change for a cause

So I was thinking (which is never a good thing…) about some Malec stuff, and I realized that this whole time, I was guilty of thinking that Harry looked… stiff? while kissing Matt. Turns out it’s literally just the way he kisses people other than Shelby I’m guessing, so with that in mind, here’s a few more things to think about:

  • Alec is inexperienced! He probably never kissed anyone before.
  • Magnus hasn’t initiated any of the kisses thus far, and no, you can’t count the “sleeping beauty” one.
  • This is Magnus’ first time opening up to someone in a very long time!
  • Malec haven’t been together for that long, so that’s probably why the last kiss from 2x07 looked a bit different from the other ones.
  • The way Malec kiss is pretty similar to how Mike/Tina did in Glee, here’s a video, so you could stop calling him homophobic because supposedly he’s “refusing to kiss another guy”…
  • Just… simply wait for the next episode before you start judging them please??

anonymous asked:

Is Star a marie sue?

(from Wikipedia, read more about it on TV Tropes) “A Mary Sue is an idealized and seemingly perfect fictional character, a young or low-rank person who saves the day through unrealistic abilities, sometimes with the intent to inspire young or marginalized people and show them that even they can have as great of a potential as leading characters. Often this character is recognized as an author insert or wish-fulfillment.”

I really don’t think so: while Star definitely is powerful -and as of Baby we know that she has a lot of latent talent for magic- she’s far from being perfect, her flaws and shortcomings, and her growth, being one of the main focus of the show, and often cause of the big changes in the status quo.
Also, while in early season 1 some episodes featured the classic “Main character does something wrong but doesn’t have to pay the consequences” elements, this changed later in the season; and in season 2, if anything, many episodes focus on the consequences of Star running away from her problems, or refusing to take things seriously (Fetch, Star Vs Echo Creek, Wand to Wand, By The Book, Bon Bon The Birthday Clown), with season 2B (as in the episodes post Bon Bon) featuring some kind of grim reminder almost every episode: being “rejected” by Glossaryck in Raid the Cave, not getting any gratitude from the people she tried to protect in Trickstar, learning that some things are unavoidable and that you can fail even when you try as hard as you can in Mathmagic and The Bounce Lounge.

So no, Star definitely isn’t a Mary Sue-like character, in my opinion.

anonymous asked:

Hi. So my boyfriend and I are somewhere between letting go or not. Well, basically it's just me. I told him to go find someone else who is a whole lot better version of me. He've done so much to make things work out for our relationship. I got personal problems that makes me really depressed & my mood changes easily. I'm breaking up with him so I won't cause him any pain & burden at all. But I can't affort to lose him. Help please ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ

You are hurting yourself on purpose. Think about what you wrote again honey.

You have some personal problem and can’t find a way to handle it. You need someone who will hold your hand while you make things work again. He can be your supporter. You are not hurting him. Being in a relationship isn’t easy, but partners are supposed to be there and to help each other out in hard times. Don’t break up, you will regret it. 

One of the funniest things is when people make up lies about me that i know are fake because of one small detail they fucked up like… when that one kid was like “izaya got called out cause on his last blog he kept changing his fractions for his race” and i was like “What do you mean I changed my fractions I didnt use fractions for my race and still rarely do because i didnt understand how race fractions worked until like a month ago” and everyone stayed silent after that. hm……….. …………. .…

anonymous asked:

Singe becoming a wholefoods vegan about half a year ago, i havent had my Period. Do you have any tips to get it back?

I haven’t lost my period so I have no experience, possibly could be a low fat intake or low calories? Or there are many other reasons that could cause it (hormones, stress, change in lifestyle, excessive exercise, being young and your cycle isn’t regular yet). Best speak to a doctor or naturopath

I wrote about this on my “list why this season is amazing”  - list, but I wanted to discuss it a little bit more. What I wrote was:

“I’ve been a little bothered over the fact that Hiccup seems to have lost his sarcasm. But this season it didn’t bother me as much because the poor dude is under a lot of stress and it wouldn’t be so strange if he changed a little during this season. He’s a little more serious cause more is at stake. He did have some funny lines this season and I understand if they wanted him more serious. (But bring it back next season cause I miss my sarcastic little idiot!)”

Do you think this is something the writers thought of or have they forgotten his sarcasm? Because it’s such a big deal to Hiccup as a character and I hope they bring it back next season. He’s way too much of a hero type all of a sudden (which I love but I also miss my little insecure Hiccup). But like I said; this season I didn’t mind that he wasn’t as sarcastic because of how tense it all was. But I know that this has been a complain by people in the past so… 

…What do you guys think? 


I’m a musician, so I like to think of interpersonal relationships in terms of frequencies. Each person has their own unique frequency, and no matter how much that frequency can be masked by external factors, that frequency will never change because it is the very essence of who you are.

Dissonance is caused when frequencies clash. A pair of dissonant people, no matter how attracted they are to each other’s superficial qualities, will always fall apart.

Consonance is caused when frequencies are similar and compatible. Consonant people can be great friends, and they definitely add to each other’s lives. If they find each other attractive they might date, and have a pleasant relationship.

Resonance is by far the rarest of the three, and is caused when frequencies match. By its very nature, resonance can’t add to a person, neither can it diminish- it can only amplify. Resonant people somehow feel more like themselves when they’re together, and it can be both liberating and infuriating. When people are truly resonant, they have a bond that runs remarkably deep, because it is one of profound understanding. There will always be something that draws them together when they allow it to happen.

The resonant people in our lives are our soulmates. We won’t necessarily marry them or date them, but they’re the people with whom we can be who we truly are.

But dissonance, consonance, and resonance can all be obscured. Attraction, fear, mistrust, anger, or simply circumstance can throw people together or apart, and shove them in our out of a bond they’re not meant to be in.

Losing a dissonant person is a godsend.

Losing a consonant person can be extremely sad- they added to your life and were a wonderful part of it. At the same time, it can be a little relieving to not have to be something that you aren’t.

Losing a resonant person is the essence of heartbreak. When you lose someone you resonate with, you’ve lost a bit of yourself that you didn’t have before they were in your life. Sure, you’re still you, but without that resonance, your own light doesn’t give off the same power or glow. There’s an aching, gnawing sensation that can only be caused by someone like that.

So, if you have someone in your life who’s dissonant with you, get rid of them as soon as you can. If you have someone in your life who’s consonant with you, cherish their friendship. And if you have someone in your life who’s resonant with you, for heaven sake don’t ever let them go.

Since love is really a beautiful thing. The idea that someone has waited their whole life to meet someone that matches them perfectly and imperfectly in every way. The idea that another human being can feel like your whole world. It really is beautiful if you think about it…

anonymous asked:

Michael said "I'd never be a little spoon" and now he's the little spoon...????? Can someone change so dramatically

Doubt it he’s just saying this cause it’s something again ppl caught on tov


Outerswap bros!! ٩(ˊᗜˋ*)و

I did this design awhile ago and decided to change/add some things and t be honest they could always change again. For example I inverted OS!Pap’s hoodie colors from original OT!Sans colors and gave him one stripe (whereas I gave OF!Sans 3 stripes and OT!Sans has 2).. But kept the pants relatively the same except darker. Some fluffy booties!!! HE IS SO FLUFFY MUCH FLUFF!!!
I like the thought of the scarf drapes being really long and dragging on the floor as OS!Sans walks.

Please imagine: OS!Pap lazily walking but then proceeds to trip and fall over from his untied boot tassels. Also sparkly space smokes.