careful-kids

anonymous asked:

basically mary n joseph are both shit 2 each other and joseph has also/does also cheat on her too

lmao god these two are A Mess but i guess i’m more inclined to side with joseph bc as far as i’ve played it seems like mary knows joseph is kinda in the closet but makes fun of him for putting on a front/not being out even though they’re in a loveless marriage??? soooooooooo even if they are “””even””” or whatever i’d sooner slap the shit out of mary for her straight girl bullshit anyday. plus like??? how the fuck does she lose an entire baby and not even care where her youngest kid is??? the fuck???

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“He wasn’t responsible for his actions. What’s so hard to understand about that?” You said to your father desperately. Seeing the Avengers fight like this, especially over someone you cared about was devastating to watch and you couldn’t take it anymore.

“[Y/N] you’re young. You wouldn’t understand, this is what I have to do” your dad responded, blowing you off once again. You felt yourself grow angry, you were done with him speaking to you as if you were a child.

“Let’s make one thing clear! I do understand and I’m not a kid! I care about Bucky and if you care about me dad you’ll rethink what you’re doing”.

REQUESTS ARE OPEN

It’s now confirmed Lance has nieces and nephews. He takes care of his nieces and nephews. This is canon.

I know the following seasons are going to be darker, but production team give me Lance babysitting a child and being absolutely fantastic at it. Give me an alien child that screams and throws tantrums and no one on Team Voltron can take it until Lance steps in.

I want that. Give that to me. Lance taking care of kids being the cool uncle. 

anonymous asked:

More Chisaki love! Can you give us some headcanon for Chisaki meeting their s/o for the first time and it's "love at first sight" please 💕

CHISAKI (Overhaul)

  • Chisaki saw his first love interest when he was out searching for Eri, who escaped from his grasp again. He happened to appear in front of a hospital (imsorryokay), and his eyes fall upon them. They were taking care of a kid who scrape their knees. Shrugs it off, merely just a fleeing moment of admiration he thought. He left to go find Eri again, but he still thinks of his love interest from time to time.
  • Kept searching for Eri until he saw a familiar golden-haired child with the same love interest that he saw, he gaped when Eri was clinging into them tightly. Trembling in their arms.When he finally saw them closely, he fell in love even more which kinda irritated him because this wasn’t suppose to happen. His calm composure stays, calling out loudly for Eri.
  • Tries to pry Eri off of them politely, tells them that he thanks him for taking care of her and have to go home. Eri wouldn’t budge, so his love interest insist on walking together. He lets it slide and agrees, but he’s nervous.
  • In the end, Chisaki decides that he should invite them into his home next time. He still kept in contact with them and eventually his feelings grew more. Not to the point of distraction from his main goals.

anonymous asked:

Part 3 of this reply.. I love Sai and Inojin's relationship and you can tell they are close. If you know what I mean, Sai is so dad now.

I know I understand, honestly I was never really sure how he would be as a dad, and I’m glad kishimoto and Pierrot didn’t make him into like a bad dad along with Sasuke and naruto, I mean they aren’t bad dads like it’s obvious they care about their kids but they don’t really know how to show it, but my baby sai is like the best dad ever it makes me so happy

If you’ve been deeply affected by reading “My Family’s Slave” here are some general concrete things you can do.

1) Understand and tell other people that this is not only something that happens in the Philippines. It happens in many other countries. Probably on every continent. For example, in Haiti, they’re called restaveks. Across South Asia, many child slaves work in the textile industry. Don’t treat this as an individual personal failing done only by a few bad people when it’s a vast economic system that thrives in secrecy and which many of us indirectly benefit from.

2) There’s no true ethical consumption but you can at least not support industries, companies or entire economies heavily involved in modern day slavery. Cut out visiting Dubai, for example (although I don’t know anyone that rich).

3) Support transnational unions of service and domestic workers.

4) If you or anyone you know employs domestic workers, talk to them discreetly and compassionately. Ask what they need and how you can support them. Ask who takes care of THEIR kids. Keep your eyes open.

5) Look at any local laws that passively encourage these exploitative relationships and work towards changing them. Immigration law is a huge issue in this area. Undocumented workers scared to come forward because they don’t want to be deported, for example.

6) Fight for feminism and disability rights because women and disabled people are especially vulnerable. I remember in the 90s there was a vast Mexican slave ring that enslaved deaf Mexicans and made them beg on the subways in NYC for money. I gave money to some of these people not knowing that they were kept as slaves and had to turn all their money over to their slavemasters at night, and it shocked the hell out of me. Private charity doesn’t work - these people need living wages, independence, legal advocates. All fixes on a systemic basis.

  • Steve : So, Barton and his wife are going out of town this weekend and wanted to know if we could take care of the kids.
  • Tony : Whoa, whoa, whoa, that is a big responsibility. What do we know about children?
  • Peter : I am leaving. Spider suit?
  • Tony : (hands Peter the suit) I swear you'd lose your head if it wasn't screwed on. (To Steve) I don't know the first thing about taking care of a child. (To Peter) Where is your jacket? It's cold outside.
  • Peter : Forgot.
  • Tony : Here take mine. (To Steve) Kids are a lot of work.

I hate how everyone assumes Jason Todd would be a bad father and not know how to take care of his kids so he’d need his family to teach him how to be a proper father, like b*tch please. Jason would be the best dad and you know it.

