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Okay, so recently I have been feeling insecure about my art. And then when I looked back at where I was and where i am now. I got a boost of confidence. SO 

I wanted to make this post to say this. 

It doesnt matter how or where you start. If you practice and love what you do, You WILL improve. Even if that improvement isnt obvious at first. 

Just KEEP AT IT 

Keep painting, keep drawing, keep acting, keep doign what you love. You will improve. 

This has been a PSA from ur local noots 

🌈

@avistella

Alright, so we know that from my previous terrible drawing I can’t draw anime to save my life, so I went for a more realistic approach this time, and eh, I think I like it better.

Ok, all I know about you is that you have black hair and glasses and apparently no bun so if this looks nothing like you “OTL

I planned to upload it yesterday but things got in the way so happy belated…?

TalesFromTheFrontDesk: Guests get upset when it rains

Hello everyone, I’ve been following this subreddit for a while but haven’t posted yet. I’ve worked in hotels for years, ranging from the worst motel in town through to a 5 star hotel. Currently at a 4 star corporate chain hotel.

To access our car park, guests need to drive down a ramp and use their key card in a slot to open the door. This ramp is outside and uncovered. The other day, I received a very angry call from a cell phone to the front desk phone. Let EA stand for Entitled Asshole.

Me: thank you for calling town hotel, this is enigmatica, how can I help you?

EA: have you realised that it’s fucking raining?

Me: uhh..

EA: I’m a guest at this hotel and I’m trying to get into the car park. How the hell am I supposed to do that when it’s raining?

Me: oh, the card reader still works, it’s not affected by the rain

EA: are you saying I’m supposed to get my arm wet just to park my car? Where is the concierge? I need someone to come out here and hold an umbrella for me

Me: sorry, our hotel doesn’t have concierge, but I’m happy to buzz you in so you don’t need to use your key card

EA: * Hangs up *

Me: * stares blankly into space, wondering what hole these snowflakes crawled out of *

By: enigmatica_

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hi everyone so i have had this tumblr since 2012 and now im starting to realize i am not happy with it and just a lot of bad memories with this account and i wanted to start off fresh ?? 
so if youd still like to follow me its @4hoseok message me if we were mutuals so i can follow you back

also please help me reblog this or give it a like thank you

anonymous asked:

I'm having really bad nightmares and flashbacks bc of something my girlfriend ended up triggering (she didn't know) and once I got a concussion they've gotten 100x more vivid and realistic and I don't know if I can talk to her or be with her or touch her tomorrow without having a panic attack or freaking out but she needs emotional support atm and I don't know what to do

I’ve been there. If you trust her, tell her. She deserves to know that much. If she cares about you and then maybe she can take precautions in the future so it doesn’t happen again. Just because she’s going through a rough time doesn’t mean that you have to put your issues aside to help her. That’s not fair to you. Talk to her, tell her what’s going on, and reassure her (if you can) that despite your issue you can still help her with hers too. Maybe you can help each other out together.

Like I said, I’ve been there before. My ex triggered a lot of stuff and added to it. I had nightmares, flashbacks, panic attacks, etc all the time. If you want someone to talk to, I’m here for you. If you want to come off anonymous because it’s easier for you, you can message me on the instant chat thing or send something to my inbox and I’ll reply privately.

iamonlyfrogo  asked:

And good god. As a KNB fan I am in a DROUGHT honey w/ the lack of fandom activity. If possible, get to these whenever (I'm sending 2 asks like this, I can't help it, you're too good of a writer!), but could I get some kise, kuroko, and akashi friendship hcs? *breaks keyboard* INNEEEDGHG. Thank you! <3

AN: I was really in the mood to write this one!! I’ll definitely get to your other one later hehehehehehehe


akashi

  1. Akashi is someone who is very mature and has a heavy workload, so he needs someone who is also mature, but is able to help him relax and have some fun once in a while by forcing him away from the court, his violin, or his desk. He likes someone who is balanced and an all-around type of friend.
  2. Avoids inviting you to games where he plays against his former GOM teammates. He’s afraid that you’ll see his second self and that you’ll think he’s some type of monster. But he won’t stop you if you somehow find out about it and arrive on your own; he’ll even feel a little excited on the inside.
  3. Goes all out on gifts, not even just for your birthday. He’ll make care packages for when you’re sick or have exams, he’ll surprise you with your favorite foods when you get a good grade, on Christmas he adopted the puppy that you wanted, man you name it. Don’t you dare say, “Oh, that’s cute” when you’re walking pass a store because he will immediately buy it. One time you did that and all the store clerks gushed as you tried to take his credit card away.
  4. Is hesitant on introducing you to the rest of GOM because he knows they’ll try flirting with you or something weird.
  5. Asks you to tie his ties for him.
  6. Makes you his slave when he’s over at your place while at the same time criticizing how messy it is and then drinks all of your coffee.
  7. He’s your rich, snobby friend that goes, “Oh, you don’t have _____? Everyone I know has one.” Ok, but not everyone makes six/seven figures, Akashi.
  8. Forces you to go to Orchestra concerts with him because he’s too embarrassed to go alone.
  9. Waits until you get inside of your place and lock the doors before giving his driver the ok to go.
  10. He’s your dietician/nutritionist meaning not only does he make you eat salads with him, but he slips some weird, expensive powders and vitamins into your sports drinks. He weirdly emphasizes the importance of your health.
  11. He’s had rumors going around about him being weird with scissors after the Kagami incident at the Winter Cup, so he made the best out of the situation by using it jokingly when someone tries to harrass you for your number.

