. Not to minimize what she had with Lucy but it’s possible she was trying to force something with Lucy that came naturally with Mila, because 1. Her family knows and loves Lucy 2. Their lives and friends are so intertwined that disentangling themselves from each other is nearly impossible without cutting out mutual relationships 3. The longevity of their relationship and the fear or apprehension of having to start over new with someone or 4. They can’t stand to see the other with someone else so they just kept going back and forth… All speculation of course. But I could see how any of those four things would make a clean break difficult for them. And Mila who clearly has feelings for Lauren was there to pick up those pieces and help her through and things evolved from friendship to more. But because of the nature of their relationship ie bandmates and Mila’s reluctance to admit to something more between them because of her family or career or own personal struggles made it easier for Lauren to keep finding her way back to Lucy. 😩