is it normal for me to be worried that my boyfriend will cheat or meat someone while hes on vacation? hes never showed me anything but loyalty and is amazing to me i just cant help but have these thoughts.. any advice for me to get over feeling this way?
It’s normal to have anxiety if your partner is away from you for a while, particularly if you aren’t used to it. There’s sort of an oversaturation of stories about infidelity and cheating and other horror stories, and it’s easy to let it get into your head. My advice would be to try not to do the stereotypical stalkery-partner stuff - if you find yourself tempted to comb through his social media and scour the page of someone he’s added as a friend on facebook, or accuse him of anything with meagre evidence, or interrogate him about his day, or anything else you would categorise as “irrational possessive partner behaviour,” stop yourself, take a deep breath, and try to distract yourself - remember that it will only make things worse to try and be sneaky or accusative. It’s also important not to read too much into things - people tend to be busy on vacation, so if he doesn’t have time to talk, it’s likely just because he’s having fun, or he’s tired after a long day, not because he’s doing something illicit. Try not to jump to any negative conclusions without first ruling out the completely harmless ones.
As with anything, it’s important to be honest with your boyfriend about how you’re feeling, obviously without being accusative and ensuring him you know he’s loyal and you aren’t feeling this way because of anything he’s done, and he should be able to reassure you.
Attempt to correct me if you think I’m wrong but isn’t eating imitation meat cheating for vegetarians/vegans?
Like I get really mad when I see tofu that tastes ‘just like chicken!’ or whatever the ever living fuck ‘vegan cheese’ is.
Because let’s be real here, you made a choice and that choice didn’t include cheese or the taste of meat. You don’t get to have the best of both worlds, stop being a pussy and eat your bland tofuburger.