Considering that I myself am only one year older than the cutoff age for minority are you sure that this argument is valid?
To rephrase the question more clearly, do you really think that ‘minor/nonminor’ automatically signifies a pedophilic relationship? I could hit you with an example of an 18 year old and a 17 year old, would you call that pedophilic then?
I just don’t believe that you actually internally believe what you are saying. And I want to point this out not to accuse you of being a hypocrite and therefore wrong, but rather to get you to rethink your practice based on your beliefs, which I think can be good.