can you tell i hate this person

It’s been 3 long years on my fitness journey. This journey has many different stages physically and mentally, but one things for sure you’ll look back at your before picture, and tell your body “I love you and thanks for coming this long way.” It’s not easy, but by sharing this I hope to inspire someone to not give up. My mother hates when I use this photo for comparison because she knows how criticizing people can be but leave that for the girl in 2013 to care what people thought/think. I’ve worked hard to become the person I am now, and I share this to inspire/motivate others that it is possible and the body is fascinating with what it can transform to. I’ve still got some work to do but for now happy #transformationtuesday ! God bless, rooting for ya! & a thanks to those who shared their journey and lit a flame for inspiration in others and I ❤

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Autism Speaks uses “acceptance” a lot, but they don’t promote the autism acceptance that autistic people are seeking.

A quote from the A$ website explains it all.

“It’s helpful to distinguish between accepting that your child has been diagnosed with autism and accepting autism.”


That is not acceptance

Acceptance is accepting a person exactly as they are right this moment. You are not accepting a person if you do not accept all aspects of them. 

Autism Speaks is still promoting hate. Their brand of acceptance is “I accept my child’s diagnosis, but I’ll never accept autism because it ruined my life.” (See how it focuses on the neurotypical mom, yet skips away from asking for or acknowledging the autistic child’s input? That’s what Autism Speaks does.)

Don’t fall for the lies Autism Speaks tries to tell you. They aren’t promoting true acceptance. They’re promoting “tolerate this horrible child stealing condition because you can’t change it right now, and wear blue so everybody knows you support this viewpoint!”


The word “tolerance” has many definitions. One of them, when used in terms like “racial tolerance” or “religious tolerance” means: willing to accept feelings or beliefs that differ from our own.

But “tolerance” has a second definition, and this is what Autism Speaks promotes: A willingness to put up with something that is bad, painful, difficult or annoying.

Tolerance is not acceptance.

Tolerance is not acceptance.

Tolerance is not acceptance.

Tolerance is not acceptance.



[”Autism Speaks has mastered the skill of deceit. Autism Speaks uses inclusive language while applying exclusive tactics. It deceives and lies. It never apologizes.” –Amy Sequenzia]

#BoycottAutismSpeaks #REDInstead #AcceptanceNotAwareness #Neurodiversity

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so like, i know this is tacky, and i hate to be that person, but can we also remember that One Day at a Time is Cuban? People don’t talk enough about that immigration episode. Elena being gay is so amazing and seeing queer latinx is incredible and so fucking needed. She has blessed us all. But let me tell you, the cuban story being spoken about doesn’t happen and that’s why misinformation about C.astro has spread and why after his death a lot of non-cubans were in my inbox not understanding the situation and shocked at how little they and the world actually knew. That episode was real. Everyone in my life has a story like that. That’s a lot of Miami’s story and it made me so damn emotional and happy to know that so many non-cubans were gonna get a chance to hear us represented. So can we not erase that too? ❤️

We can’t control what white people do. Telling them to stop isn’t going to make them stop.  Instead of wasting energy trying to convince people who benifit from our oppression to stop oppressing us, we can put that energy into protecting and building our community. Stop arguing with them, stop trying to explain to them that we don’t hate them and don’t want to kill them all. Stop trying to convince them to stop ignoring racism. Cause they won’t. They don’t care , they won’t take responsibility, they won’t empathize.

Instead, we can turn the focus on what we can do to protect ourselves from the foolishness. 

That doesn’t mean, never speak up when they do some foul shit. But our primary effort should not be asking them to change because they won’t.   

My final words on the Lauren Zuke drama

I’m already starting to see “go die” comments directed at Lauren, tagged ship hate, etc. so I felt this to be necessary.

Real life person > fictional characters and ships

All she said was “I don’t speak for my coworkers, but this is what I intended. Ship whatever you want”. That’s it.

I am an animator, myself. I can tell you all, right now: Storyboards, and everything else on a show, have to get approval. Not just by people working on the show, but by producers, censors, etc. The lapidot and amedot stuff did not get slipped in “unnoticed”. The rest of the crewniverse knew, and animated it, and sent it to air.

Also, Zuke isn’t the only person to draw Amedot/Lapidot.

If there’s lapidot or amedot hints in future non-Zuke episodes, are y’all still going to send her death threats? Call her names? If you want to analyze a show on your own blog, go for it. But once you start dragging in real life people, insulting them, telling them to “go die”, you need to take a step back and calm the hell down. And tagging your ship hate has always been stupid, regardless of fandom.

If you value fictional characters over real life people, unfollow me.

