How Idealists care about others:

FeNi (ENFJ):

“Hiiiiiiii! :D!!!!! How ’s everything????
Looook, i brought u chocolates, ‘cause i know you’re very exhausted by the tests!!!
Want to talk?
Ooooh! Give me a hug x3!”

NiFe (INFJ):

“Are you okay? What’s going on? What happened?
Oh, come on, that’s not true, and you know it.
And that’s because of this, and that, and […], and… and you’re awesome, and I love you so much.”

Nefi (ENFP):

“Oh, yeah… i know…  i really understand you… but you know? THAT’S NOT TRUE! You’re pretty f*ck*ng awesome!!! >_<!!!
Come on, i was also like you, but… but there is a way out, don’t give up!
I swear i understand you, and you’re going to overcome it! I’ll be with you!!”

FiNe (INFP):

“Oh… i know… i understand you perfectly… it hurts a lot, but… *hug* let’s go, everything will be okay, you’ll be fine, of course you’ll be.
It’s hard, it’s so complicated, but you can with this…  You and me, we’ll be fine, because i’ll be with you.”

I gave myself permission to care, because there are a lot of people in this world who are afraid of caring, who are afraid of showing they care because it’s uncool. It’s uncool to have passion. It’s so much easier to lose when you’ve shown everyone how much you don’t care if you win or lose. It’s much harder to lose when you show that you care, but you’ll never win unless you also stand to lose. I’ve said it before. Don’t be afraid of your passion, give it free reign, and be honest and work hard and it will all turn out just fine.