can i just be friends with you please

anonymous asked:

TT I need advice I told my datepartner it's okay that they're poly and that I just dont want to know about their other relationships but I'm not I'm really not okay with it and I don't know what to do and I'm just really hurt and upset and I know this probably isn't the kind of thing to ask a hp rper but i dont know who else to ask because as dumb as it is cause you dont and will not ever know me you're my best friend I dont know who else I can turn to please help me

(( OOC: I have a very strong opinion on this, so forgive my bluntness.  

Be. Honest. With. People. 

This goes for any type of relationship. If you are not alright with something, if you have concerns, or if someone you love does things that make you upset or uncomfortable… talk to them about it. Be open with them… discuss it (Do it in a kind, loving, open-minded way, but talk to them). 

If you are in a romantic relationship with someone, and you are not comfortable with their preferences or how they view relationships… then there must either be compromise/change… or the romantic relationship should end, because you cannot provide each other with the things that you value most.  

Relationships are built on trust… if you don’t have trust, you don’t have a relationship. If you aren’t honest with others, or if they are not honest with you, then you will be building a relationship with a stranger. 

If you are not truthful about who you are, and what you want out of life… then the person you are with will be falling in love with someone that isn’t real.

They will love the image you put forward and not the real you, because you’re not allowing them to know the real you. You’re catering to what you think they want, and sacrificing yourself in the process. 

If you feel like you can’t be honest with someone, for fear of them leaving you… 

That is not a real relationship. That’s pretending. That’s playing. That’s nothing.

Be. Honest. With. People. 

Be honest with yourself. )) 

nurseydex/zimbits fic prompt

someone should write this because I can’t get over how hilarious this would be. i basically just wrote the whole thing in bullet-point format, but if anyone with actual storytelling abilities wants to tackle this, i’d love you forever

  • okay so bitty’s senior year, the only friends left on smh that he hangs out with regularly are chowder, nursey and dex
  • chowder is obviously his favorite because chowder is bitty’s son, but chowder has caitlin, so it’s not like he’s there to hang 24/7
  • he and nursey are friends, but they’ve don’t really hang out by themselves a whole lot
  • we know that dex likes helping bitty cook and bake from tweets, sketches, and extras (remember hausgiving?)
  • so during bitty’s senior year, dex spends a lot of time in the kitchen helping him bake and hanging out with him
  • maybe also to talk about his crush on how much he can’t stand nursey
  • anyways, bitty is out of the closet so the newest frogs are probably aware that he’s gay, and also aware of samwell’s reputation (1 in 4 or maybe more)
  • they come by the haus a lot and see dex helping bitty bake, and bitty constantly calling dex “honey” or “sweetheart” (because that’s just how bitty is as a person)
  • what do they make of this?
  • obviously dex and bitty are dating

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Too much to ask...

I want this to be my happy place again. I want my friends and followers to be happy.

I just… it makes me so damn sad, and I feel powerless to stop it.

I try to be supportive and there, and somehow I still fail miserably.

Can we just be happy again? Please!

Shout out to my girls who are always there even during the UGLIEST times.

Guys I don’t know what I would do without you and I miss the hell out of you. You are my people. You are my tribe. You are my family. I owe you so much. @thing-you-do-with-that-thing @torn-and-frayed@chaos-and-the-calm67 @deansdirtylittlesecretsblog @blacktithe7@captainradicalpassion @winchester-writes @ilostmyshoe-79 @percywinchester27 @purgatoan @nichelle-my-belle

Originally posted by sooper-dee-dooper-natural

Being Best Friends w/ SHINee ot5

anon said: I’m so excited requests are open!! Your writing is amazing and I love your headcanons! I believe you do shinee too so can I request headcanons for being friends w them? Ot5 or/and each member individually please!?

If you’d like individual members, feel free to request them!


