when you’re just scrolling through your favorite tags and stumble upon a shitstorm of fighting and discord and hate
(In relation to the last ask) Part of it also because of how much we suffer because of cis-normativity; being scared to use public restrooms, having to fight to be called by our names when cis-folk get called by preferred nicknames all the time, we can't transition without invasive psyche evaluations (often done by cis people) to determine "if we're really trans". So we make a lot of jokes about "lol why are cishets awful". I promise we don't mean all of you. Humor is just our coping mechanism.