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hello friends who get their T or E through shots

if you get an itchy swelling at your injection site it could be an allergic reaction! not to your hormones, just the needle! trauma to the skin, like needles, can cause your body to release histamine, causing an allergic-type reaction. I used to get the itchy bump after every single shot, so I started taking antihistamines (like bendaryl) 30 minutes or an hour before I did my shot and it stopped happening. it might be worth trying if it’s a problem you have!

if you get the itchy bump where you do your shot it’s most likely nothing to worry about. if it gets darker, bigger/more spread out, starts streaking, or gets very warm to the touch, call your doctor for advice. but that’s pretty unusual!

The Thirteenth Doctor is... Jodie Whittaker!

The BBC today announced to the world that Jodie Whittaker will be the Thirteenth Doctor in Doctor Who.

Details from the press release follow:

The identity of the new Doctor was revealed exclusively on BBC One and on social media around the world after the Men’s Wimbledon Final on Sunday 16 July.

She will be the Thirteenth Time Lord and take over from Peter Capaldi, who leaves the global hit show at Christmas.

New head writer and executive producer Chris Chibnall, who takes over from Steven Moffat on the next series, made the decision to cast the first ever woman in the iconic role.

Jodie Whittaker says:

 “I’m beyond excited to begin this epic journey with Chris and with every Whovian on this planet. It’s more than an honour to play the Doctor. It means remembering everyone I used to be, while stepping forward to embrace everything the Doctor stands for: hope. I can’t wait.”

Chris Chibnall, New Head Writer and Executive Producer, says: 

“After months of lists, conversations, auditions, recalls, and a lot of secret-keeping, we’re excited to welcome Jodie Whittaker as the Thirteenth Doctor.

“I always knew I wanted the Thirteenth Doctor to be a woman and we’re thrilled to have secured our number one choice. Her audition for The Doctor simply blew us all away. Jodie is an in-demand, funny, inspiring, super-smart force of nature and will bring loads of wit, strength and warmth to the role. The Thirteenth Doctor is on her way.”

Peter Capaldi says:

“Anyone who has seen Jodie Whittaker’s work will know that she is a wonderful actress of great individuality and charm. She has above all the huge heart to play this most special part. She’s going to be a fantastic Doctor.”

Charlotte Moore, BBC Director of BBC Content, says: 

“Making history is what Doctor Who is all about and Chris Chibnall’s bold new take on the next Time Lord is exactly that. The nation is going to fall in love with Jodie Whittaker - and have lots of fun too!”

Piers Wenger, Controller BBC Drama, says: 

"Jodie is not just a talented actor but she has a bold and brilliant vision for her Doctor. She aced it in her audition both technically and with the powerful female life force she brings to the role. She is destined to be an utterly iconic Doctor.”

Matt Strevens, Executive Producer, says: 

“I’m so thrilled that Jodie Whittaker said yes to playing the Doctor. I’ve been a fan for years and always hoped to work with her. She is an actor of great emotional range and inhabits every role with complete passion and conviction. Just thinking about what she will bring to the Doctor makes me as excited as a kid at Christmas. It’s going to be a lot of fun.”


Thirteen questions about the new Doctor answered by Jodie Whittaker

1. What does it feel like to be the Thirteenth Doctor?

It’s very nerve-racking, as it’s been so secret!

2. Why did you want the role?

To be asked to play the ultimate character, to get to play pretend in the truest form: this is why I wanted to be an actor in the first place. To be able to play someone who is literally reinvented on screen, with all the freedoms that brings - what an unbelievable opportunity. And added to that, to be the first woman in that role.

3. Has it been hard to keep the secret?

Yes. Very hard! I’ve told a lot of lies! I’ve embroiled myself in a whole world of lies which is going to come back at me when this is announced!

4. Who was the first person you told when you got the role?

My husband. Because I was allowed to!

5. Did you have a codename and if so what was it?

In my home, and with my agent, it was The Clooney. Because to me and my husband, George is an iconic guy. And we thought, what’s a really famous iconic name? It was just fitting.

6. What does it feel like to be the first woman Doctor?

It feels completely overwhelming; as a feminist, as a woman, as an actor, as a human, as someone who wants to continually push themselves and challenge themselves, and not be boxed in by what you’re told you can and can’t be. It feels incredible.

7. What do you want to tell the fans?

I want to tell the fans not to be scared by my gender. Because this is a really exciting time, and Doctor Who represents everything that’s exciting about change. The fans have lived through so many changes, and this is only a new, different one, not a fearful one.

8. What are you most excited about?

I’m most excited about becoming part of a family I didn’t even know existed. I was born in 1982 - it’s been around longer than me, and it’s a family I couldn’t ever have dreamed I’d be part of.

9. How did Chris sell you the part?

We had a strange chat earlier this year where he tricked me into thinking we were talking about Broadchurch. And I started to quiz him about his new job in Wales, and asked him if I could be a baddie! And he quickly diverted the conversation to suggest I should consider auditioning to be the 13th Clooney.

It was the most incredible chat because I asked every question under the sun, and I said I’d take a few weeks to decide whether I was going to audition. He got a phone call within 24 hours. He would’ve got a phone call sooner, but my husband was away and there was a time difference!

10. Did he persuade you?

No. There was no persuasion needed. If you need to be persuaded to do this part, you’re not right for this part, and the part isn’t right for you. I also think, for anyone taking this on, you have to want to fight for it, which I certainly had to do. I know there will have been some phenomenal actors who threw their hats in the ring.

11. What are you going to wear?

I don’t know yet.

12. Is that your costume in the filmed sequence which introduced you as the new Doctor?

No.

