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hurpyghapy  asked:

Seeing your blog is bitter sweet. I love cats and it always makes me smile but it reminds me of my cat. We had to out her down because she had cancer. I miss her terribly because I grew up with that cat. We got her when I was eight and she lived for 20 years. We had to put her down two years ago and I can't have any pets right now with where I live. I'm not sure why I'm saying all of this, but thank you. I don't wanna forget her, and your blog reminds me of her.

I’m really sorry to hear that friend. Sending comforting vibes your way… I can’t imagine your loss. I’m here if you ever want to talk okay?

Chapter 33: A Night of Celebration

Fic Summary: “Everyone had a link with their soulmates, some could hear some of their partners thoughts, some had a tattoo that would appear with their partners name; for me, I knew when they got sick.” For a while Phil has thought that his soulmate might have an eating disorder and doesn’t expect to meet him in the restaurant where he works.

Genre: a lot of fluff, recovery, really fucking domestic, waiter!Phil

Warnings: eating disorders, anorexia, bulimia, hospitals, panic attacks, references to past abuse, mentions of suicide, mentions of self-harm, a lot of awkwardness, small amounts of smut. This is potentially triggering so for your own sake, please think twice about reading if anything this might affect you.

Disclaimer: I don’t have personal experience with eating disorders, but have done some research. If I have anything about them wrong, feel free to send me an ask and I’ll sort it out.

Word Count (for this part): 4.1k

[Uploads will be hopefully every couple of weeks! (follow @philsdrill-updates to hear when I post)]

A/N: Hey ho, so i posted a little update earlier saying this might be a few days, but I managed to get my act together and get this finished off tonight which feels so good. Okay, it’s short, but the last chapter was a bit of a giant, so this evens things out, right? This chapter has been a little bitch to write and has been plaguing me for the best part of a month, but I got there at last. I cant even explain what all I had to change to make this work, but I think I got there. I guess life would be easier if I had a beta or something, but I have no idea how that would work for me.


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Dan’s POV:

A couple of weeks on from the trip down to my parents house, everything was finally coming together. Phil had just got his application in for cooking school, Ethan seemed to be settling okay with my brother and parents and I was starting to put together a CV in preparation for the job hunt that I was planning to start soon.

Phil was putting a lot of time in at work, now that our lives had calmed down and got into more of a routine. We’d started to think about planning our wedding and while we hadn’t decided on much, we knew we didn’t have the funds to do anything extravagant. Phil was taking advantage of this calm spell in our lives to work hard and get our income flow a bit better. We wanted a little weekend away as a honeymoon, probably just down to the south coast, but we’d still need to fund it.

Tonight, Phil was out at work and I was making a start on a list detailing all the things we might need to organise. So far I had: venue, rings, registrar, catering, flowers, music, invitations, best men, ring bearers, suits. I knew there were probably many things I was missing, but it was a start. Maybe we should get the help of a wedding planner, or at least a married friend. I’d talk to Phil about it later, but I had a strong feeling that Louise could be a big help in figuring this out.

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anonymous asked:

(TW/drug overdose) one of my friends almost accidentally overdosed on anxiety medication today and I spent all of last period crying in guidance with my friends and oh my god today has been something

i’m sorry to hear that ): i hope your friend is okay

Parents! Guess What?

If you…

Intentionally give your kids anxiety either as a joke or punishment.

Fly off the handle at them for making small mistakes.

Tell them you’ll love them less if they don’t do what they’re told.

Cause them pain as a means of punishment or amusement.

Lie about things you said to avoid apologizing after the fact.

Steal or damage their belongings.

Threaten to or actually give away or harm family pets to punish them.

Refuse to give them privacy by going through their belongings or taking the door off their room, for example.

Call them names and belittle them.

Scream or swear at your kids to intimidate them.

Compare your kid to their siblings or their friends to make them seem inferior.

Invalidate their problems or blame them for being too sensitive.

Anger so quickly and so often that your kids tiptoe around your temper.

Share their personal info or things they told you in confidence with other family members or friends.

Make up stories about them behind their backs.

Punish your kids for things they have no control over, like an illness whether mental or physical.

Tell them you hope they die or encourage them to harm themselves.

Threaten to abandon them or leave them in unsafe situations.

Intentionally provoke your kids to get angry and then guilt trip them for reacting to what you said or did.

Give them the silent treatment and pretend they don’t exist.

Fail to meet your kid’s basic needs.

Refuse to let them make decisions or think for themselves, especially as they get older.

Lock them out of the house.

Subject them to affection or physical contact that they are not comfortable with and don’t consent to, even if it’s not sexual in nature.

Intentionally misgender your kids or refuse to accept their sexual orientation, or treat them poorly for coming out.


Please seek help immediately because the above behaviors can and will traumatize children and are terrible things to do to another human being.

I’ve been feeling so Much inSpiratiOn lately, and i hope you all aRe having a veRy good daY!! PLEASE treat each other with care and kindness, we can good and do good to one another and Spread happiness and joy to thosE who need it. 

This was fuN to make anD i Hope you Enjoy! i hope people keep caLm and just enjoy all this creePiness. 

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I have been at war with my body for so long. As long as I can remember, it’s like hating myself is a part of me. I may be so much stronger than I used to be, but it is exhausting to fight this battle with so many scars. No one sees it but me. People don’t see the way I hate the curve of my waist, the proportions of my figure, how nearly nothing about my body I am proud to have. How am I supposed to wholly love myself if I can barely stand what’s in the mirror? I know that I am a fighter. I always have been. Yet I’ve been finding myself losing battle after battle, every time I pinch my skin or tell myself I can do better. I am so tired of knowing nothing other than hating what I see.
—  these monsters are too familiar 

Thiam / Theo Raeken x Liam Dunbar as Avengers / Hulk x Black Widow AU
Movie AU fest day 7 (Supernatural / Superhero) by @officialthiamlibrary

Ok. That was a close call!
I’m impressed I menaged to do an edit for each day. Amazing. :’D

This AU fits in so many ways. Theo being Liam’s anchor (the Hulk even has the sun in bis mantra too), Liam with his anger issues and Theo with his stolen childhood and hard backstory.

HERE’S THE PLOT (Age Of Ultron) :

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