coercion is not consent people! it is not your job to convince someone to want to have sex with you! you are grown! this isn’t about reading minds! does “i don’t think so” sound like a yes to you? does “i don’t really want to right now” sound like a yes to you? does “this is only the first date” sound like a yes to you? it’s no longer about “no means no” people. the absence of a clear, positive yes and continuous and active consent means that you do not have consent to move forward. you are not reading minds, you are having the basic human decency to respect someone who doesn’t want to do something. stop feigning ignorance. fuck off.
Wait, can you elaborate on "the only consent that counts is enthusiastic consent" as a form of radfem rhetoric? I am in very inclusive circles irl that are kink, nonbinary, trans, and sex work friendly and, as far as I know, people in my circles also believe that.