13. Have any of the other Doctors given you advice?

Well they can’t because they haven’t known until now, but I’m certainly expecting a couple of calls - I’ve got a couple of mates in there. I’m mates with a companion [Arthur Darvill], I’m mates with a trio of Doctors. I know Matt Smith, Chris Eccleston and obviously David Tennant. Oh! And let’s throw in David Bradley! Four Doctors! So I’m hoping I get some calls of advice.

I was getting really annoyed at people mistranslating this Latin word and I did all this work proving they were wrong, and my supervisor said he wanted me to find every academic who translates it the other way and put them in a footnote in my thesis… I can’t believe there’s an @ feature in academia… I can’t believe my own doctoral father’s advice was “call them out lol”

Jodie Whittaker on being the Doctor:

I’m beyond excited to begin this epic journey with Chris and with every Whovian on this planet. It’s more than an honour to play the Doctor. It means remembering everyone I used to be, while stepping forward to embrace everything the Doctor stands for: hope. I can’t wait.

1. What does it feel like to be the Thirteenth Doctor?
It’s very nerve-racking, as it’s been so secret!

2. Why did you want the role?
To be asked to play the ultimate character, to get to play pretend in the truest form: this is why I wanted to be an actor in the first place. To be able to play someone who is literally reinvented on screen, with all the freedoms that brings - what an unbelievable opportunity. And added to that, to be the first woman in that role.

3. Has it been hard to keep the secret?
Yes. Very hard! I’ve told a lot of lies! I’ve embroiled myself in a whole world of lies which is going to come back at me when this is announced!

4. Who was the first person you told when you got the role?
My husband. Because I was allowed to!

5. Did you have a codename and if so what was it?
In my home, and with my agent, it was The Clooney. Because to me and my husband, George is an iconic guy. And we thought, what’s a really famous iconic name? It was just fitting.

6. What does it feel like to be the first woman Doctor?
It feels completely overwhelming; as a feminist, as a woman, as an actor, as a human, as someone who wants to continually push themselves and challenge themselves, and not be boxed in by what you’re told you can and can’t be. It feels incredible.

7. What do you want to tell the fans?
I want to tell the fans not to be scared by my gender. Because this is a really exciting time, and Doctor Who represents everything that’s exciting about change. The fans have lived through so many changes, and this is only a new, different one, not a fearful one.

8. What are you most excited about?
I’m most excited about becoming part of a family I didn’t even know existed. I was born in 1982 - it’s been around longer than me, and it’s a family I couldn’t ever have dreamed I’d be part of.

9. How did Chris sell you the part?
We had a strange chat earlier this year where he tricked me into thinking we were talking about Broadchurch. And I started to quiz him about his new job in Wales, and asked him if I could be a baddie! And he quickly diverted the conversation to suggest I should consider auditioning to be the 13th Clooney.

It was the most incredible chat because I asked every question under the sun, and I said I’d take a few weeks to decide whether I was going to audition. He got a phone call within 24 hours. He would’ve got a phone call sooner, but my husband was away and there was a time difference!

10. Did he persuade you?
No. There was no persuasion needed. If you need to be persuaded to do this part, you’re not right for this part, and the part isn’t right for you. I also think, for anyone taking this on, you have to want to fight for it, which I certainly had to do. I know there will have been some phenomenal actors who threw their hats in the ring.

11. What are you going to wear?
I don’t know yet.

12. Is that your costume in the filmed sequence which introduced you as the new Doctor?
No.

13. Have any of the other Doctors given you advice?
Well they can’t because they haven’t known until now, but I’m certainly expecting a couple of calls - I’ve got a couple of mates in there. I’m mates with a companion [Arthur Darvill], I’m mates with a trio of Doctors. I know Matt Smith, Chris Eccleston and obviously David Tennant. Oh! And let’s throw in David Bradley! Four Doctors! So I’m hoping I get some calls of advice.

Nurse’s ma LOVES HIM!!!!!!!

Nursey’s mama adores him, and they have phone calls every week and gossip and catch up on the news ™

Nursey’s mama always smiles at him and gives him hugs. And she tries her best to help her child with his mental health, once he started showing symptoms, she called the family doctor and asked for advice.

Nursey’s mama claims she “embarrasses” him, but nursey LOVES walking around with his hand on her shoulder, or her putting her hand on his cheek!!!

NURSEY! HAS! A! LOVING! AND! SUPPORTIVE! MA!

VIXX taking care of you when you're sick

Leo: ok so I think he might act like he knows what he’s doing, but he just ends up asking someone else, like an older person, what to do. If it’s something serious, he wouldn’t hesitate rushing you to the hospital despite your protests. However, if it’s something small like a cold, he’ll probably baby you and make sure you have enough to eat and drink. “ jagi, have you had water in the past hour?” “Do you want more soup? I’ll go make some more soup.” He’d stay by your side all day and night to make sure you’re doing okay.

 Ravi: despite his calm and cool exterior, he’ll go into full panic mother-mode as soon as he hears a groan or a complain from you. “Are you sure you don’t wanna get it checked out? I mean it might be more serious than you think…” after you assure him it’s nothing more than a cold, he still doesn’t let his guard down. Will always put your health before work or his busy schedule. 

 N: the most fun out of all of them. Will always keep you entertained and make sure you’re coughing out of laughter instead of your cold. Always has a recipe ready for when you’re not feeling so well. Won’t hesitate to get in bed with you even after you try to convince him that he will get sick as well. “I don’t care, as long as you feel better, babe.” Lost of forehead kisses and cuddles. 

 Hyuk: will probably start freaking out. Doesn’t know whether to call his parents and ask for advice, or if he should call a doctor and get medical help. He’ll always settle for comfort food and movies/music to cheer you up. Probably has stocked up on all the medicines you need, and makes sure you take them when required. Expect lots of cuddles from this one as well. 

