child hatred

A child whose life is full of the threat and fear of punishment is locked into babyhood. There is no way for him to grow up, to learn to take responsibility for his life and acts. Most important of all, we should not assume that having to yield to the threat of our superior force is good for the child’s character. It is never good for anyone’s character.
—  John Holt

I get really grossed out when I think about the fact that there are some people in the Potter fandom that think that “Ron isn’t good enough for Hermione” or “she deserves better.”

It completely goes against the foundational themes of the book (love is the most important thing, people are more complex, friendship rocks, surface judgments can only go so far, etc.) and honestly reduces a thoroughly GOOD character to… well, nothing, while also exalting an imperfect character onto a pedestal.

So sorry, I’m not here for your Ron-shaming, but I am most definitely here for the fact that in every timeline in Cursed Child, they are still in love with each other, and we see how their relationship impacts BOTH of them.

Love yourself. You don’t have to like yourself very much right now but never forget that you are a wonderful human being worthy of love and care. So love yourself. You are a child of the universe. Treat yourself like you are made of stardust because you are.

Since I received so many requests that were pretty much the same for a Bleach AU, I decided to join them together! Because there are so many characters though, the headcanons will be a bit shorter. I do hope you don’t mind, my lovely readers, and enjoy the headcanons!


Yamamoto Headcanons

  • Yamamoto is one of the youngest people to achieve Bankai and will be known throughout all of his career as a Soul Reaper as being one of the people most in tune with his Zanpakuto. He just seems to naturally develop a close bond with it easily and doesn’t treat it as any kind of special thing at all - he’s very modest about it all, praising his Zanpakuto and not himself. 
  • However, Yamamoto will not become a seated officer until he’s quite a bit older, no matter how young he is when he gains a Bankai. He simply has no ambition to progress up the ranks - it means very little to him actually. He just wants to be able to have fun with his friends, to keep everyone safe from Hollows, to help souls cross over, and still have time to play baseball.

Hibari Headcanons

  • Though he was the most promising student at Soul Academy, Hibari gets shuffled through the different divisions for a long time due to his more ‘problem child’ demeanor and hatred of other people. Eventually, he settles into a solo assignment, through the Second Division. Nobody’s entirely sure what exactly he does, only that he spends a lot of time away from the Seireitei. Nobody’’s very sad about that.
  • Hibari refuses to use Kido at all and rarely uses his Zanpakuto. He is, however, a master of Hakuda and Hohō.

Mukuro Headcanons

  • Mukuro is lieutenant of Division Twelve. He really wanted to join that division, despite his hatred for the Captain, half because he’s genuinely kind of interested in advancing all the wonderful things about Soul Society, especially when it comes to weapons and Kido, and half because it’s been known pretty publicly that if you pretend to work hard, you can pretty much get away with not really doing anything most days.
  • Mukuro will have a very, very heated competition with his Captain. He hates the bastard and the feelings are mutual but the two of them are so similar that they even share the same hidden motto of keeping your enemies close.

Daemon Headcanons

  • Daemon will be Captain of Division Twelve for years until the spot is stolen from him by his Lieutenant, who also serves to get him arrested by the other Captains and taken to the Maggot’s Nest for experiments going against the rules of Soul Society.
  • Oddly enough, while everyone remained terrified of Division Twelve, including it’s own members, who worked quietly and alone always, during his tenure, Daemon and the rest of the Division introduced some of the most brilliant new technologies into Soul Society.

Byakuran Headcanons

  • Byakuran’s a Bount, a mistake of the Soul Society’s, with twin Dolls that resemble dragons.
  • Byakuran will gather fellow Bount, outcast Soul Reapers, Quincy, and spiritually aware humans he could persuade to follow him in an effort to overthrow Soul Society. The plot would fail but he’d develop an uneasy alliance with the Soul Society in the future.

