chadari

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Chadari (aka Burqa)

I’m sharing these photos to remind you and myself, that beneath each Chadari is a determined and beautiful Afghan woman. Covered by cloth is a brave mother holding her child, a courageous sister buying groceries, a determined daughter making her way to an education center, a bride-to-be choosing her wedding outfit, a pregnant woman on her way to the hospital, a frail grandmother visiting family, a loved friend shopping for a birthday present…..and the list goes on.

To wear a Chadari may or may not be each woman’s choice, but despite this fact, they are still WOMEN. Being covered doesn’t lessen their worth as women. I don’t ask you to like or agree with Chadari, I sure don’t. All I ask of you as you browse through these photos, is to think of those who wear the Chadari, as what they are…people.

independent.co.uk
Yasmin Alibhai-Brown: Sixteen reasons why I object to this dangerous
Article published on 3 April 2011.

Years ago, I warned that the simple headscarf (hijab) was but the first step to full fabric incarceration. I was mocked and disparaged then by Muslim adherents, as well as many on the left. To them, such challenges to cultural practices validate bigotry and threaten liberties. Their laudable concern makes criticism impossibly difficult. Now they are everywhere, ravens, in burka (long cloaks) and niqab (face veils), their little girls scarved and in cumbersome long coats (in training, I am told) for that big day when they too can go into prisons of black polyester. They will be smiling, one mother of four daughters said to me. Or they may be crying, I said, and nobody will see either.

Here is a list of my main objections:

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3. They say it stops molestation and is a mark of respect. Oh yeah? So tell me why there are appalling levels of rape and violence [commit by Muslim men]. And by implication do we…  women who don’t cover, therefore deserve molestation?

4. It is a form of female apartheid, of selected segregation tacitly saying non-veiled women are pollutants. There is such a thing as society and we connect with our faces. A veiled female withholds herself from that contact and reads our faces, thus gaining power over the rest of us.

5. “Choice” cannot be the only consideration. And anyway, there is no evidence that all the women are making rational, independent decisions. As with forced marriages, they can’t refuse. Some are blackmailed and others obey because they are too scared to say what they really want. Some are convinced they will go to hell if they show themselves. Some bloody choice.

6. It sexualises girls and women in the same way as “erotic” garb does and is just as obscene.7. When a woman is fully shrouded, how do we know if she is a victim of domestic violence?

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12. Muslim women in the 1920s and 1930s threw off these garments to claim freedom – my mother’s generation. Their struggles are dishonoured by brainwashed females.

13. Veil supporters say they are going back to the original Islamic texts and lives. But they don’t ride camels, and have mobile phones and computers. So they can embrace modernity but refuse to on this.

14. These women who fight for their rights to veil do not fight for the rights of those of us who won’t.

15. They say it is free will, but in three private Muslim schools in Britain, girls have to wear niqab and are punished for not obeying. The same is true in many families and communities.

16. Most importantly, all these cloth casings accept that females are dangerous and evil, that their presence only creates inner and outer havoc in men and public spaces. All religions believe that to some extent. Feminists must fight these prejudices.

It is possible to imagine that the solitary women in the chadari*…might in fact be an image of a woman veiling her resistance; perhaps she is using the cover provided by the chadari to hide school books, the camera she used to record Taliban abuses, her use of lipstick, or her identity as she flees persecution.
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Loretta Kensinger, “Plugged in Praxis: Critical Reflections on U.S. Feminism, Internet Activism, and Solidarity with Women in Afghanistan”, p.7

* - http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Burqa#Afghanistan

Never judge a person’s worth or level of oppression by what they’re wearing.  

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