 Hongbin: I think he also seems like the type to make you laugh when you’re sick, he can’t stand seeing you in pain. Will look up the stupidest memes and have the goofiest smile on his face when he hears you laughing. Puts his phone number as the first one for speed dial just in case you need anything while he’s away. Always drops everything and comes to your aid if you do. 

 Ken: would also freak out a little, but remain calm because he knows he needs to have a clear head. Always makes sure you’re taking the right medicines and buys you extra snacks and DVDs to pass away the time. On alert 24/7 when you need something, no matter if he’s away or cuddling next to you.

Originally posted by at-taekwoons-mercy

girlmeetsfeminist  asked:

Are you an official doctor?

None of my advice should be considered medical advice. I am not, and have not ever, called myself a doctor or medical professional in any way, shape, or form. My advice is solely my personal recommendation.

Hey, sorry to bother but it said requests were open so I was curious if I could get the RFA reacting to an MC who rides/ or used to ride dirt bikes and is/was pretty reckless on it and got hurt?

Requested by @casadea

Yoosung:

  • When MC told him that they used to ride dirt bikes he thought it was so cool!
  • He thought it was so rad and wanted to brag to all his friends about how cool MC is.
  • When he asked MC why they stopped and they told him about how they had injured their leg when they were being reckless he was shocked.
  • He got really upset when MC told him about all of the physical therapy they had to go through and the toll it took on their physical and mental health.
  • If MC is still having issues from the injury, he’ll do everything in his power to help them with whatever they have trouble with.
  • He’s torn over how to feel about them quitting riding dirt bikes because they won’t get hurt from it anymore, but it was also something they loved to do.

Zen:

  • Zen was INSTANTLY  worried when MC told him they used to ride dirt bikes
  • He knows how dangerous riding motorized bikes can be because he drives a motorcycle.
  • He knew they probably stopped because they got hurt, but he asked anyway.
  • When MC told him that they had broken their collarbone the boy was DISTRAUGHT.
  • He didn’t even want to imagine his perfect, beautiful, amazing MC injured.
  • He might even consider not driving his motorcycle anymore, but he definitely will be much more careful after thinking about the danger
  • He wants to remain uninjured for MC

Jaehee:

  • She doesn’t really understand why MC was interested in something that could be so dangerous in the first place.
  • But MC is supportive of her hobbies so she didn’t voice those thoughts 
  • At first
  • When MC told her that they had torn their ACL while riding one day Jaehee scolded them immensely 
  • She also used all her free time in the following days to look up all the other dangers of riding dirt bikes to try to deter MC from riding and getting hurt again
  • Also looks up ways to help with torn ACLs, even if MC isn’t having trouble with it anymore.
  • Needless to say, she’s happy they stopped, she doesn’t want them to get hurt again.

Jumin:

  • He really doesn’t understand the interest, to be honest.
  • In his eyes driving isn’t really something fun to do, no matter the vehicle
  • When MC told him that they had broken their ankle and done some serious damage to it he was instantly on the phone
  • He called all the best doctors to ask for advice and help to ease any pain/ issues caused by the injury.
  • Even if MC said they didn’t need any help, he still tried to find ways to help them.
  • But ultimately he couldn’t force them to do anything, and he respects their decision.

Seven:

  • Seven already knew about MC’s past riding dirt bikes
  • And about their injury
  • But knowing about MC’s injury and actually having them tell him about their experience were two completely different things
  • He nearly cried when they were talking about the pain
  • He may have tried to push MC away, but he loves them and never wants them to feel any sort of pain
  • He probably tried to lighten their mood by making a joke or two

I don’t really know much about dirt biking, so I just googled the most common injuries from it. I’m sorry if anything is wrong! I hope you enjoy!

Requests are open!

B.A.P Reaction to you being sick and them taking care of you

Yongguk:

His natural leader instincts are coming through. Expect a strict, but loving Yongguk. He would always remind you to take your medicine on time, making the bed as comfy as possible with blankets, making you tea and even try with his bad cooking skills to make you some soup. When you let him take care of you, everything is fine, but when you still think you have to jump around in the apartment and do work, expect him to get a bit mad at you and scolding you until you go back to bed voluntary. If that still doesn’t bother you, he’ll just cary you in bed himself.

Originally posted by roses-for-jongup

Himchan:

Drama, drama, drama. As the mum of the group there is no question, he also takes care of you. Measuring temperature every hour? Check. Making sure you drink enough water and take your medicine? Check. Cuddling to make you feel better? Forget it. Not that he doesn’t want to, he just doesn’t want to get sick. Summarizing you can say he will fuss over you and fulfill every wish you have, even more, just to make you feel better.

Originally posted by stanbap

Daehyun:

He is always telling his fans to take care of themselves, so there is no exception for you. He makes sure that you dress warmly through the whole time, in general takes care of you well. If it makes you feel better he watches a movie with you and even does aegyo for you and your eyes only. Expect him either talking more to distract you or less so you have silence and can recover. 

Originally posted by awesomeyeahshawol

Youngjae:

His sassiness is washed away for the time you are sick and the overly caring boyfriend Youngjae comes out. Expect him trying to know everything better, even the doctor is wrong for his opinion. In a way he is like Yongguk, taking care of you, but maybe in a bit more loving way. Unless Himchan the thinks his cuddles make you feel better, he doesn’t care if he gets sick. If so, he has someone that can take care of him just like he did with you. When he sees you are feeling better, he starts throwing his jokes again.

“I’m glad you are still alive. I wouldn’t know what to do without you.”

“Youngjae, don’t be so dramatic. It was just a cold.” 

Originally posted by ayzis

Jongup:

First thing he does: Call Yongguk. At first he wanted to call Junhong, but he pretty soon realized himself he would be useless so his leader hyung is his choice, since he always comes to him with his worries. Not that he wouldn’t know what he has to do, he just need someone to tell him he did things right and didn’t kill you on accident. Jongup would be all the time around you, so if you needed something he would be there for you. He isn’t that good in guessing like the other members, so you really have to tell him what you need.