Alaude Headcanons

  • Alaude will be a former, retired Soul Reaper. Sick of what he saw as the decline of Soul Society and all the restrictions placed on him, he left, hiding in the world of the living until Soul Society just gave up looking for him.
  • Alaude would secretly mentor special students, the best and brightest spiritually aware humans he could find, teaching them to fight Hollows, though there were many close calls, watching as they grew and reproduced, unknowingly creating the first group of Fullbringers.

Fon Headcanons

  • Echoing the duality of the Arcobaleno in KHR, I picture all of the Arcobaleno, including Fon, to be something very like a Vizard, a combination of both Hollow and Soul Reaper. His hollow mask resembles a monkey.
  • Before becoming a Vizard, Fon was actually Kenpachi, Captain of Division Eleven. Though he was renown for his strength and skill, he was most well known for being the strangest and most relaxed Division Eleven Captain.

Reborn Headcanons

  • Again, like the other Arcobaleno, Reborn is something very similar to a Vizard, a mixture of both Hollow and Soul Reaper. He’ll be one of the best at handling the change and building a new life outside of Soul Society, though he’d be one of the more bitter about it.
  • Before becoming a Vizard, Reborn was Captain of the Thirteenth Division and one of the few to have been known to wield dual Zanpakuto, especially to his degree of mastery.

When you see a movie about a gay person falling in love,
And the first sentence out of your mouth is
‘Thats disgusting’,
You force your own child further into the closet and further into self hatred,
How could someone love themselves when their own parents hate them without even knowing them?

When you insist that anyone who doesn’t believe in your Christian god,
Is a terrible, and immoral human being who will never be able to do right,
You force your own child further into the hatred of religion.

When you insist that anyone who says that they’re the 'opposite’ gender,
Is a pervert and a freak,
You force your own child further into the closet and further into self hatred.

Don’t force your child to be something they’re not.

~Jay Thanatos

The Year Before Sasuke Left

Chapter 1: Damp Earth

It smelled of damp earth. It smelled of blood, and sweat, and tears—it smelled of new beginnings and reestablished ties and Sakura didn’t think she’d ever inhaled anything quite so…fragrant. Not in all of her life.

Her hands bloomed rehabilitation. Pink brows dipped low as flesh mended, capillaries healed, and the Ulnar and Radial arteries that had been severed into mangled clumps cauterized perfectly.

The smell of blood had never been nauseating to her. Sakura was a medic, after all. She had performed autopsies on cadavers and surgery on the living. Sasuke and Naruto had been stuck in the in-between for a while, teetering around limbo as their detached arms seeped red fluid. There truly was a line between “almost dead” and “almost alive”, and the boys had been crossing sides rapidly.

“Thanks, Sakura-chan!” Naruto says. His voice is guttural, seeping from the back of his throat as if it was dry and he’d been talking too much. Knowing him, he had been. Baka, don’t keep talking.

“Sakura, I…” This is Sasuke.

Sasuke who defected, Sasuke who hated, Sasuke who threatened and raises his hand to her. She hasn’t heard this sound in a very long time—it sounds brittle and husky and as much as Sakura wants to hear what he has to say, she has other important things to take care of. He’s too distracting, too devastatingly beautiful.

“Don’t. I need to concentrate.”

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I Hate You

Request: “imagine where luke is a child along with leia, and luke says ‘i hate you’ for the first time? Maybe anakin made him mad? How the reader and anakin react is up to you, and maybe luke runs to obi-wan?”

Prompt: Anakin upsets Luke, causing him to say ‘I hate you’ for the first time, and run to Obi-Wan for comfort.

A/N: I really enjoyed writing this, I hope you enjoy x

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anonymous asked:

I'm sorry but you honestly can't blame people for getting pissed off at people with autism OK bc I work as a cashier and several times autistic people have come in and they are nothing but fucking annoying and hold up the line and piss EVERYONE off

Fuck you. You are a heartless monster. Autistic people are not doing these things because they are trying to be annoying, they do them because their minds are wired differently. How would you like having panic attacks because of loud noises or not feeling comfortable unless you’re stimming? Don’t you fucking dare come to our goddamn blog knowing I’m a mother to an autistic child with your bullshit hatred. Find some understanding and patience in that black heart of yours or let it suffocate you as it grows darker and larger until it constricts your throat. I seriously hope you never have a child with autism because you’d probably be a terrible autism parent with that kind of ignorance. -Abby

WAS TYWIN'S HATRED FOR TYRION SOLELY DUE TO JOANNA'S DEATH ?