  • you didn’t choose to be friends with them
  • it just sort of happened…
  • like one day you realized that you had all of their numbers and you all had hung out since before they’d debuted and it was like yeah okay
  • none of you have ever said anything about being best friends you all just sort of roll with it
  • nights where you spend hours with them playing board games that Jonghyun and Minho totally cheat at
  • seriously you’re playing Monopoly with them and Jonghyun’s the banker and he’s stealing $500 bills
  • Taemin called him out on it too so now Onew’s the designated banker
  • okay but Key has great luck with board games
  • he makes pacts with you and Minho and then goes back on his pacts with you two in order to win
  • Key would love to take you out places and then have you take picture of him
  • but little do you know he takes these super candid photos of you and sends them to the group chat
  • you end up muting the group chat you’re in with them because Key and Jonghyun and Minho never shut up
  • Taemin would ask you to watch his dance practice videos
  • he would also love when you showed up to the SM building with lunch boxes and force him to take a break because he’d sent you thirteen dance practice videos in the last two hours and he needs to take a break
  • they would skype you when they were on tour so that you could wish them luck
  • they would give you tickets to their shows because they love you
  • and they’re the coolest group in the world and they want you to acknowledge that
  • movie nights with them
  • Taemin would be a little shit and put popcorn in your hair or down your shirt and then blame it on Minho
  • which he isn’t wrong with his blame… Minho helped him
  • Onew would do his best to get all of the popcorn out of your hair
  • Jonghyun and Key would laugh
  • you would never sit on the floor again during movie night
  • they would all tell you they loved you in different ways
  • mostly jokes and gifts
  • but sometimes they’d tell you how much they loved and appreciated you because they do even if they don’t always tell you or show you that they do

anonymous asked:

Can you pray for me? I've been struggling with pornography and masturbation since I was 10 years old and I'm 22 now. This sin has plagued me for so long and I just want to be rid of it. I've told my parents, my sisters, friends... but I still feel as if I have no accountability for it. Please pray for me!

Hi friend,

Sending prayers up for you. Have you seen this post?

All my love,

S. 

anonymous asked:

こんにちは!  Hello!! I was wondering if you can do a senerio where Kuroo, Oikawa, Iwaizumi, Bokuto, and Akaashi are head over heels for a half American half Japanese girl( she's bylanguel). Btw I love your blog!! ありがとう!

Hi! So this request stumped me for a while because I wanted to write individual scenarios like you wanted, but I just couldn’t make them different enough to really make them enjoyable. So I wrote headcanons instead, but please send me another ask if you want me to turn any of the headcanons into a scenario because I will gladly do so! I really enjoyed these headcanons, and I tried to do as much research as I could, so I hope you enjoy them! Thanks for the request!


Kuroo

  • First becomes friends with you out of curiosity
  • And then he becomes obsessed with American culture
  • You can barely get him to leave you alone long enough to go to class
  • He just wants to know everything
  • When he asks you out, at first it’s just a casual meeting to learn more about your life since you understand both Japanese and American cultures
  • But on the date he realizes that he actually really likes you
  • You hardly talk about your heritage at all while on the date, instead you both simply talk about what you like
  • After you start dating, he doesn’t quite lose his interest in finding out everything he can about the mix of the two cultures
  • He chills out a bit about it
  • But when he meets your family, all bets are off because he’s going to be crazy about it again (especially if your family lives in America)

Oikawa

  • Acts like he knows everything about every country on Earth
  • Spoiler alert: he does not
  • His first interaction with you is you correcting him about something wrong he said about America
  • He pouts for hours after that before he asks your name
  • After he finds out you’re half American, he apologizes if he accidentally offended you by being wrong
  • He looks at you just as you laugh and smile at him, insisting it’s okay
  • After seeing your smile, he’s gone
  • He’s smitten
  • He’s convinced he’s in love, and Iwaizumi has to remind him that he only just met you
  • He tries every way possible to see if you like him back
  • Every way besides asking you out
  • Finally, Iwaizumi offhandedly confesses for him
  • You were taken by surprise, but accepted nonetheless
  • He pretended like that was his plan all along, and asks you on a date
  • But the joke’s on him because you were just as smitten with him as he was with you, you had just been waiting for him to ask

Iwaizumi

  • At first he doesn’t seem too interested
  • He doesn’t really take notice of the fact that you’re half American
  • But you like to go watch his volleyball matches, and he starts to notice you there
  • And then when you start cheering for him, he really starts to notice you
  • He starts talking to you more at school instead of just a wave or a hello
  • He wants to know more about you
  • And you can tell he really likes you
  • But it still takes him nearly six months to ask you out because he’s convinced that you’re not actually interested in him
  • He’s extremely formal when he asks you out and it makes you laugh
  • Until he gets completely flustered by you kissing his cheek
  • And then he’s convinced that you like him back and everything is smooth sailing from there

