is it ok if i ask for some positivity because im really depressed and in need of some love right now. So, ive been facing dysphoria since i was 8, ive always hated my chest, my feminine face, all of it. So i decided to tell my mom i was trans and she said i cant be since im 12. I asked her for a binder and she said she will not buy me one because im not trans. It's killing me at this point i feel suicidal. So, is it ok if i just get a few sincere words to lift me up? Thank you so much in advance
*wraps you in a blanket and sits next to you*
I’m so sorry dearest. You deserve better. I know it feels really hopeless right now. You’ve been so brave and I’m so proud of you. Parents can be awful honestly. But let me assure you that they are wrong, a lot. And your mom is wrong about this. You’re not to young to be trans. I’m not gonna tell you she’ll magically change her mind overnight. I’m not going to tell you she’ll change her mind at all. But I will tell you what’s true: it gets better. It takes a long time, and a lot of the times you’re gonna feel like that statement can’t possibly be true. It’s gonna take every ounce of strength you can afford to give it and sometimes more, but that’s where I come in, where your friends come in, why this community is bound so tightly together. We draw the courage to stand from each other. This community, this world, is better with you in it.
I love you. I’m always here or on my personal if you need anything at all. The sun does rise even after the longest, darkest nights. Stay alive to see the morning because I swear the beauty of it will be worth the wait.
~ Your Big Sib, Mod Kai 🐉