(To make things clear, I will adress here the issue of Tywin Lannister with his son from Tywin’s point of view. But that in no case means I agree with the abuse he did on Tyrion ; it was gross and undeserved, and shouldn’t have happened at all because nobody should be abused for things he cannot control at all. Keep that in mind when you read this - it’s from Tywin’s point of view)

I was re-watching some episodes of GOT, and I came to see this moment where Tywin blatantly tells Tyrion he hates him and wanted to kill him. And that got me thinking. Why so much hatred ? A lot of mothers died in childbirth in ASOIAF, yet the father didn’t seem to hate the child. So, was Tywin’s hatred solely due to Joanna’s death ?

My opinion is, no. She was one of the factors, sure, but not the only one.

We’re gonna start by the obvious one, Tyrion’s “responsability” in Joanna’s death. Us (sane) readers know it’s an heresy to hold a baby responsible for his mother’s death. Yet Tywin strongly resents him for that.

The reason is of course his love for Joanna. She truly seems to have been the love of his life, and probably one of the only women he respected.

« Lord Tywin seldom spoke of his wife, but Tyrion had heard his uncles talk of the love between them. In those days, his father had been Aerys’s Hand, and many people said that Lord Tywin Lannister ruled the Seven Kingdoms, but Lady Joanna ruled Lord Tywin. » Tyrion, ASOS

« ‘Every man needs someone he can trust. Tywin had me, and once your mother.’» (-Kevan Lannister) Cersei, AFFC

The main proof of his love, I think, is how he considered Joanna to be his equal or the closest of an equal a woman could be to him. We know that Westeros’s patriarchy is deeply rooted in Tywin’s mind. But with Joanna he estimed her enough to take counsel to her, to think her ideas were important enough so he listened to them (he’s not that kind with Cersei).

Tywin wasn’t known to be a joyous fellow, smiling rarely and never laughing as he misliked laughter (I’ll come to that later). Joanna was one of the only ones able to pull a smile out of him out of genuine happiness.

« Men say that Tywin never smiled, but he smiled when he wed your mother (…) » (-Genna Lannister) Jaime, AFFC

« 'Only Lady Joanna truly knows the man beneath the armor’, Grand Maester Pycelle wrote the Citadel, 'and all his smiles belong to her and her alone. I do avow that I have even observed her make him laugh, not once, but upon three separate occasions !’ » The World of Ice and Fire (that is so very cute)

Joanna must have had a deep influence on him. I’m not saying he went to Grumpy Cat to over-happy Tywin but he was definitively more relaxed and prompt to happiness with her around. Their marriage was one of love and loving - something quite rare in ASOIAF.

« Though Tywin Lannister was not a man given to public display, it is said that his love for his lady wife was deep and long-abiding. » The World of Ice and Fire

So when she died, it must have been devastating for Tywin. You can say what you want about his ruthleness bordering cruelty, his lack of feelings and his disdain for anything and anybody outside the Lannister family, losing a loved one is a hard blow.

« 'He was not the same man after she died, Imp,’ his Uncle Gery told him once. 'The best part of him died with her.’ » Tyrion, ASOS

And that’s where Tyrion comes into play. Joanna died giving birth to him, which led Tywin to a thought like « If you were never born she would still be here ». He is responsible for her death. But there is worse. Because not only Tyrion’s birth led to the death of the love of his life, but he’s also born a dwarf.