Bokuto

  • EXCITED AF
  • He’s just like Kuroo, except 10 times more excited
  • He wants to know what it’s like being half American and half Japanese because any combination of two cultures is the coolest thing ever to him
  • He’s super interested in your life, almost to the point of annoyance
  • He wants to be able to take part in your combined culture, so you try to tell him everything about how your family is different from his all-Japanese one
  • On your birthday, he’s out of control
  • He wants to make sure he hits every tradition like it’s a checklist
  • It takes two days, but honestly you just love watching him be that excited
  • He’s very respectful of all the cultural differences between his upbringing and yours
  • He just really loves sharing both of your cultures with you

Akaashi

  • Like Iwaizumi, it’s not a big deal for him
  • The coolest thing to him is the fact that you’re bilingual
  • He’s always wanted to learn another language, and the fact that you’re fluent in both Japanese and English is really cool to him
  • He knows a fair amount of English, but he’s nowhere close to fluent
  • He gets closer to you by asking you to help him with English
  • And he talks to you a lot about being bilingual
  • Eventually, you all stop talking about languages and start talking about other things when you realize he doesn’t need help at all in English (he passes English class with high marks every time)
  • He asks you out after a month
  • He doesn’t really see much reason to wait any longer than that
  • After that, he doesn’t mention your half American heritage very much at all
  • Except for the occasional question about English
  • Because he still thinks being bilingual is the coolest thing ever

resident-assassins-may-cry  asked:

I ALWAYS ask before petting someone's dog. I'm a very possessive and protective person when it comes to things I feel responsible for so I can't stand the thought of someone just coming up and just petting my dog without any prompting.

Originally posted by iglovequotes

@resident-assassins-may-cry Same. It’s just common basic respect for the owner and dog. In my case, my dog is my best friend, family. He’s my child, in a sense. And I’m just as protective of him as I am to my little cousins! I’m still really livid over the ordeal, I’m just happy that people agree with me. Thank you, honestly I love that people want to pet my dog but he’s not even a year old, he gets scared and if people just ask it would make walking him so much easier!! - Ro

deerminh  asked:

Hey, it's me again \(^♡^)/ Can I please have antoher Infinite gif reaction? Where they have a best friend and they've been friends for ages or since childhood and Infinite is thinking how it would be if they were a couple instead of "just best friends" and if their best friend would return their feelings.

Hey there lovely ~ I’m happy to write this up for you and hope it turns out in a way that you like!

\*unicorn*/



SUNGGYU:

He finds himself staring at you more and more, taking in every inch of you each time he sees you like its the first time. Doesn’t realize he’s actually staring at you until he gets caught in the act “Hey?” “Oh, uh, hey.”

Originally posted by jdw-juseyo


DONGWOO:

The more he thinks about what it would be like to date you, the more the idea appeals to him. You guys already know everything about eachother, you do everything together, you get along so well, it’s like you’re already dating so why not make it official. “Y/N, I’ve got an idea and I hope you like it as much as I do!”

Originally posted by inpinitaize


WOOHYUN:

The two of you often play-flirt and are often mistaken as a couple so the thought of dating you has crossed his mind before, but he’s beginning to think it’s something he really wants and isn’t afraid to go after. “So Y/N, what are you doing the rest of your life?”

Originally posted by namstar


HOYA:

He was honestly surprised at the direction his thoughts have been going recently, but not bad surprised. He starts to look at you differently and realize all the things that make you a person he wants in his life forever and maybe not just as friends like he originally thought. “You okay? You’re pretty quiet today.” “Yeah, just thinking about some stuff. Well talk about it when I figure out what I want for sure.”

Originally posted by sunggyw


SUNGYEOL:

He’s probably had feelings for you all along, just deciding to put them aside and be your friend because he thought that’s what you wanted and he just wanted to be a part of your life. When the feelings get too much for him he’s going to accidentally spill the beans, but he’s not even upset about it “Wow you’re perfect.” “What?” “I think I love you.”

Originally posted by wonyeols


L:

He’s usually happy and outgoing when with you, but he finds himself being quieter and quieter as his thoughts about you race. He doesn’t know if these feelings are here to stay or are just passing by so he waits, but once he figures out what’s going on he’ll have a serious conversation with you about it. He won’t want to ruin your friendship, but he doesn’t like keeping things from you so he let’s it all out one night “…but now I just can’t stop thinking about the two of us together, really together, and I like the idea.”