Originally posted by bap-paboppas

Zelo:

The maknae doesn’t really know what to do. Of course he had also his sick days, like everyone else, but either his parents or the members took care of him. He never had to take care of someone besides Mochi, so this poor lost boy would want to do everything, just to make you feel better. If you think in the middle of the night a foot massage will make you feel better? You get it. Even if you told him you have everything what you needed he’ll ask you all the time if you needed something. If it’s something more serious and he really doesn’t know what to do he urges you to see a doctor and ends up calling his mum or his hyungs for advice.

Originally posted by mybutterflyfact

*Trigger Warning* BTS (Rapmon, V, Jungkook) Reaction to You Having an Eating Disorder

TRIGGER WARNING: this is about eating disorders and may trigger you. So please please please read this with that in mind

These are the last of the eating disorder reactions for BTS. They were really hard for me to write due to personal reasons. But PLEASE remember, health should come before everything. Anorexia and bulimia are not the answers to happiness. Feel free to message us if you ever need someone to talk to. Anyways, I hope you enjoy this reaction. <3

-Admin Kat

Jimin and Jin

Suga and J-Hope

Rapmon: He couldn’t help but notice how little you were eating constantly. He hadn’t meant to notice it at first, but the more and more you would skip, the more he would notice. He started to pick up on other shifts in your mood and appearance. He observed as you would move your food around on your plate, trying to make it look like you were eating, even though you would rarely actually bring your fork up to your mouth. How you wore baggy clothes, but claiming they were your size. Getting irritable at the smallest of things, that you would normally have let roll off your back.

Originally posted by taestylips

He stared at his computer. He didn’t want to type in what he was thinking, but he also didn’t want to make an assumption that could be wrong. With shaking hands, he typed in symptoms of anorexia. Each symptom seemed to fit yours, and he felt his heart sink. He couldn’t see why you would do something so dangerous to yourself, or why you would feel like you couldn’t talk to him, but he knew that he couldn’t get mad at you. That wouldn’t help. It would just cause you to work harder at hiding it.

Originally posted by hopeatuuli

After thinking hard about his options, he finally decided it would be best to just try and talk to you about it. “Jagi, do you think we could talk really quick?” He asked as he brought you into his room. He sat you down on the bed beside him and looked you in the eyes. “You know you can talk to me about anything, right? Why… why haven’t you been eating?” He asked hesitantly. You dropped your gaze from him, fidgeting in your spot. He placed his other hand on your cheek, wiping away your tears as they began to fall. He listened diligently as you confessed to him everything about your anorexia and how it had started.

Originally posted by ruinedbybts

V: he knew something was wrong when you refused to try on the new dress he had bought you. You told him it would be too small, just by looking at it. He had assured you several times that it was the right size, promising that it would look beautiful on you. He had been so excited for you to put it on, having bought it for your trip home with him. You shook your head, tears falling from your cheeks as you ran into the bathroom and slammed the door.

Originally posted by pokpokchikchik

He stared in confusion at your reaction. Sure, you typically wore big, baggey clothes. Your style was a lot like his in that manner. But he thought you may have liked the dress for meeting his parents in. He slowly walked up to the bathroom door, knocking on it lightly. “I’m sorry jagi. I didn’t mean to upset you. You can wear anything you want. My parents won’t care.” He told you desperately. He was ready to cry at the thought of hurting your feelings.

Originally posted by taestylips

The sound of vomiting worried him even more. He quickly tugged on the door, managing to push it open with his shoulder. He saw you with your finger lodged in your mouth as you tried to induce more vomiting. His eyes widened and he pulled you up, taking your hand out of your mouth. “Jagi…” He whispered the word, but couldn’t bear to say anything else. You stared at him, your eyes welling with tears and your body shaking as you realized what you were doing. He held you silently as you cried, knowing that if he tried to speak, he would cry as well.

(You are Hoseok)

Originally posted by yayaruizc

Jungkook: He hadn’t noticed at first. He assumed you were just sick every time he heard you vomiting. He was slow when it came to noticing any changes in you. He had told you numerous times to go to the doctor, or called his mom for advice on things that could help with nausea, but you constantly refused. You told him over and over again that you were fine and didn’t need to be checked up. But after almost every meal, he heard you vomiting. It wasn’t until you stopped eating that he noticed something was up.

Originally posted by minpuffs

He watched you closer when you stopped eating. If you did eat something, you would be sure to run to the bathroom after a few minutes and he would hear you vomiting. He told his hyungs, unsure of how to handle the situation. He wanted to be sure that he wasn’t reading into something that he shouldn’t have. But all he wanted to do was make sure you were okay. The last thing he wanted to do was ignore the situation and watch you get worse.

Originally posted by theking-or-thekid

“Um, jagi, maybe you should try to eat dinner.” He suggested as he stared at you from across the table. You looked skinnier than he remembers; starting to look sickly as you shook your head. He frowned, trying to find a way to ask you what was on his mind. “You know… you know you can talk to me about anything. You know that I love you, right? No matter what.” He reminded you quietly. You nodded your head, still not catching on to what he was talking about. It took nearly two hours for him to finally admit to his suspicions, but when he finally did, you knew you could count on him, even if you weren’t ready to tell him everything about your feelings and your situation, but you knew he was there for you.

Originally posted by jengkook

anonymous asked:

Hai~ can I ask for Kamui, Gin, and Sougou with a sick s/o please

Sorry for the long wait, I’ve been out all day so I haven’t had time to write ;-;


Kamui
- He’s surprisingly good at dealing with sickness, given how his mother was ill for most of the time he knew her. He’s very good at remembering to take medicine and actually very strict, depending on how sick his s/o is.

