My dad’s name was Norman. But when I was really little - my middle name is Mark - they called me Mark. And I didn’t know my name was Norman until I was about 13.
I get my first passport, and on it, it said Norman. They were like ‘no, your real name is Norman, but your dad went by Norman, so we called you Mark.’ I’m like, 'what the fuck?’ And I changed my name because I wanted to be, you know, the real me, whatever the fuck that means.