calming effects of pets

spitfirerose  asked:

If you're still taking prompts, I'd really love to see Prompto suffering from nightmares after the events of "Memories of the Past", and Ignis recalling the calming effect that hair petting had on child Prompto. Poor Prom is too exhausted to be embarrassed, though there's nothing to worry about as Ignis cares so much for his wellbeing. It's really, really soothing. (Those tender, bittersweet moments between the two just slayed me, I love that fic so much!)

What a sweet prompt! This one was really fun to do. Thank you for sending it my way, and I’m glad to hear you liked MotP. <3

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A Soothing Touch

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It’s been scarcely a week, but already most of the obvious signs have faded.

Prompto no longer starts when someone approaches without warning from behind. At meals, he’s stopped taking seconds and thirds, just to prove that he can. His aimless chatter has returned: frequent, and optimistic, and full of humor.

Perhaps Gladio and Noctis are taken in by the thin veneer of normality.

Ignis, however, does not have that luxury. By habit, he wakes early, to drink his first cup of coffee in peace and begin the preparations for breakfast. He sees Prompto’s face, unguarded in sleep, twisted with pain and terror, and he knows that, though the physical changes have faded, some lingering ill effects from his brush with the time daemon yet remain.

It cannot be easy, these memories of a past Prompto’s struggled so hard to leave behind. 

This morning’s nightmare, it seems, is particularly unpleasant. Prompto shifts and jerks in his sleeping bag, as though trying to escape some nameless foe. He makes a sound, low in his throat, like a wounded animal. His face is paper-pale in the early morning light, and Ignis can just make out the tears tracking slowly down his cheeks.

All at once, Ignis decides his coffee can wait.

He takes care not to wake Gladio or Noct, moving with careful steps over their sleeping forms until he stands beside Prompto. Then he lowers himself to the tent’s floor.

He still remembers the way Prompto felt in his arms, when he was so much smaller. He recalls the way that fragile frame trembled against him, and how readily a gentle touch calmed him into contentment.

Carefully, Ignis reaches out to smooth his fingers through Prompto’s hair. 

He sets a steady rhythm, the one that became habitual in the few days Prompto was reverted to a younger self. It’s the way he would stroke a frightened animal: soft, and gentle, with infinite care.

Perhaps Prompto can feel it, even in sleep. His restless motion stills, and he makes another sound, quieter this time: almost pleased.

Ignis stays that way for perhaps ten minutes, nothing but the feel of Prompto’s hair between his fingers and against his palm. He stays until the nightmare, whatever it was, has been soothed away. Then he moves to rise. 

Breakfast won’t cook itself, after all.

“Iggy?” says a quiet voice beside him.

When he looks, he sees that Prompto’s awake, peering up at him with eyes that are still red from crying.

“Yes, Prompto?”

There’s a pause that lasts so long Ignis is certain Prompto won’t say anything.

Then, finally: “Could you keep doing that? Just for a little bit.”

“Of course,” says Ignis. “For as long as you like.”

Perhaps breakfast can wait, after all.

Alternate Uses of the Mind Palace

As aspiring deductionists, the Mind Palace, also known as the Memory Palace or Brain Attic, becomes exceedingly important. It has the potential to be useful to anyone in any walk of life, but as people training ourselves in the art of deduction, having a wealth of reference information to draw back on becomes paramount. I highly recommend this technique for anyone studying deduction. There are plenty of posts and resources on the Internet detailing the what the Mind Palace is and how to make one, but I’ve noticed how shockingly underused the Mind Palace is. Many refer to it as a Memory Palace, as I stated earlier. The truth is, this technique can be manipulated to become much more useful.


1. A calming technique 

Most of us watched the BBC version of Sherlock. He gets shot, having only seconds of consciousness left. So, doing what he could to save his own life, he fell back upon his Mind Palace. He figures out what he needs to do to save his own life, one of them being the prevention of shock. He falls back on a childhood memory of his pet dog named Redbeard, effectively calming him.

 This can be accomplished by having a specific room or section in your Palace dedicated to emotionally calming objects and locations to you. This can involve the beach, your Grandparents’ living room, your bedroom, or a completely made up room that would relax you in real life. Mentally hang pictures on your wall, add a fireplace, calming music and aromas to this room. This is immensely underrated, and could one day be incredibly important, whether you are in a life-threatening situation or are just incredibly stressed. Never underrate the necessity for a relaxation period. 


2. Visualization 

This one is rather broad, so I’ve split it into sections. All of these will progressively get more vivid and realistic as you progress. 


The Visualization of Worlds: 

This one seems sort of obvious. However, most don’t realize the potential this possesses. Most use it to visualize objects, paintings, memories, etc. However, you can go much, much further. For example, take the Sherlock Christmas special, The Abominable Bride. The majority of that episode is Sherlock’s own little world, one he completely imagines, but for a practical purpose. Through a combination of his knowledge of the case and his own imagination, he is able to construct an entire world inside his own mind. 