  • Me: (is sad)
  • Person: Hey, I'll be there for you. Tell me about it! You can trust me :)
  • Me: ... So it all started when I was born. (half an hour later) and that is why I am sad.
  • Person: (suddendly becomes quiet and is obviously hating me)
  • Me: Anyway, thanks for being there for me :')
Things Draco has definitely said at some point
  • “Harry, if you don’t stop molesting me with your eyes I’m going to throw you out of a second story window”
  • “If one more person mentions my hair I swear to god I’m going to commit first degree murder in front of like a hundred witnesses”
  • “That shirt is atrocious and I am ashamed to even know of its existence”
  • “What the fuck made you think that was okay on any level?”
  • “I hate you all”
  • “No, you plebeian, I do not want one of your germ-infested free samples they’ve probably been on that tray for years anyway”
  • “Oh god it touched me I’m going to have to cut off that foot now”
  • “I’m not a cat and the next person to compare me to one will find out what it feels like to have my entire foot up their ass”
  • “Coffee is god’s second most important gift to mankind, with the first being me, of course. Harry, stop laughing”
  • “I can’t tell if that’s a picture of a barf stain or your dog”
  • “Why would you ever”
  • “This conversation has officially bored me to tears, so I’m going to go do something more entertaining, like watch grass grow. Draco out.”
questions to keep in mind to ask bangtan if anyone meets them tbh
  1. does jungkook still sleep with jin
  2. why do you hate being called oppa @ jungkook
  3. did namjoon ever get lost
  4. is jimin still forgetful
  5. whats your favourite ring
  6. hoseok tell me how you really feel right now dont be jhope be jung hoseok for a second
  7. who is the person you text when something bad happens or you feel upset
  8. jin whats ur fav thing to cook
  9. when is taehyung the happiest
  10. jimin hOW DO U TURN OFF THE MOCHI SO FAST AND THEN TURN IT BACK ON
  11. yoongi when is holly getting a mommy+ can i be her mommy 
  12. also have a long conversation about their dogs with all of them + tell jimin he can share my dog with me
  13. do you guys still have the snapbacks you got in american hustle life?
  • person very close to me: *tells me they care about me a lot because they know I need validation, has stayed with me through break downs, hasn't abandoned me even though I've split on them a thousand times and that can be difficult for anyone*
  • Me: ok but.... you actually don't care about me at all???

Every time I think about having to be an adult I get so mad. Like I want to call around to see if I can get lower car insurance but I literally have no idea what I would be saying. Besides “I want cheaper car insurance”. Like wtf is a premium, wtf does 100/300/100 mean, how much insurance do i need???

a few underrated klance moments that i like a lot:

“shut up and trust me”

lance: ooooh are u scared?
keith: with u at the helm? terrified.

lance (to keith): i did something ~cool~ and you can’t handle it.

keith (to lance during the training): just concentrate on keeping me safe
me: lenny face

“you still going keith?” “you know it. you?”
“going? i’m speeding up!” “oh yeah?” “you getting scared?” “i’m not scared!” (like you cannot tell me this wasn’t flirting)

lance (softly): i…actually don’t hate you rn

keith (skeptical): what was that noise?
lance (smug): laser guns

one of my personal favourites:
allura scolding keith for being so eager to get lance out of the pod. “how much better do you think he’s gonna get in a few more ticks??” *pouts*

keith: *huffs and crosses arms after watching lance flirt with allura* classic.

lance: HOLD YOUR JETS KEITH


*lance tells his idea to keith looking smug af*
keith: that actually….is a better idea

They tell you moving on is easy, but moving on is actually one of the most difficult things to do. Getting over someone is a constant state of missing someone to wishing they didn’t exist, to loving them to hating them, to wanting them to never talk to you again to hoping and wishing they’d send you a text. It slowly gets easier as the distance between you two gets greater, but I don’t know if you can truly get over someone you once cared about. They will always have a part of your heart and be a part of who you were and who you are, but I promise one day you’ll realize you deserved to be loved not considered, you deserved to be fought for not given up on, you will see that person was a lesson not a rule. Just keep pushing forward.
—  Sincerely moving on // RK.

Not to be that person, but since when did it become a trend to use the words “you can go choke” among Kpop fans? I’ve been seeing it going around a lot recently and I’ve personally gotten those words sent to me and it doesn’t feel good at all. You’re pretty much loosely telling a person to go kill themselves and it’s not funny at all considering how often those words are getting thrown around. It’s not funny and it’s not something to joke about no matter how much you hate the person you’re directing it to. You shouldn’t be telling anyone to go choke. Please just stop. It’s gross and no one deserves to have those words of hate directed to them. Seriously.

They tell you how beautiful love can be. They tell you about holding hands, kissing each others lips, sleeping together and waking up next to the person you love the most. But they don’t tell you how ugly and hard love can be, because love isn’t always happiness. There will be fights in a relationship about so many things. I hate it when they don’t mention the sleepless nights, the break downs, the waiting, the doubts. Just everything. Because love isn’t just love. It’s trust, respect, patient, fights, arguments and a lot of crying.
—  And that’s what they call the dark side of love
Fake

are you real or are you fake?

because to be honest i can’t tell.

with your inhuman like emotions,

but your charming personality.

i can’t tell who’s real and who isn’t.

everyone is just fake to me.

no one cares about me.

no one loves me.

no one likes me.

but i can’t blame them.

i would hate me too,

but if you hate me don’t pretend to like me.

stop hanging out with me.

stop talking to me.

stop leading me on and saying you’re my friend.

i can’t tell who or what is real.

in all actual reality,

i’m tired of trying to decode this mess.

I crave physical contact, but at the same time I feel so uncomfortable with it. I tense up and just get awkward. It honestly depends if I like you or not. I can like someone but not want to hug them, but I can’t tell them that and then I get so uncomfortable and let them hug me and I hate it. I hate not being able to set boundaries without feeling like a selfish piece of shit