He’d be the kind of dad who lets his son do a messy science experiment he saw at school, and when they get green slime all over the kitchen table, Jason just laughs and cleans it up after instead of getting angry. He’d be the kind of dad who goes to every baseball game, every ballet recital, and every concert. He’d be the kind of dad who tells his kid he works with the Tooth Fairy every night instead of admitting the truth that he’s the Red Hood because he doesn’t want them to think he’s a bad guy. He’d be the kind of dad who makes smiley face pancakes in the morning if his kid asks for it and belts out Disney songs while he does so. He’d be the kind of dad who lets his daughter put a bunch of tiny ponytails in his hair, and then goes to the manor like that because she made him promise not to. And when his brothers laugh at him, he just laughs along because it was totally worth seeing the proud smile on his little girl’s face when she admired her handiwork. 

Screw all of you people, Jason Todd would be the best father ever, which of course he learned all from Bruce and Alfred. That paired with the fact that he had a crappy childhood, so he does whatever he can to ensure his own children don’t have to suffer like he did. 

Wanna take over my wife's job after her maternity leave? get yourself pushed out of the company instead.

LTL, FTP. I have almost no direct involvement in this tale. I’m writing it on behalf of my wife.

Sorry for the wall of text… TL;DR at the bottom. This story happened (ended) two weeks ago.

Background:

We live in a country that needs a lot of improvement on laws, their application and enforcement…. we are a lot better than a few years back, but still sometimes people can get away with forging some types of documents, like medical records, education degrees etc. Also, english is not our main language, so job titles, degrees and other details are translated to their best equivalence.

According to our country’s labor laws:

  • All female employees are entitled to 3 months paid maternity leave.
  • Employers, at their own expense, are expected to cover for the employees on maternity leave, usually with temp workers.
  • Severance payments are mandatory when firing employees (without justified cause… crime, fraud, etc) with more than 3 months on their jobs, so that’s the time limit to be considered a temp employee.
  • Severance payment calculation is rather complicated, but for firing people employed 4 years or less, it usually boils down to about 4 months of salary.
  • To fire Pregnant women, employers have to pay them 6 months of salary on top of the severance payment they’re entitled to.
  • If an employee quits voluntarily, they effectively forfeit all benefits previously mentioned.

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if youre an adult you need to be very careful on how you interact with minors. even if ur not interacting with any directly, you need to think carefully on what you say or create bc it will be seen and it has impact. do not hurt young people, do not misuse or betray their trust, do not be a bad influence to them, do not make their space unsafe.

be kind and considerate to them, remember that you were once young too. nobody deserves to grow up hurting, it’s too much to bear and the price is too high

kids, be careful. i know it’s sad but not everyone deserves your trust. you deserve safety and comfort.

i’m asking from the bottom of my heart for everyone to really think about this. thank you.

  • What she says: Lord of Shadows was a great book and you should really read it
  • What she means: thiS BOOK TORE OUT MY FUCKING SOUL AND I FUCKING HATE IT BUT AT THE SAME TIME I FUCKING LOVED IT. Emma and Jules are so cute but they're also just a big hot mess of emotions and angst and tbh they're ETERNALLY SCREWED. I love Diana and Diana and Gwyn are my actual fave but don't forget about Kitty because oH MY FUCKING GOd it's canon and they are so cute. Not to mention that Mark, Cristina, and Kieran will eventually have a threesome. I foresee it in the future. ALSO DID I MENTION THAT MALEC TAKING CARE OF THEIR KIDS IS THE CUTEST? Emma and Julian had sex again (shocker) and it was rlly cute and hot n heavy. Julian Blackthorn is actually my daddy. I s2g if those two parabatai don't chill Emma's gonna get fucking preggers and then things can only get worse from there. Jaime and Diego (especially Jaime) are sneaky, slimy motherfuckers and I don't really like them. no wait scratch that. I HATE JAIME BECAUSE HE'S TAKING ADVANTAGE OF DRU BUt Diego isn't that bad anymore but still.
  • ALSO I MISS ROBERT LIGHTWOOD A LOT MORE THAN I THOUGHT I WOULD BECAUSE HE WAS GOING TO HELP EMMA AND JULES AND PLUS ALEC SAW HIM DIE AND I CAN'T I JUST CANT OMFG. AND THEN LIVVY. LIVVY MY BABY OH MY GOOOOOODDDDDDD. LIVVYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY. I ACTUALLY CRIED MYSELF TO SLEEP THAT NIGHT WHEN I FINISHED LORD OF SHADOWS. GOD DAMN JUST SOMEONE PLEASE GIVE THE BLACKTHORNS A BREAK OKAY BYE.

a really great (and also pretty scary) show of how our country’s army recruiters gets into the minds of kids from a young age is that “youre disrespecting a future US army soldier” video.

(it’s a touch loud, be careful)

the kid has grown up with the idea that hes going to join the army, and thats a fine thing to do, but he’s not doing it to defend his country, hes doing it for respect.
that mindset of “be in the army and you will be better than others” is so heavily pushed that this kid thinks he deserves the respect of a soldier at the age of (what looks like) 13.

he might not even be in high school at that point and he is already dead set on making himself a disposable resource that follows orders without question for a political system that he might not even understand. that’s really scary. i hope he snaps out of it.