cold weather survival tips so y’all can start the new year with soft glowy skin
I posted a list of beauty tips for hot weather on my old blog at the beginning of the summer and it went over really well, so I thought I’d do a cold weather version now that we’re in peak chapped-lips-and-cracked-hands season.
Do yourself a favor by going to the nearest drugstore and buying the biggest tub of Vaseline/petroleum jelly you can find. 90% of Dry Skin Problems™ can be solved by slapping some Vaseline on there.
Seriously. Chapped lips? Use Vaseline as a lip balm. Dry, cracked heels? Slather those feetsies with Vaseline right before you go to bed (just put socks on to keep from getting your sheets all sticky) for an overnight moisturizing treatment. (You can do the same thing on your hands if they’re dry and cracked!) I’ve even used Vaseline to fix severe dry patches on my face and neck. This stuff is a lifesaver.
(You might also wanna get one of those tiny mini tubs to keep in your jacket pocket or in your bag, so you’ll always have it on you. It works way better than lip balm and is the only thing that can keep my lips from cracking and bleeding all winter long.)
While you’re at the store, it’s a good idea to invest in a good lotion. Most scented lotions (especially Bath & Body Works brand) actually make my dry skin worse because of the perfume in them, so you might want to look into an unscented formula. Try to avoid formulas that contain alcohol (which is sometimes used to make the lotion absorb faster) because they’ll dry you out worse than before.
I always recommend using lotions and moisturizers made for sensitive skin even if your skin isn’t actually sensitive, because they don’t have as many harsh ingredients that might draw moisture out of your skin! Looking for formulas with all-natural ingredients (like Burt’s Bees and Yes To) is another good way to avoid heavy chemicals.
Replace your makeup remover with olive oil. It melts makeup right off, and you don’t have to scrub at your face like you do with a lot of makeup removers. It’s also super hydrating and makes my skin feel SO SOFT after I use it. (Just be sure to wash it off with a cleanser before you go to bed.) A lot of people use coconut oil the same way, but I’ve never tried it so I can’t speak for how well it works compared to olive oil.
If your foundation sticks really noticeably to the dry patches on your face, a good hydrating makeup primer can help a lot. e.l.f. has really good, really cheap primers that I swear by, and they even have one specifically made for dry skin! (And you can find them at Walmart and most drugstores, so you can swing by and pick it up while you’re getting your groceries.)
Avoid “matte” or “mattifying” foundation formulas in general if your skin is really dry, because they’ll just make your dry patches more noticeable. Use a “satin finish” or “dewy finish” foundation instead, and if you want to make it look more matte you can always set it with a powder to take away the shine!
If your lips are really dry and scaly, the best thing to do is just exfoliate the dead skin away. You can make your own lip scrub really easily by mixing sugar with either olive oil or honey, and just rub it on your lips to buff off the dry skin. Be sure to follow with Vaseline or a good lip balm!
As a matter of fact, you should really be exfoliating your entire face once or twice a week, especially if you have really dry skin. You can buy exfoliating scrubs at the store for a few bucks or make your own. (My favorite is a homemade scrub with 1 tablespoon of cooled green tea, 2 tablespoons of sugar, and a few drops of tea tree oil. It makes my skin soooo soft and helps fade my acne scars.)
Consider replacing your moisturizer with a face-safe oil like jojoba or rosehip at night. (I wouldn’t recommend using olive oil or coconut oil for this though, because they’re a little too heavy.) I started using rosehip oil every night to help with the scarring on my face, and it makes my skin feel so good. It doesn’t absorb right away, so it’s almost like sleeping in a face mask every night, and you wake up with a baby-soft face. This is the first winter I haven’t had really dry patches on my face, and I think using facial oils has a lot to do with it.
If your lipstick is drying out your lips, use a very light layer of Vaseline as a lip primer! This also makes the lipstick go on smoother – I’ve been using this trick for chalky/streaky lipsticks for years. (I told you, Vaseline is a lifesaver.)
I know everyone on tumblr is always saying this, but it really is important; you gotta stay hydrated. Drink water. (Drinks like soda actually dehydrate you, so it really does have to be water.) If your skin is just feeling a little dryer than usual, it could be because you just aren’t getting enough water. Increasing your water intake is a really easy, completely free way to help your skin out.
And fyi, these tips aren’t just for girls! If you’re a guy with dry skin, feel free to use any and all of the things I talked about in this post! Taking care of your body is gender neutral and everybody deserves to have nice skin.
England, 1897. English Professor Louis Tomlinson’s passion for the occult has been a source of mockery and derision for most of his life. When he hears whispers of a traveling freak show newly established in London claiming the existence of a monstrous sea hybrid, half-man, half-fish, Louis sees it as his ticket to credibility amongst his peers. The summer he spends undercover working on the show, however, gives him much more than that.
A lot of witches will struggle with grounding at first. Even after years of practice, it can be difficult to do it if you’re stressed or having a bad day. Those are, though, the times when it is most helpful! I’ve found that visual and sensory cues can be helpful in the process.
I’ve created this small spell for grounding extraneous energy. It uses ordinary tap water and a bathroom (or kitchen) sink! You could perform it with any cold, running water, though. Since I’m in the city, I use a sink and tap water!
To begin, go into your kitchen or bathroom. Turn on the water, particularly the cold water. Why cold water? Cold is an intense experience for most of us. So is heat, to be honest, but hot water can burn. With cold water, you get a sort of shock, but you have more leeway. Allow the water to run until it’s very cold, if need be.
Then begin the next step. Make yourself aware of what’s going on in your head. Notice the extraneous bits, be they emotional, or thoughts, that swirl around.
Visualize those unnecessary and unproductive things as taking on a particular color. The actual color itself doesn’t matter as much as your own associations for it. It should be appropriate to the dominant unwanted force you’re experiencing.
For example, say you want to ground the force of your own anger. You might choose the color red (if you associate that with anger). Tint the energy that’s unsettling you with your chosen color. Then, visualize that color flowing from your head. You might also visualize it flowing from other parts of your body, if necessary.
Flow as much as possible into your hands, which may feel heavy or unpleasant while doing this. Take a few minutes to visualize your hands tinged with the color.
Then, plunge them into the stream of cold water. Push the colored energy from your fingertips into the stream. Your hands will tingle from the water and the forces at work. If you’re like me, and quite sensitive to cold, you’ll feel very alive. This facilitates the process of pushing the energy into the stream.
If you’re practiced at seeing auras, you might actually see the color flowing from your hands. Either way, visualize it flowing down the drain! If you’ve a bit of privacy or are good at vibrating incantations in your head, the following might help:
Water, wash away all that isn’t of me Take it away and cleanse it in the sea As I will, so it shall be.
I don’t use an incantation every time I do this. I do use it pretty often, though. You may ask why my incantation mentions the sea, given that I use tap water. Well, think about it! Most people learn about the water cycle in school. This knowledge informs us of the fact that all water returns to the ocean.
The ocean, salt-filled and pulled every which way by the Moon, is an excellent force to call to for cleansing. In this spell, the small stream of tap water stands in for the greater water of the sea, and connects with it. I’m not a sea witch and rarely visit the ocean (I’m in Poland), but water allows that connection to happen.
I hope you found this spell useful and that this post helps you in some way!