- Wins the award for ‘most likely to panic’ also because of his experience with people he loves and getting ill. Any unexplained coughing fit or anything coming close to fainting or passing out and he’s all over the place, convinced something awful is going to happen to his s/o like it did to his mum *cries for Kouka*

- Will harass you 24/7 about taking medicine, is so fussy about your dosages. Will actually book a doctors appointment if you don’t think you need anything just to prove you wrong. Probably blackmails the doctor to at least prescribe some cough sweets.

- Snuggle monster, it doesn’t matter if you’re contagious or what, he’s not going to move from the sofa, neither are you. Who needs blankets when you have this guy (he’ll probably insist on blankets for maximum snuggliness though)

- Literally the only time ever that he will run around and get whatever you want. Before you sneeze he appears with Tissues, before you cough he’s there with medicine. If your stomach rumbles even a tiny bit he appears with a huge meal ready to go.


Gintoki
- Is very very good with painkillers, treating injuries is his forte after the Joui War, but his medical knowledge ends there. He can probably get you the perfect meal for an invalid (and will insist on doing it himself and proving his ‘manliness’ in caring for you) and once he replaced paracetamol with a strange herbal concoction he made from a strange plant growing across the street.

- Takes advantage of it to stay off work. If you have the slightest cough or any temperature that isn’t absolutely normal you are 'bedridden’ and need the utmost care that only he can provide (I.e. Cuddles)
He gets an excuse to snuggle endlessly and he missed work! Amazing!

- The only time he will snap or get annoyed is if you don’t complain about your symptoms to him. He feels so awful if you ever throw up or faint, in a way he feels responsible for letting you get sick in the first place. He wants to exactly how you’re feeling so he can do all he can for you.

- Wouldn’t trust you to a doctor. Misdiagnosis is a thing! If it got really, really bad he’d probably call everyone together for advice (Shinpachi invites a 'friend’ AKA. Doctor to come and help as well). Gintoki never needs to know, he’s too busy panicking.

- Will probably get sick out of sympathy, as in, mentally convinced himself he’s ill too, so you don’t have to suffer alone and can both bask in fever together.


Okita
- The only one of the three who won’t exploit your sickness to cuddle. He’s still a sadist. If you’re not really ill he’ll probably pretend you have some life-threatening disease and start planning your funeral (advice: cry. It’ll make him apologise, which is a rare sight to behold)

- If you actually are particularly sick, you’ll see a soft side that nobody was sure existed (bar Mitsuba ofc). Like Kamui, he’s had a sick family member before, and I imagine he’d be very attentive for your needs, knowing all the symptoms and remedies.

- Wouldn’t try and keep you at home all day if you wanted to go out (he’d try and persuade you to stay home though) he’d come with you and take you out like it was the most fancy date ever. He’s practically a different person (the Shinsengumi are in shock). If you get too sick though, he will slowly lead you home without you noticing.

- One of the rare chances you can mould him into a cuddler, usually he’s not big on cuddling (hence him not exploiting it) but if you’re craving some attention and love, now is the time to get it. Cough and look pitiful and he’ll give in eventually.

- It’s somehow Hijikata’s fault. Every time. He’ll tell you this and offer to kill the offender in front of you (he will take any opportunity he gets!). Alternatively, this might be the only day he lays off the murder attempts, your health is more important!

EXO M when you are singing a lullaby to your baby

Minseok

It had been a long hard day for Minseok but everything seemed to just float away the minute he stepped into the house. Finally he was home and he could relax with you. It was late so chances of the baby being awake were actually slim. Unless his teething was keeping him up again which was likely. You had called Minseok during his lunch break as was your tradition. It started when you two were just dating and kept on through your marriage. Now has become a video call because Minseok wants to be able to see you and the baby. You had told him that the little one was being cranky all day and was most likely teething because he was chewing on everything. Minseok made his way up the stairs carefully because he didn’t want to wake up the baby accidentally. He opened the door the nursery slowly so it didn’t creak. However when he heard you singing softly his heart fluttered like it had when you first met. He leaned against the doorway watching as you slowly rocked back and forth the baby breathing softly but his arm was waving in the air slightly meaning that he had JUST fallen asleep and it was quite time to put him in the bed. Minseok felt love for you both fill him and when you finally put the baby down in his crib he pulled you into his arms holding you close.

Originally posted by daenso

“Hey. I love you.”

Lay

You two were visiting your parents who were spoiling your daughter like crazy. Lay tried to argue that she was only two months old and didn’t even recognize them yet! Your mother though just grinned at started to talk to the baby who then smiled. Lay groaned and conceded the point that okay the baby does recognize them but she certainly won’t remember the presents! Besides where the hell is he going to put a giant bear anyway? Your mother just waved him away knowing that he is just teasing. It was a busy day but it also gave him the opportunity to sneak away with you and get some cuddle time in. A year ago he never would of thought that he would sneak away to just cuddle but after two months of taking care of an infant who wakes up ever few hours cuddling is all you two have strength for. Of course cuddling turned into a spontaneous nap. When he woke up about 45 mins later he was alone and a bit miffed you didn’t wake him up. He went in search of you and found you in your childhood bedroom the three of you were sleeping in for the night. You were laying on the bed with your baby laying beside you surrounded by pillows so she doesn’t roll away. You were singing softly to her and rubbing her stomach softly. Lay could feel his heart melt and he moved to kneel on the bed too and smiled softly. 

Originally posted by dazzlingkai

“You really are an amazing parent. Even if you did leave me to wake up alone… “
You roll your eyes and throw a pillow at his face.