I think it’s quite clear with Tyrion’s chapters, but being a dwarf in Westeros is very difficult. And even there, he is protected by the Lannister name and money and the reputation of his father – he is quite « lucky », because no one is allowed to lay a hand on him with impunity (that doesn’t prevent the emotional blows though). Others don’t have this luck. Dwarves are considered abnormal, evil even. It’s totally ok to torment them, ridiculize them or simply kill them (some cultures like the free folk or the Dothraki immediatly kill the child when it becomes obvious he’s a dwarf).

So Tyrion is at best a joke to others, at worst an abomination. We see it’s difficult for Tyrion but also for Tywin.

See, Tywin’s main preoccupation is to ensure the Lannisters’s honor, power and reputation. When he was a kid he had to endure the mockeries of his father’s bannermen due to his weakness and mild temper.

« Our own father was gentle and amiable, but so weak his bannermen mocked him in their cups. Some saw fit to defy him openly. Other lords borrowed our gold and never troubled to repay it. At court they japed of toothless lions. » (-Kevan Lannister) Tyrion, ASOS

Tywin saw the damages of these laughters on his family – and thus the Lannisters’s grasp on power. Nobody respected Tytos, so nobody was taking the threat of the Lannister’s wrath seriously. People were doing what they wanted and Tytos’s lack of reprisal only worsened their case. Tywin saw that even as a young boy and had to resort to drastic actions in order to restore their name.

« Tywin Lannister’s own father Lord Tytos had once imprisoned an unruly bannerman, Lord Tarbeck. The redoutable Lady Tarbeck responded by capturing three Lannisters, including young Stafford, whose,sister was betrothed to cousin Tywin. 'Send back my lord and love, or these three shall answer for any harm that comes him,’ she had written to Casterly Rock. Young Tywin suggested his father oblige by sending back Lord Tarbeck in three pieces. Lord Tytos was a gentler sort of lion, however, so Lady Tarbeck won a few more years for her muttonheaded lord, and Stafford wed and bred and blundered on till Oxcross. But Tywin Lannister endured, eternal as Casterly Rock. » Jaime, ASOS (Well, he didn’t do anything but the intention was there !)

« 'I was seven when Walder Frey persuaded my lord father to give my hand to Emm. His second son, not even his heir. Father was himself a thirdborn son, and younger children crave the approval of their elders. Frey sensed that we'akness in him, and Father agreed for no better reason than to please him. My betrothal was announced was announced at a feast with half the west in attendance. Ellyn Tarbeck laughed and the Red Lion went angry from the hall. The rest sat on their tongues. Only Tywin dared speak against the match. A boy of ten. Father turned as white as mare’s milk and Walder Frey was quivering. How could I not love him after that ? That is not to say I approved of all he did, or much enjoyed the compagny of the man he became… but every little girl needs a big brother to protect her. Tywin was big even when he was little. » (-Genna Lannister) Jaime, AFFC

And of course the slaughter of House Tarbeck and Reyne, leading to the famous Rains of Castamere…

Thus, laughter became something associated with shame and weakness. Tywin had to keep a serious and capable face (which is why Joanna making him laugh in public is so amazing and proof of his love) to show the world he wasn’t like his father and you couldn’t mess with him like with Tytos (nicknamed the Laughing Lion). But laughter from others reminded him of disobedience, of shame from their bad reputation and all the problems and bad feelings that came along.

« 'Tywin mistrusted laughter. He heard too many people laughing at your grandsire.’ » (-Genna Lannister) Jaime, AFFC

That’s why he is so mindful of the Lannister’s reputation and why Tyrion is such a problem for him. People laugh at him, and through him the Lannisters. His nature as a dwarf throws a shadow of shame on the family, and especially on Tywin. Don’t forget he was seen as Tywin’s punishment for having more power than Aerys :

« Lord Tywin had made himself greater than King Aerys, I heard one begging brother preach, but only a god is meant to stand above a king. You were his curse, a punishment sent by the gods to teach him that he was no better than any other man. » (-Oberyn Martell) Tyrion, ASOS

It became a personal slight. I don’t know how much credit Tywin gave to these rumors but it must have influenced him somehow, despite him not being very religious. After all Tyrion killed his beloved wife and undoes what he had tried so hard to build along the years, he must do that on purpose !

