Im a girl and identify as an bi. I have noticed that I am usually attracted to more 'boyish' girls and more 'feminine' boys. Is it normal? When I have said this to someone they have said that I am a "bad bisexual" and that I'm just confused and should just choose one.
I think every bisexual in the world should line up and slap every person who has called someone a “bad bisexual” in succession. Same goes for people who say biphobic trash like “you’re confused” or “just choose one.” You are not a bad bisexual. You are not a bad bisexual! It drives me up the wall that people have all of these opinions about how you should experience attraction and who you should be attracted to! Also, how can someone tell you you’re a bad bisexual and then tell you to choose one gender, aka stop being bisexual? This makes literally no sense.
There is so much variety in this community and that’s part of what makes it wonderful! It’s perfectly normal. Not everyone is attracted to boyish girls and feminine girls, but certainly enough people are for it to be one type of “normal.” Also, fun fact, I have at least one offline friend who identifies as ambisexual, aka attracted to androgynous people or people who cross binary gender lines. There is nothing wrong with you!