Jongdae

You had gotten your wish. You three month old son takes after Jongdae almost entirely and you couldn’t be happier. However your son unfortunately takes after you and gets sick easily. You had hoped this wouldn’t happen but after his second cold this month it seemed to be fate. He was fussy and  does not want to go down for his nap. You tried everything you knew to try and get him to fall asleep. In his swing he was content for a few moments but the second the neighbors dog started barking he woke up. When you wiped him down with a warm cloth it seemed to ease him but when you tried to put him back into in his onesie he grew restless again. You rocked him in the rocking chair which seemed to do the most in helping but he was still refusing to sleep and was now starting to cry because he was so tired. You remembered how Jongdae always managed to get him asleep with a lullaby something you never quite did because you couldn’t sing very well. But hey it was worth a shot. So you started singing to him softly still rocking back and forth. It worked your son settled and soon feel asleep. You kept singing just in case when suddenly the much sweeter and certainly better sounding voice chimed in. You looked up to see Jongdae standing beside you singing along. You both sang together even though your voice kept cracking and was not matching his pitch but it was okay. Jongdae smiled at you and you gently handed off your son to him so he can cuddle him for a moment before depositing him into his crib.

Originally posted by sehduce

“It’s a good thing I can sing otherwise our poor son will grow up to be tone deaf..”
“Oh shut up Jongdae!”

Kris

Someone please save this poor boi from dying of cuteness overload. Today had been a great day. Every thing was going great from his morning of rolling over and kisisng you awake (and a little bit of other things too *wink wink*) and then collecting your baby from the crib to morning traffic actually being non existant that morning. His afternoon had gone amazing as well because he opened his lunch box to see the lovingly prepared lunch you had prepared for him along with a note saying you love him and hope he has a great day and even had a little hand print from your son on it. When he got home he had full intentions on taking you out to dinner as a thank you for the wonderful lunch but you were no where to be found downstairs. You car was still in the driveway and you prefer not to walk with the baby on windy days. That must mean you are upstairs in the nursery. He was already mentally adjusting his plans of taking you to just ordering in dinner from your favorite take out place when he could hear your voice drifting from the nursery. A smile spread over his face and he listened outside the cracked door because he knew the second he opened it you would stop singing. You claimed you had a horrible singing voice and no matter what Kris did he could not convince you that it was beautiful. He should know because he is the entertainment business, but you insist he is wrong. He must have been sitting outside the door for at least twenty minutes before he realized that you were rustling the babies blankets signaling you putting your son in his crib. He opened the door as you reached and it and pretended he wasn’t listening through the door. He didn’t want to embarrass you. 

Originally posted by kris-wu-bae

“Oh hey baby! Did you put the baby to sleep already? How bout we order in tonight. You deserve to be spoiled.”

Luhan

Luhan was normally the one to put your son to sleep at night. He just had this touch that always calmed him and he drifted off into sleep no mater what. But this was not always possible because of Luhan’s schedule. He was a busy busy man so you would step up and take the reigns so to speak. Unfortunately that meant taking a full hour of trying to put him to sleep. It was never an easy feat and it didn’t help he was running a low fever. He seemed to getting in a front tooth so you anticipated sleepless nights for the next few months. Teething sucked so bad for babies and you were nearly crying because you could tell your little baby was hurting. You were pacing the nursery bouncing the baby in your arms rhythmically. You started out humming at first but you could never just hum and it always turns into singing which is what happened now. You started singing softly the lullaby you had heard Luhan sing at night. You knew it was nothing like Luhan singing it but you tried your best. The baby seemed to appreciate this because soon drifted off into sleep. Not wanting to wake him up you kept singing softly for a few more minutes and then gently placed him in this crib. You turned to see Luhan in the door watching you with a soft expression on his face. He was holding a plastic bag and held it out for you. You could see some teething medicine for the baby as well as the hard biscuits babies chew on to help ease the pain and best of all a new teething toy that you could freeze which would really help the poor little guy. You threw your arms around Luhan and kissed him in thanks. He pulled you out into the hallway and deepened the kiss as he pressed you against the closed door. You could feel his… appreciation for you growing as he held you close. You laughed and pushed him aside telling him to go put away the stuff he brought and to wait ten minutes then join you in your bedroom.

Originally posted by meiren-menglu

“But Baobei I want to show my love to you NOW not later.”
“Lulu I promise you will want to see what you will get for waiting”

Tao

Colic. Colic has to be the worst thing on the planet. It is something babies get when they get gas in their tummies and it hurts. They cry and flail and will not stop until the pain goes away. Do you know what is worse than colic? TWO babies with colic. Yep twins. Your beloved Tao and you had been blessed with twins. Not exactly what you had expected when you two decided to look into adoption but hey who could say no to two beautiful newborn girls. Now a month and half later you are questioning your sanity. Tao on the other hand was beside himself with worry when your beautiful daughters were inconsolable in their cribs. You recognized the symptoms and had Tao call the babies doctor for advice. The doctor suggested a heating pad and set the babies on the their stomach with the heating pad on the lowest setting and if that doesn’t work to try gas drops.  Tao immediately left to go get both the heating pads (yours had an unfortunate accident with a puppy who liked to chew things) and the gas drops. The girls were still crying no matter what you did so you called your mother in tears yourself. She calmed you down saying that this happens sometimes especially to babies when they are small and it is okay you are not horrible parents. She suggested the same things the doctor did and when you told her Tao went out to get them she said your father used to lay you on his chest and talk to you when you had colic as a baby. You thanked your mother and did exactly what she suggested. You stripped the babies to their diapers, discarded your own shirt and laid the babies on your chest with a blanket covering all three of you. It took a little of rearranging but the girls were still just small enough to fit nestled together on your chest. You rocked back and forth in the rocking chair and began to talk to them softly which then turned into singing because that is what soothed the girls the best. Miraculously it worked. You held the girls close with a secure arm around them and kept singing. You heard Tao nearly running up the stairs with the bag and watched as he stopped and stared at the sight. You smiled at him and kept singing softly the girls now falling asleep. He walked over to the two of you and ran a careful hand over their backs before kissing the top of your head softly.