Originally posted by ifntsoo


SUNGJONG:

He’ll be another one that has always had feelings for you, he’s just wanted to wait until he thought it was the right time to tell you about them. He’s been there for you when you would get hurt by other boys all these years and now he’s here to tell you that you deserve someone that loves you completely and without reservations and that that someone is him. “I would never hurt you like they did, just let me mend your broken pieces.”

Originally posted by sungjongontop

anonymous asked:

Hello lovely! I saw your links about watching Versailles with English sub and naturally i was over the moon (thanks so much by the way!) When i went to download the actual episode you linked my computer flagged it up as having viruses on it. I thought that my protection software was just being a bit sensitive, so i decided to look further into it and found that there actually was (as far as i can tell) malicious content within the file. It could just be me, but I just thought I'd let you know :)

Hi there beautiful versailles family friend!

you mean the episodes posted by TvTeam??

these ones?: https://urbanproxy.eu/torrent/17424538/Versailles.2015.S02E01.MULTi.1080p.HDTV.x264-SH0W

because I’ve downloaded all the Versailles episodes they’ve posted and they’re fine? They’re even in english audio!!

If your files are for some reason corrupted, please let me know. i might just post the ones i have, for you all in a masterpost :)

Originally posted by anneboleyns

Liar

(The following poem is one I wrote, and it actually won a local contest!)

(For Vortex, my everlasting muse and friend)


Nothing left to hide

(Nothing to hide)

Everything is simple as it can be

(Simple)(Be, be)

What are you looking at me for?

(For, for)

I’ve done nothing wrong!

(Today, at least)

I’m just a truth teller

(Lie spreader)

Teller of the truth,

(Lie spreader)

Walking paradox,

(A paradox comes to life)

Soft sorrow, no morrow

Endless life, no strife

(A paradox brought to life)

There’s no story left to be told

(Lie spreader)

No memories to hold

(Lie spreader)

Trust me, I’m not that bold

(Lie spreader)

I don’t care about you

(Please don’t go)

Scram, will you?

(Let me love you)

We just have no connection

(I’m wired to your heartbeat)

Walk away!

(Stay, stay)

Leave!

(Never escape my arms)

I’m just a truth teller

(Lie spreader)

Teller of the truth,

(Lie spreader)

Walking paradox,

(A paradox comes to life)

And there you go…

(Go, go, go)

I’ll easily forget you

(I’ll miss you every day of my life)

Truth teller

(Liar)

A really good friend of mine said that no one at my college was transphobic and I honestly wanted to cry. Like yeah ok no one beats me up for being trans but people will avoid sitting next to me, call me ‘it’ and shemale and all that shit behind my back and constantly refuse to call me by the correct pronouns so please don’t say transphobia isn’t there just because you can’t physically see it

Honestly i’m so proud of everybody who i met this semester? All the friends i made, everybody who worked on their portfolio. Everybody worked. So goddamn hard and its just astounding and inspiring. If you got accepted then, congratulations!!! And if not then PLEASE dont let this hold you down, you worked night and day on this, you worked endlessly and you put your soul into this, dont let it stop you, you can achieve anything you set your mind to and if you ask for help and do what you can, theirs nO REASON why you cant get in soon. I believe in all of you.

wokeuponedayandknew  asked:

Do you have any filipino friends? Can you help me promote something to them please

Oh, sorry kiddo. I’m not aware of that information. But if you’d like, you can share your massage via another ask and I’ll post it. I just don’t know how many of them are. 

Where is my “Lena buys a small NC newspaper, and has them offer Kara a job as a reporter, because she feels like it’s her fault that Kara lost her job, but wants to keep it all under wraps. And Kara comes bounding into her office all excited like “oh my god, I can’t believe I got a new job so quickly, and it’s even better pay than at Catco, and I get to be an actual junior reporter and one of the senior guys is mentoring me and they say I can write about what ever I am passionate about” and Lena is like “oh rly?” and is just so happy that Kara is happy and doesn’t want anything in return, but to get to support her friend (oh and you know, casually encourages the newspaper to give Kara assignments that require her to interview Lena on a regular basis)” fic?