The Visualization of People

Besides worlds, you can also remember people. When you look at a complete mental universe, remembering and visualizing people may seem fairly obvious, but hear me out. You can remember your friends, family, inspirational characters, etc. You know how when you know a person, you can predict what they would say to certain things? You memorize their personality, the different quirks of their person, and their little habits. Using that, you can create a mental version of them in your head, and, with practice, have full conversations with them. This takes a large amount of practice and is fairly difficult to pull off. After all, this is you essentially pretending to be them, and you can’t guarantee  accuracy. This isn’t them, and you need to keep that in mind. This is your mind’s version of them, your mental interpretation.  I won’t lie, it is somewhat awkward when you first begin. This can also serve as a calming technique as well (or incredibly stressful and terrifying, depending who you visualize) This is seen in Sherlock as well, not only in the Christmas special but we also see him have a conversation with Moriarty, a mental version that he had locked up, chained, and put into a padded room. There is some psychological tells on how he views Moriarty here (many not being very obvious) but that’s a post for another day.

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The Visualization of Complex Events and Timelines

This visualization technique can serve many purposes, as clearly shown. However, while in school, I used this to memorize events in history. In order to memorize battles, I would actually put myself there in the heat of the battle, a calm and careful ghost walking amongst the chaos. I would visit each side, the plotting of strategy, or if it was a surprise attack, the calm before the storm. I would visualize (as gruesome as it is) the blood flying. The explosions, the expressions of the soldiers, overhead view, all of it in slow motion. With waves of my hand, I pause the scene. I slow it down or speed it up. I can zoom in on particular details, for example, the marks of rank on a general. You can use this while deducing a room, a house, or a person, whether it just being a few seconds or, in Sherlock’s case, visualizing the murder, not unlike how Will Graham does in the popular TV series ‘Hannibal’.  It is important to realize that this is your head and therefore, you are God. You control time, location, and your view of the situation. Depending on what you’re using it for, practice some form of caution if you tend to be squeamish. You can imagine how it could be potentially disturbing to the mind to be able to picture (in vivid detail, the more practice you get) a murder take place. 

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All of these techniques have the potential to be challenging, but all can be incredibly useful. They will take time to master. Some may be more difficult than others based on your own natural abilities, but do not get discouraged. Use these techniques and develop your own uses for your Mind Palace. Utilize it to it’s full potential. Remember, your Palace is limited only by your own imagination. Be creative with what you do with it.


If any of you have any alternate or creative uses for your Mind Palace, feel free to message me and I’ll either create a new post or add to this one. I’m interested to see what people have done with theirs!


Tips:

1. Work to become more observant in your day to day life.

The more observant you become in real life, the more you’ll be able to visualize and picture in your Mind Palace, making it more vivid and giving you the ability to notice more. There are some very good programs and videos on how to become more observant, find them and utilize them. 


2. Practice mindfulness and concentration techniques (post on that in progress), this will give you the ability to focus in your Palace for longer periods of time. 


3. Visit your Mind Palace often and run over important info. 

anonymous asked:

How does stimming work? As in, how does it help self-regulate? Is it that it shifts one's focus from unpleasant stimuli?

Stimming works in several ways. The simplest is that sometimes it is just fun. It evokes the same feelings of joy and happiness anything else that is pleasant. This generally referred to as a sensory diet - experiencing sensory input for the sake of the experience.

It can also act as a coping tool in that it is used for sensory or emotional self regulation. This works several ways, but the most common is using a stim that induces a calming effect. For example, I find that petting my stuffed fox is extremely relaxing. When I am emotionally overloaded, I can pet my stuff fox and it will have a grounding effect on me because the tactile sensation calms me down.

Another type of regulation is sensory self regulation. This is using a stim specifically to manage your sensory environment. An example of this might be that in a crowded restaurant with a lot of noise I will take my tablet out and play a game that involves a lot of tapping on the screen. The immediate tactile sensory experience of the taping occupies more of my attention than the sounds around me.

Yet another type of stimming is cognitive self regulation. This is particularly common in ADHD. Someone with hyperactive-impulsive traits might bounce their foot or leg to get rid of excess energy so they can pay attention to a lecture. An inattentive ADHD might use a fidget to take up extra cognitive processing that would otherwise focus on random things around the room (this is why I stim in class; without a constant stim to take up my processing, my brain will latch on to sounds around me and I get distracted).

There are other types of stimming, I’m sure, but these are the big ones that come to my mind as someone who is autistic and ADHD inattentive type with a few hyperactive-impulsive traits (though not enough for a combined type diagnosis).

- Sam

anonymous asked:

I am really sorry to hear about your extra pain - somehow everybody whom I know with chronicle pain is catching an extra these days, as if there's something in the air. My dog usually saves me when I am in too bad and comparative before and after moods :-) Not just because petting him has a calming effect but also the exchange through the human network that evolves from walking around daily with him makes a real difference. Hope you are having a nice evening ;-)

thanks for this lovely message. 

Yes there has def been something going around the last few months, some viruses as well (my mum has had it the last few weeks) it is that time of year I guess.