Originally posted by anki-tao

“I love you so much Baobei you take care of our babies so well. I could not of asked for a better soul mate.”

Okay so this gif doesn’t exactly match but think of it as Tao in a few years when one of the twins comes to see him perform


The plot addiction strikes again! So I tried to keep this gender neutral as possible and I also didn’t name the babies because I am not familiar enough with Korean or Chinese names to be confident in naming them. Both cultures have wonderful traditions and that extends to baby names. So I decided to let the reader think of a name themselves. Also in the name of being gender neutral I also had the reader and Tao adopt. I hope these things I did was okay and if you actually wanted a specific gender for the reader please let me know and I can do another one.  Also I got a little smutty on Luhan’s part but it isn’t quite NSFW. I will let the reader think further on what happened next. *WINK WINK*

Do you crave something? Send us an ask and we will try our best to deliver! We do reacts, fake snaps/texts, drabbles, and imagines! 

BTW I adore babies like you would not believe which is why working with Prussia is so perfect! She doesn’t like something and I love it or vice versa! Lol

-Starfish

kazezakura  asked:

Can I request for the RFA members looking after a sick S/O?

of course c:

Zen: Would probably never leave your side, unless he’s going to get something for you. Would also cuddle with you bc even if he’s going to get sick, he’s going to recover quickly and he’ll do anything to make you feel better. I can see him calling 707 or someone he knows for medication, since he doesn’t get sick for long.

Jumin: Would be so frantic. He would be calling all the world famous doctors coming over to where you live together to check if you’re all right, even if it’s just a cold. Will keep checking up on you by phone calls and text when he’s away on work. Would also buy A+++ medicine for you, he doesn’t give a f about your complains about wasting so much money on some money when he could get cheaper medicine.

V: This child would have an internal panic at first, and then he realizes he should calm down and take care of you. So he starts fumbling through his drawers to get medication for you. Would also call the doctors he knows for advice. Would call seven for advice, to help you get better from the powa of the internet.

Yoosung: Would probably panic the most and be like “wtf do i do?!” Tries to make you as comftorble as he can “s/o you want another blanket?” “but I have 3 alre-” “Or would to prefer moar pillows?” “I have 10 alrea” “Open the windows? Or do you want water or-” “yOOSUNG!”

707: I can see him getting worried at first but then has a internal debate about his work and you. but he was like screw this shit. You’re more important than anything, he’ll try to negotiate and try to delay it as much as possible and if they say something about it he’ll be really pissed and be all like “my fucking precious smol cinammon s/o has a cold, and they’re fucking sick. I ain’t got time for your shitty works.” ends up double tasking bc he’s scared of his boss afterall

EXO Reaction to You Breaking Your Tooth

I think the anon that sent this in said they broke their tooth and poor baby ahhh ( q   q ) Is your tooth feeling better now? Ahhh take care, darling!

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Xiumin: Minseok would be in shock - simply because he didn’t know it was even possible! His hands would fly up to his face and slowly come down as he stares at you, unable to say or think for a moment. After that, he’d quickly ask if you were alright, call your doctor and dentist, and search up what to do in this situation. 

Originally posted by secrethideoutme

Suho: Junmyeon would probably be pained to see you in agony and would have to cover his face for a moment after he rushes you to the doctor or dentist. He’d feel so helpless because he doesn’t know what to do and how to help, there’d be a deep burden having fallen on his shoulders and he can’t shake it off easily. 

Originally posted by wooyoung

Lay (I thought he was holding a phone in the .gif and thaT’S WHY I CHOSE IT SO PLEASE PRETEND THAT IT’S A PHONE THANK YOU): Our Yixing would try to stay as calm as possible, immediately contacting the emergency hospital even if it wasn’t on the more severe side (to him, any pain you feel would be worth calling 911). He’d stare at you with sorrowful eyes but do his best to stay on top of it all so he can be there for you.

Originally posted by alpacariis

Baekhyun: He’d recoil and let out a shout, frightened by your scream. “What’s wrong, (Y/N) - ohmygod! Wait, let me see - ahh!” He’d lean back and stare at your broken tooth, eyes wide and his eyebrows arching downward. “Does it hurt? How did it happen?” He’d want to know everything before he calls for someone. He’d be a lot more panicked than the others.

Originally posted by minpuffs

Chanyeol: He stares at you, confused and not understanding what is going on. When he pulls your hand away from his mouth and manage to pry your lips apart (”(Y/N), I can’t understand what you’re going on about if I don’t see!”), he’d simply continue to stare in shock. “W-what?” he’d say. “How did this - what? Ohmygosh. Ohmygosh.” He’d start panicking and would call the doctor and the other members for advice, glancing at you frantically.

Originally posted by essentyeol

D.O. (just focus on the seconds where his eyes widen and pretend that it’s in shock not from the flavor of ice cream ok pls work with me): His eyes widen in shock and he immediately moves into action, bundling you up into the car with some important documents and his phone, asking you on the way to the hospital how you felt, how did it happen. He’d try to figure out what would happen from there on and how severe it was but I don’t think he’d get very far - he’d need a professional’s word. He’d be so worried for you.

Originally posted by wooyoung

Kai (couldn’t find an appropriate .gif for what I had in mind but I hope this works as well): Jongin would start talking, asking you how it was then stop mid-sentence as he inhales sharply as he sees your broken teeth. “Ohgosh, (Y/N), I’m so sorry …” he would say as he waits for the hospital to pick up. He’d stare at you with sorrowful pity and sympathy, feeling your pain as much as you do.

