Rihanna, Daniel Kaluuya,Cynthya Erivo, Migos, Janelle Monae, Alek Wek, Zendaya, Yara Shahidi, Michael B. Jordan, John Boyega, Tess Thompson, Issa Rae, Lena Waithe, Jasmine Sanders, Letitia Wright, Jennifer Lopez, Mary J. Blige, Cardi B, Zoe Kravitz and Donald Glover at the MET Gala photographed by Mehdi Lacoste for VOGUE

Here’s why I think “Girls” by Rita Ora feat. Bebe Rexha, Charli XCX and Cardi B is not a bi anthem (or a wlw anthem), but rather a Katy Perry-esque exploitation of bi sexuality in order to appeal to male-centered, porn-y stereotypes of love/sex between women.

And guess what? The lyrics were written by 3 women and 6 men.

Now I’m going to break down the lyrics.

  • “I ain’t one sided, I’m open minded”. Being bisexual =/= being open minded. Bisexuality is not a political statement in any way. It is what it is: a sexual orientation. Also, that basically implies that homosexuality is close minded (which is frankly disgusting).
  • “I’m fifty-fifty”. That’s another stereotype. Bisexuals are not “part gay, part straight”. Bisexuality is a whole new orientation.
  • “Just rollin’ J’s, kush lovin’” / “Red wine, I just wanna kiss girls”. The wonderful Hayley Kiyoko (who is a lesbian) already addressed those lines. Bisexual women (and lesbians) are not sexually or romantically attracted to women only when intoxicated.
  • “I’m the hunter and she’s the prey”. Umm… this is such a male thing to say. Love between women is nothing like that. We’re actually afraid of being predatory while chasing girls. I don’t think I ever heard a bisexual woman or a lesbian refer to women they like as “preys”.
  • “Have her down with the scissor”. I don’t even want to comment on that one.

Tldr; this song is trashy. It’s not good, honest representation, but rather a marketing stunt. Go listen to Hayley Kiyoko instead.