So Tyrion is an affront for the Lannister’s reputation and Tywin’s. And it’s not like, growing up, Tyrion’s behavior did much to rectify his existence. He is known in all the realm for drinking and whoring, his affair with Tysha put the Lannisters to shame (again, in Tywin’s mind). He did nothing to bring honor or pride on the family (not like many opportunities were given to him…)

« 'You ask that ? You, who killed your mother to come into the world ? You are an ill-made, devious, disobedient, spiteful little creature full of envy, lust, and low cunning. Men’s laws give you the right to bear my name and display my colors, since I cannot prove that you are not mine. To teach me humility, the gods have condemned me to watch you waddle about wearing that proud lion that was my father’s sigil and his father’s before him. But neither gods nor men shall ever compel me to let you turn Casterly Rock into your whorehouse.’ » (-Tywin) Tyrion, ASOS (aka Tywin’s feelings to Tyrion in one quote)

Tywin allows no showing of weakness, and that goes with improper behavior – with others but also with himself. He’s so relentless everyone in Westeros thought he hadn’t slept with anybody since his wife died ! He wanted his people to keep their “intimate affairs” private. Which Tyrion does not.

However, I think Tywin was very much seeing himself in his son – but was in total denial. He has this tendency to block out things he doesn’t wanna see (like let’s say the fact two of his kids are fucking each other) even when they dance naked in front of him. Of all his children, Tyrion is probably the one that is the more like him.

« [Cersei] liked to think of herself as Lord Tywin with teats, but she was wrong. Their father had been as relentless and implacable as a glacier, where Cersei was all wildfire, especially when thwarted… » Jaime, AFFC

« Cersei sniffed. “I should have been born a man. I would have no need of any of you then. None of this would have been allowed to happen. How could Jaime let himself be captured by that boy ? And Father, I trusted in him, fool that I am, but where is he now that he’s wanted ? What is he doing ?”

Making war.”

From behind the walls of Harrenhal ?” she said scornfully. “A curious way of fighting. It looks suspiciously like hiding.”

Look again.”

What else would you call it? Father sits in one castle, and Robb Stark sits in another, and no one does anything.”

There is sitting and there is sitting,” Tyrion suggested. “Each one waits for the other to move, but the lion is still, poised, his tail twitching, while the fawn is frozen by fear, bowels turned to jelly. No matter which way he bounds, the lion will have him, and he knows it.”

And you’re quite certain that Father is the lion ?”

Tyrion grinned. “It’s on all our banners.”

She ignored the jest. “If it was Father who’d been taken captive, Jaime would not be sitting by idly, I promise you.”

Jaime would be battering his host to bloody bits against the walls of Riverrun, and the Others take their chances. He never did have any patience, no more than you, sweet sister. » Tyrion, ASOS

Cersei has his ambition, Jaime his charisma but both lacks the patience and the understanding of situations of Tywin. It’s Tyrion who thinks and rules like him. Where Cersei and Joffrey are convinced of the importance of fear and absolute obedience, Tywin and Tyrion know sometimes you had to forgive and give if you want to be followed (« When your ennemies defy you, you must serve them steel and fire. When they go to their knees, however, you must help them back to their feet. Elsewise no man will ever bend the knee to you. » (-Tywin) Tyrion, ASOS). They are both politically astute and plays the game in a similar way – giving useful people what they want (« A Lannister always pays his debts ») so they owe him after (Cersei tries to do that but she gives to the wrong people and offend the useful ones). They also share some martial abilities (making plans) and Tywin, despite him wanting it to be kept secret, wasn’t indifferent to whores – I mean, he made a tunnel joining the castle to the brothel be built so that he could visit whores and nobody could see him. How often did he go ? Maybe as often as Tyrion.

(I think there’s more but we really don’t know enough of Tywin’s tastes to continue.)

