Sometimes, when someone realises that they are doubting a ship, it’s best to distance themselves and take a break from them, even if it pains you. But sometimes a person needs more then a break and that’s okay because they will still hopefully love the pair as a single person instead of a pair. We have to accept that even if we have proof of a ship, it doesn’t automatically means it’s real. We can wish and pray that they are but it’s more likely that they aren’t a couple. We still can support them separately but need to realise that they are probably just good friends and nothing more.