anonymous asked:

So I accidentally found out that my s/o is dysphoric and is a trans boy. which is 100% okay with me!! But I’ve tried to talk to them about it, and they’re not comfoetable talking about it yet. So I’ve been avoiding using he or they pronouns when its just us but, I’m not sure if that’s the right thing to do? I dont want to make them uncomfortable !

I think just remind them you’re there for them and support them whenever they’re ready to talk and be patient.
I’m sure they’ll open up about it when they feel ready, but it definitely does take time to come to terms with it/being able to talk, so don’t worry! -Matt