But Tywin, for all the reasons listed above, hated Tyrion. How hard was it to see himself in this person he hated ? So he blocked it out and strongly resented anybody that drew the parallel :

« 'Jaime,’ she said, tugging on his ear, 'sweetling, I have known you since you were a babe at Joanna’s breast. You smile like Gerion and fight like Tyg, and there’s some of Kevan in you, else you would not wear that cloak… but Tyrion is Tywin’s son, not you. I said so once to your father’s face, and he would not speak to me for half a year. (…)’ » (-Genna Lannister) Jaime, AFFC

So, that’s my take on Tywin’s feelings towards his son. I’m not saying they’re right (they’re not) or even excusable, but we can understand where this hatred comes from.

Is homosexuality sinful or evil?

I found this on internet , and I really wanted to share this with you, for all the religion people who are scared to be gay.

Conservative Christian groups tend to share the following beliefs:

  • The Bible makes it clear that homosexuality is a sin.
  • Being gay is fundamentally wrong, unnatural, and even a psychological problem.
  • Being a gay is a choice or, more specifically,  being a practising homosexual is a choice
  • Homosexuality is not genetic and doesn’t begins in the womb i.e. God would not create gay people.

A view from a religion gay person, I think he says a lot good stuff what is true ( and scientist say also)

Homosexuality occurs naturally and is considered by many to be a normal type of sexual orientation. Gay people are more or less visible in society depending on its attitude  toward homosexuality. A gay person in a very homophobic country with anti-gay laws and fervent religious persecution will likely hide who they are out of fear. This creates the illusion that homosexuality occurs less - or doesn’t exist at all - in deeply religious  parts of the world.

What comes to mind when you consider what’s wrong with the world? War, poverty, environmental decay,  animal cruelty, child abuse, bigotry and hatred, racism and homophobia? I doubt you put love and sex at the top of your list. These things are wonderful and natural. Loving someone and sharing your life with that person can bring intense   happiness and pleasure, and a great sense of fulfilment and wellbeing. Most people desire romantic love and physical intimacy. It’s human nature. When a man and a woman express love for one another within a committed relationship it is usually celebrated by the church, while a same-sex couple living in a similar way may be condemned.

Homosexuality occurs in animals too. You may have heard of the penguin male couple, Roy and Silo, at Central Park Zoo in New York who hatched and raised baby Tango. Another story from a German zoo revealed that attempts by zoo keepers to turn gay penguins straight by introducing females failed. These birds are following their natural instincts. They form close bonds, have sex, and seek to become successful parents. Homosexual behaviour has been observed in other species too. If homosexuality occurs throughout nature then surely it is a normal part of the natural world. The only difference is that animals don’t make value judgements (deciding if something is  good or bad). In other words, homosexuality is morally neutral in species other than human.

So I check my tumblr today to find that yet another person has found one of my anti child hate posts and decided to yell at me about them.

This time a “feminist who believes in equality for ALL” who ALSO says “people are alowed to hate kids like are you fucking serious
It’s not oppression to think kids are obnoxious and annoying and to never want to be around them jfc Oppression isn’t something you fucking grow out of. Grow the fuck up.”

Which… I just find fantastically ironic in a very proving-my-point kind of way.

June 14th: Fairies

Artemis Fowl by Eoin Colfer

anonymous asked:

YOU ARE SUCH A DISAPPOINTMENT FOR YOUR FAMILY I FELL REALLY SORRY FOR YOUR MOTHER

I can assure you there is no need for you to feel sorry for anybody, my family is very much proud of me and the person that i am. I do however question how your mother would feel knowing her child is sending anonymous hatred to a stranger.

I am truly sorry if you are going through something difficult in your life that is making you feel the need to act this way, please know that there are always people to reach out to if you need to talk.

Be safe and be kind,

M x

Is homosexuality sinful or evil?

I found this on internet , and I really wanted to share this with you, for all the religion people who are scared to be gay.