GUYS

GUYS

I already saw some people call Otabek Ota. I BEG YOU PLEASE DON’T DO IT! I’m actually laughing so hard I’m crying a little.

It means Grandfather in Kazakh, okay? Or even FATHER IN SOME REGIONS, OKAY?

That just must be really awkward.

This is my friend Yura and he calls me Grandpa.

Hello, my name is Otabek, but you can call me daddy.


If you want to use a short form, just call him Bek, that’s perfectly okay and a widespread thing to do. It would also mean something like prince and I think it’s beautiful.

Fandom Fic Rec Days

The Fandom Fic Rec Days are back!

It is easy to make people look at art; all you need is a reblog. But when it comes to make people want to read fanfiction, it can get just a little more tricky.

To give writers more recognition, and to celebrate their stories, we’ve decided to organize the Fic Rec Days.

On February 10th, 11th, and 12th, you’re invited to rec your favourite fics, from the all time faves to the WIPs you’re currently enjoying.

How? In any way you want!

  • Create a post saying why people should read the fic!
  • Draw some fanart!
  • Create graphics/aesthetics!
  • Make a fic rec list!
  • Make a mix!
  • And so on.

Anything, really; there’s no way of rec’ing worth less than another.

This way, you will:

  1. Promote writers’ fics, and maybe get them new readers.
  2. Make their day, they will be super happy!
  3. Maybe encourage them to write more (win-win!)

Any rules/extra information?

  • Tag your posts with #ficrecdays
  • Tag your fandom/ship.
  • You can always queue if you’re not available!
  • Readers, please consider leaving a comment on the fics you liked!

Above all else, have fun, make people happy (writers and new readers alike!)

Reblog to spread the word, and see you then! :D

jfc guys it was just confirmed everything (EVERYTHING) we saw Even doing from the minute he saw Isak was in order to get to know him

I honestly thought he may have joined the kose group to maybe make more friends but no:

  • he literally joined to meet isak SO
  • when isak wandered out to avoid the love game, Even PURPOSELY FOLLOWED HIM
    • can u guys imagine him wandering around the school wondering where tf isak went to and being like YES when he found isak in the bathroom i can’t
  • once he found him in the bathoom, he went as far as to COME UP WITH A PLAN TO TALK TO ISAK BY TAKING ALL THE PAPER TOWELS
  • THEN this smooth ass mf just goes “come outside” (you know internally he was like !! cute!! boy!! please!! talk!! to!! me!!!!)
  • NOT ONLY THAT but when emma came out to talk to them and ask if isak was in a group, he fucking intervenes to actually steal isak away from her??
    • hey isak BTW WE’RE IN A GROUP TOGETHER I JUST CAME UP WITH THIS PLAN RIGHT NOW LOLOL SORRY i have just met you and i love u

and it wasn’t just that first episode, this confirms so many things Even has done because of wanting to be with Isak

  • that smooth af walk across the courtyard KNOWING isak was watching him (he planned that entire gd moment)
  • ‘forgetting’ his ID (no doubt whatsoever in my mind this nerd came up with his idea in the store as he was looking @ beer)
  • IMMEDIATELY INTERVENING WHEN ISAK WAS KISSING EMMA AT THE PARTY 
    • you know he made a beeline across the room like NOOOOOOOOO MIIINNE

and so much more. SO MUCH MORE. guys Even fell in love with Isak at first sight and after that point became the most Extra person I have ever seen

I’m really emotional

Dumb headcanon of the day: it’s very rare, but every so often Victor and Yuuri will get in a bad enough argument where they’ll try to give each other the cold shoulder and go off by themselves to sulk, but it never lasts more than 24 hours at the absolute tops because they’re the most pathetic sad babies when they have to be away from each other, and their friends usually intervene because they can’t put up with this nonsense.

Three hours after the fight about Victor forgetting their anniversary Phichit calls Victor’s phone and is like, ‘um, hi, this is Phichit! Yuuri came over to my place and he just ate an entire gallon of ice cream while watching sad movies and I think he’s in a legit food coma now and I’m kinda scared so can you come over and patch things up with him right now please??’

‘Uh, actually, this is Yuri. I just answered Victor’s phone because it rang like twenty times. That dumbass came to practice but then he just lay down on the ice and cried, and all the tears made his stupid face stick to the ice and Mila is trying to pry him off now, so it’s gonna be a while.’