Originally posted by datkaidoe

Sehun: He’d be like Chanyeol, confused at first then understanding quickly. “We have to go to the hospital immediately!” he says, taking your hand and dragging you to the car. “Does it hurt? Where? How did it happen?” He’d pepper you with questions out of concern and your well-being, trying to make sense of it all. But because he doesn’t know much about it, he’d feel like Junmyeon - helpless and very lost.

Originally posted by jiellas

My ear is now in much less frequent pain, but it still intermittently feels like someone is stabbing it from the inside. My gum is less sore by far and isn’t really worrying me much at this point. Alright, Mom Friends™, any advice? Should I call my doctor, or just ride it out? My hearing doesn’t seem to be affected, so I don’t think it’s really necessary, but I’m a worrier by nature.

anonymous asked:

The British Medical Association has issued advice to doctors to not call pregnant women 'mothers' as it might offend transgender people. Instead calling them 'Pregnant people.' First BLM came over here, now this nonsense.

I refuse

I didn't know I was pregnant

So, I was having this Prompt from @omeliafics , where Amelia goes into labour during Owen his surgery, but then I got a perfect idea. Do you guys know the TLC series “I didn’t know I was pregnant?”
Let that speak for itself…
A kick-ass huuuuuuge shout-out to @superheroshepherdess , who backed me up on some OB thingies. You truly are the best ;)

Thirty-four year old neuro surgeon Amelia Shepherd lives together with her boyfriend Owen Hunt, in an appartment Block not far from Grey Sloan Memorial Hospital, where the both of them work as attending surgeons.

“I got to Grey Sloan to take over the position of chief of the neuro-surgery department from my brother, who was a neuro surgeon as well, and that is how I met Owen for the first time,“ Amelia explains. “The both of us have really been damaged in our past, so we started talking, and from one thing, the other thing happend.”

Both surgeons have had a painfull past concerning the question of having kids, and because of their pressing jobs, the couple decided to wait.

“We both wanted childeren, but just not yet,” Owen tells us. “Amelia wanted to get married first, before we started talking about such kind of things. I agreed with her, so we decided to wait.”

The couple made shifts of forty-eight hours in the hospital, which meant they had to plan a wedding, and love making, in the only free hours they had.

“Because of my medical history, I don’t use birth control, at all. The only thing Owen and I do is using protection, but if you make shifts from forty-eight hours…You start to forget it Sometimes. ”

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10 Tips For You Newbie Doctors from Someone Who Was in Your Shoes Not Too Long Ago

Soooo black Wednesday has been and gone. For the unintiated this is the day when all the fresh doctors from medical school arrive to take up their first jobs.

(no, we’ll be fine! I promise!)

I am a year senior so we get inducted and start around 2 days later than the newbie doctors. When I finally met the 2 doctors under my tutelage one of them burst into tears in a mixed state of happiness at my arriving and reflection of her struggles during the last couple of days and the other was clearly stressed out of her mind and putting on a brave face.

Over the next week I gave them some advice and guidance and they started leaving on time and in fact became much more confident with their role. We even have bowling with the team to look forward to now that everyone has settled in.

I hope to share the advice I gave them with anyone else who is a new doctor and finding things daunting. This is advice from someone who has been in your shoes and needed this advice at that time. Hope it helps.

1. You should never be I’m a position where you are the last port of call for medical advice - you will always have seniors to ask advice from. Please seek their advice and don’t feel you are alone. We expect this of you in the first few weeks. This leads me onto…

2. If there is any doubt…ASK! - A junior that is not aware of their limited knowledge and of when they should call for advice is a dangerous doctor. If you have any doubt just run it by a senior. Do not think this makes you a worse doctor. It makes you a better one.


3. The senior nurse is a font of knowledge - you can always ask their advice on things. They have been there for years and will know the ins and outs of the wards. Want to know what the usual discharge planning for a fractured neck of femur is? Ask the sister. Want to know what clinics you can refer your patient to? Ask the sister. Want to get someone to calm down a patient’s family since you are preoccupied….who you gonna call? Just hope you don’t have a matron/sister like this one…..


4. Get to grips with the history of all your patients - when you are doing the ward round with the consultant and they say “oh, who was he again?” in reference to a patient you should be able to tell them everything they need to know. If you can do that then the senior doctors and all the nursing staff will have much more confidence in what you say. How can you do that? That leads me onto….

5. Make a patient list that you regularly update and contains the salient things you need to know - I typically make my list at the end of the day and update it very briefly with any new overnight patients the next morning. My list contains patient name, dob, hospital number, comorbidities, presentation and current management, salient blood tests or scan results and an empty box for note making. Read over this list before you start your ward round just to refresh your brain and go wow them with your knowledge!


6. Blood tests should be checked religiously and don’t forget to book then in advance - most hospitals have a phlebotomy service, do take advantage of them. Book blood tests you want the day before and on Friday for the weekend (let the on call doctors know to check the blood tests during the weekend) and for Monday. When a patient has had blood taken you will typically get results back by around lunch time. Try and specifically allocate yourself a time to review blood tests and don’t leave it to the last minute of the day….discovering a potassium of 7 several hours after the fact is not good practice and will leave you staining your pants at the end of the day…


8. If you have a portfolio that you need signatures for to show you have competency in skills….Get it filled early. Do not ever wait till the last minute because you will be stressed and may not even get exposure to things you need to get signed off last minute.

9. After work, chill out. Relax. Don’t stress about the day. It’s someone else’s problem now. I strongly recommended going to the gym or doing some sport to keep you fit and get rid of work stress. But do whatever you find helps.


10. Plan out your career as far as you can. If you want to be a surgeon. Let your team know and ask to help on procedures and get in on research papers and audits. These things are easier to do the earlier you start them!

And finally, have fun. Get to know your team. Have some banter. Crack some jokes. Make lifelong friends. You will have a great year. Till next time dear readers.

DoctorPhantom