Conservative Christian groups tend to share the following beliefs:

  • The Bible makes it clear that homosexuality is a sin.
  • Being gay is fundamentally wrong, unnatural, and even a psychological problem.
  • Being a gay is a choice or, more specifically,  being a practising homosexual is a choice
  • Homosexuality is not genetic and doesn’t begins in the womb i.e. God would not create gay people.

A view from a religion gay person, I think he says a lot good stuff what is true ( and scientist say also)

Homosexuality occurs naturally and is considered by many to be a normal type of sexual orientation. Gay people are more or less visible in society depending on its attitude  toward homosexuality. A gay person in a very homophobic country with anti-gay laws and fervent religious persecution will likely hide who they are out of fear. This creates the illusion that homosexuality occurs less - or doesn’t exist at all - in deeply religious  parts of the world.

What comes to mind when you consider what’s wrong with the world? War, poverty, environmental decay,  animal cruelty, child abuse, bigotry and hatred, racism and homophobia? I doubt you put love and sex at the top of your list. These things are wonderful and natural. Loving someone and sharing your life with that person can bring intense   happiness and pleasure, and a great sense of fulfilment and wellbeing. Most people desire romantic love and physical intimacy. It’s human nature. When a man and a woman express love for one another within a committed relationship it is usually celebrated by the church, while a same-sex couple living in a similar way may be condemned.

Homosexuality occurs in animals too. You may have heard of the penguin male couple, Roy and Silo, at Central Park Zoo in New York who hatched and raised baby Tango. Another story from a German zoo revealed that attempts by zoo keepers to turn gay penguins straight by introducing females failed. These birds are following their natural instincts. They form close bonds, have sex, and seek to become successful parents. Homosexual behaviour has been observed in other species too. If homosexuality occurs throughout nature then surely it is a normal part of the natural world. The only difference is that animals don’t make value judgements (deciding if something is  good or bad). In other words, homosexuality is morally neutral in species other than human.

anonymous asked:

Tbh, I hate how the undertale fandom treats Chara and Asriel, usually just giving them one-note personalities that aren't even accurate to canon. Like Asriel is always portrayed as sad and unable to do anything on his own, while Chara is always just shown as """"""evil"""""". And I hate it because both children are such tragic, flawed, and amazing characters (I cry about them a lot), and there is so much more to them than what most people think.

I agree with you SO MUCH ANON ;A; I honestly love them to bits and with Chara– they’re really susceptible for fandom dislike bwahaha xD I do admit, I do like the portrayals of geno!chara in art and such because the results can be hilarious and epic-looking and geno!Chara is truly Chara’s tragedy– and geno!Chara is a side to Chara that is canon, so they’re not wrong when they portray them as such.

It just saddens me when that’s all they think of Chara, because honestly they’re so much more. And if you understand the other layers of Chara’s personality and such– you’ll understand that they’re not so one-dimensional. Chara’s character gives so much feels ;A; Even when they were alive, they were imperfect, and one of the arguments I see a lot about the reason why they dislike Chara is because of the whole “laughing at Asgore’s poisoning” thing– but don’t we all do that? It’s like when people laugh when they see people falling down the stairs– does that make us evil? My dad got bitten by some unknown bug the other day and he looked like he was in real pain/his whole hand swelled up, but I laughed anyway and just patted his back, even though I obviously felt bad for him. Laughter is a response to pain, and to seeing pain, and can be a defence mechanism– something Chara does do. And also– Chara hated humanity and wanted to kill the people in their village is another argument I hear a lot. They wouldn’t have felt so strongly about doing that if the humans hadn’t wronged them first. Such hatred in a child – active hatred – it doesn’t come from nowhere.

I haven’t seen much of that portrayal of Asriel though– the only times I’ve seen him “sad” is when he’s depicted at the end of Undertale xD I haven’t really seem him being portrayed as “useless”/unable to do anything on his own though– which is silly because he was able to stop Chara from destroying the humans. I mean, how strong is that? Chara, who was able to manipulate Asriel to going along with their crazy suicide plan and such, Chara who Asriel probably let do whatever they liked because Chara had the more assertive personality, was able to stop them from fulfilling one of their darkest and strongest desires/wishes– because Asriel knew mercy, and his desire to not hurt anyone was stronger than Chara’s hatred. HOW STRONG IS THAT??