kise

  1. At first, you two hung around each other only outside of school to avoid his fangirls and refused to be seen with you for your safety. But then he later realized he missed you during the day time and so now he yells across the hallways to say hello to you and makes you eat lunch with him.
  2. He bought a pair of stud earrings once and gave you the right half and said something corny like, “Look, _____-cchi, it’s like you’re my other half~”
  3. He steals your phone all the time to post the same selfie on all of your social media platforms.
  4. Because his fangirls can get a little crazy, he always keeps an eye out for you, even when you don’t notice. One of his biggest fears is for you to get hurt because of him, and he would never forgive himself if it ever happened.
  5. He has to keep up a certain skin care regime to keep his face all model-y and he blocked out at least one day in the week where you both can have a spa day with his products.
  6. The friend that sends you unsolicited “nudes” (in his underwear) and asks if they’re tasteful or if it’s a good angle.
  7. Asks you to pop his back and butt pimples.
  8. When you’re upset, he’ll hold you so tightly that it’s almost suffocating, but they’re the warmes hugs you’ve ever been given. He’ll always tell you how important you are to him and everyone you care about and if that doesn’t work, he’ll sing for you. Then he’ll wrap you up in a blanket and make you both a nice, hot drink.
  9. He makes your profiles on dating websites and chooses the people you talk to, although they’re never your type, and he knows it. “What’s the point of me having these account then!?” “So you know what love feels like, _____-cchi!” “I said no to all of these people!” “I know….! I’m not ready to give you up, yet.” “….”
  10. Bought one of those cheesy keychains with “Ryouta” on it and gave it to you as a present
  11. Made himself a copy of your house keys for himself so he can barge in whenever he wants and nap on your bed.
  12. When he’s upset, he takes you to the karaoke bar so you can buy him sake and two hours worth of break up ballads.
  13. Isn’t good at giving advice, and he knows it, but always offers to listen and even tries anyways because he knows that you need him. He thinks really hard about what Kasamatsu, Aomine, or Kuroko would say in this situation.

kuroko

  1. Occasionally pops up behind you and scares you and it never ceases to amuse him. Most of the time though he’ll approach you a little slower so that you’ll get the hang of knowing what his presence is like when he wants you to notice him.
  2. An excellent listener! He listens until you’re completely finished speaking your thoughts before offering his two cents, but will support you 100% no matter what you decide to do.
  3. Treasures friendships very very dearly and thinks of his gifts he’s received from friends as good luck charms. His aura is more present when he’s given something and does the best he can to give you something of equal value.
  4. Calls you Nigou’s mother to guilt-trip you into watching over him while he’s away. He likes to joke around dryly that you’re both like divorced parents passing Nigou around all the time.
  5. “_____-san, there’s a bug on your window,” is his way of telling you to kill the bug because he’s too afraid to do it.
  6. Also doesn’t want to bring you around GOM because they’ll flirt with you. Doesn’t even want to bring you around Kagami because he doesn’t have manners and can’t help but stare at you.
  7. If someone upset you/made you cry, he is not afraid to scare them and give them a stern talking to. They’d probably take it as a joke at first, but Kuroko went as far as following them home and scaring them in an unlit street.
  8. Leaves you small, cute notes of encouragement when you’re having a bad day or if you have an exam.
  9. “_____-san, what are you in the mood to eat?” “Hm, I’m not sure.” “How about Maji Burger?” “Why did you even ask what I wanted to eat….” “I was being polite.”
  10. When he’s having a bad day, he needs a whole day to himself to recharge before talking about it, and you’re the first he turns to. He invites himself in without you knowing and you don’t notice until he plops on the couch wrapped in your blanket that you left in your room and wonder how he got into your room without your knowledge.
  11. Gets offended if you go to Maji Burger with someone else and don’t even bring him back a vanilla milkshake???? like?? are you even his friend????
I realize I grew up in a very privileged situation and I think instead of me just being happy for myself, I want to give that to people that don’t necessarily get that opportunity.
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Tobin Heath - CSN Tomboy

sometimes you need to accept that yes i may have been a little bit manipulative. yes i worded something in a specific way that would make my friend/fp/SO feel a bit guilty. yes i could have handled that situation in a much better way. yes i am wrong.

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Too much sanity may be madness, and the maddest of all:
                                      to see life as it is and not as it should be.