i used to worry a TON about the fact that i’ve never been anyone’s favorite person. i’ve always felt like my parents like my brother more, i have hardly ever been someone’s best friend, never been in a relationship, etc.

but my dog pretty much thinks i’m the only pure human on the entire planet and tHAT IS VERY HEALING TBH

bluedaggerzzz  asked:

If I am correct, the purpose of these kinds of blogs is to spam the ace discourse chat with pictures not related to have discourse so that people browsing through the tags can pause and see a cute animal/a cool picture?

Pretty much yeah. The only reason I made this blog was because I know a lot of people can be upset by the things they see in the tag,and no, contrary to what the other side keeps saying, I don’t just mean posts saying “cishets aren’t lgbt”. I mean posts that mock ace identities and make posts attacking all aces not just cishet aces (e.g. that gross “the ace flag colours make me feel sick” post). 

I know this is kind of irrelevant to what you asked but for me personally the whole reason that tag upsets me so much is because of the amount of posts in there calling aces in general homophobic, or saying the ace community is full of homophobia and stuff, and seeing things like that get me really paranoid and make me start questioning myself because I’ve been battling loads of internalised homophobia and only in the past year realised I’m a lesbian. And the irony is that now people are calling me homophobic for this. 

otp - vaughn richards x lucretia knight 

“Hate begets hate; violence begets violence; toughness begets a greater toughness. We must meet the forces of hate with the power of love.”

(vaughn is owned by yours truly. luce is owned by @charminglyunusual.)


For anyone feeling shitty tonight, here are some pictures of my cat Sophie.

She is not a smart cat but she is a dear. It’s cold in my apartment lately so she’s constantly trying to sit in my lap all the time. She yells at me if I stay up too late. She knows what the words “supper” and “bed time” mean.

(Her left eye is blind, she had some sort of injury before I adopted her)

glitter-pope  asked:

I'm sorry if I embarrassed you last night, Special. How are you today? I hope you're relaxing, having some kitty cuddles.

It’s okay, glitter. I’m doing well today! Had a good night’s rest. A whole 4 hours of daylight back in good old Sweden, you know! 

I hope you’re doing well too. Yes, I’ve gotten plenty of cat-time! I’m feeling very zen.

Ask for an ask

AIGHT so I gotta clean out my inboxes from those dusty ol’ asks, but here! 

I will be sending out asks when  I get one!  you guys can send me an ask at any one of these blogs:

And my ask hints are rusty so I wouldn’t use those, If you guys want ask suggestions you can hit me up via IM and stuff!!  If we know each other vaugley you can hit me up about character interactions instead of just dusty ol’ asks.

Here are some ask suggestions in case your too shy to talk to me:

  1. Accuse my muse of something wacky outrageous
  2. dig deep into my muses core,  try and get them to spill their deepest darkest secrets
  3. Be that one cat that knocks over something sorta important to you, feel the cat, use that cat to send an ask.

Send me an ask? Great! Let me know here, and if you want let me know who the ask needs to be sent to!   ?

I know things are terrible right now but take a look at my cat. She’s fine. She’s content. She doesn’t even know what a President is. All she’s worried about is when I’ll give her breakfast and whether the bed or the sofa is the better sleeping option. No matter what happens all is well in the world of my cat. Even if the world goes to hell, she is happy.


#listen you will need to pry the cat-grant-knows-the-truth headcanon from my cold dead hands #so what that means is that between worlds finest and adventures of supergirl #cat grant has come to terms with the fact that kara isn’t confiding in her #that she’s accepted kara will never tell her #that kara will never trust her with this important truth #and that cat has passed over anger into acceptance #from frustrated snaps to small jokes to herself #cat grant believes that kara is a hero #that kara will do great things #that kara will save national city as both kara danvers and supergirl #and she’s accepted her limitations in that role #that she’s a mentor not a friend #that she’s a step on kara’s path #but not a constant #and because she cares so much about kara #because she knows how important kara and supergirl are to national city #she’s found peace with this fact #cat ‘queen of all media’ grant is content being a part of kara’s story #and i will be crying forever