Precious babbies, the both of them ;A;

anonymous asked:

Why do you think larries have always gone after Louis more than Harry 😬

I think that’s pretty straightforward. 1) The reality of Louis’ life contradicts Larrie lies every single day, 2) Louis stood up to them, and 3) Louis has given the Larries long-term enemies focus on.

1) When 1D started, Louis had a girlfriend. He was with her for a year, and was only single for a couple of months before meeting Eleanor.  He was then with her for 3 & a half years. When they split up he had flings with different women. He got a woman pregnant, and before the baby was born entered into a long-term relationship with another woman. He is now a father with a steady girlfriend.  That is a lot for Larries to fight against in order to maintain their fantasies! It requires the invention of a whole alternate universe complete with a complicated underlying conspiracy to explain away Louis’ reality.

2) Louis told the Larries their conspiracies were bullshit. Literally. He told them they made his life difficult and made him and Harry interact differently in public. He told them it was upsetting that they wouldn’t accept that he was happy with his real life. He told them that they were demeaning his girlfriend. He told them their theories were “fucking annoying”. He told them that he is in fact straight. Again - that’s a lot for Larries to counter. They need to invent a theory of oppression in order to explain why Louis would be forced to say these things to directly contradict the Larries.

3) Louis has given the Larries two long-term girlfriends, a baby and the mother of his child to focus their hatred and frustration upon. This helps fuel their anger and sustain their energy.

In contrast, Harry’s ‘never complain, never explain’ philosophy gives the Larrie tinhats a blank slate on which to project their fantasies. For years now any relationships he has with women have been so layered in secrecy, speculation and tabloid bullshit that they are easy to dismiss as spin. Meanwhile Harry openly supports the LGBT community and chooses not to publicly define his sexuality. He’s easy for Larries to work with. His public life does not contradict Larries’ theories every step of the way as Louis’ does. Louis lives his life the way he chooses regardless of the Larries’ needs. He makes life difficult for them.

anonymous asked:

How come no one is making fun of Riley Curry's hair and texture? Only Blue Ivy got hate so severe because her hair isn't like North West's and they deemed it unkempt. Riley and Blue have the same 4c hair texture but no one has complained about her hair not being perfectly styled and combed. All I see is how cute/beautiful and carefree she is. If people don't see the blatant colorism in the way receive these celebrity kids, then they're blind. Imagine if Blue was a dark skin little girl?

They’re the same color and have quite wide noses tbh. Blue just has pouty lips like Jay, which really affects how people perceive her phenotype if she has a wide nose AND big/full lips. I don’t want people to mock Riley nor Blue Ivy. I don’t feel comfortable when people are like, “Why ain’t nobody mocking this little black girl.” The truth is, they are. I think the hate Blue Ivy gets is due to jealousy and hate. They clearly resent Beyonce, and project their distaste unto her child. Their hatred for Blue Ivy reflects their misogynoir for Beyonce. They love Beyince the symbol, but not Beyonce the black woman. So when they see her husband is dark skinned, her daughter visibly black in spite of light skin, best friends dark skinned, sister less famous, and other quintessential black people in her life, they seethe. It ruins the suspense of disbelief that Beyonce is not some racially ambiguous non-black woman. Their hatred for Blue Ivy is scary, and I worry for that child.
The other day, I saw someone compare Riley’s looks to another black girl with straighter hair. People are just jealous of happy and carefree black gitls and will be determined to create low self esteem in those girls before they’re even two. If Riley wasn’t light skinned with red kinky hair, she would not be received as warmly. If Blue was darker, less people would defend her. Light skinned privilege applies to children as well. Child abuse cases have occured against darker children due to that fact.