Tbh I’m so tired of this, you guys may not know but the reason why my finals are running so late is because I couldn’t do my final on monday.My own body can’t take this degree of stress anymore. This is the same reason why I was at the health clinic today( if you saw my tags in that jungkook fanart where he was ‘smoking’ youd have noticed) .I think all of you can figure something out of this. I’m human. I have feelings. I get hurt. I get angry. I cry. I laugh. I smile. I frown. Yet this is the kind of thing I find everyday in my inbox….? I thought this blog was meant to bring happiness….. This blog makes me so happy but it’s ridiculous at how crappy it can get because of one or two ppl who want to bring you down. I’m honestly tired. I’m exhausted. There’s a limit to my limits.Put yourself in my shoes before sending me a message.Put Yourself in ppl’s shoes before SAYING THINGS. Thats all I’m asking you. I have a life outside of tumblr …and so do you.I have a stressful life. Don’t add yourself to my pain. I beg you.Thats all I’m asking. Leave me alone.
when you’re 20-something and you live with your parents, you sometimes have mornings where you’re having breakfast, reading the newspaper, and your 60-something dad comes up to you all excited to show you a watercolor painting he did using paint you gave him.
it was a really nice painting, and he’s very proud. d(o u o i am a supportive daughter.
These bags represent my growth as an artist. They are filled with my projects over the past few years - the hats, scarves, arm warmers, pouches, etc. that I’d intended to sell. Now, they’re all being donated.
To me, choosing to clear out almost my entire inventory (save for only a few things) is a way for me to say, “I’ve improved, and I can do better now.” Everything in these bags is of fine quality, and all of it was made with care, but most of it was made in the early stages of my learning - and I’ve learned so much since my first craft show two years ago. I’ve learned my audience, my skills, and my preferences with creating.
This is why I’m starting fresh, choosing a new audience and new venues, and choosing to create whatever I want. If it’s not made to sell, it’s being either gifted or donated. I’m proud of how far I’ve come, and that’s why I’m sharing this with all of you.
Skeletorific isn't technically shitposting but you also aren't technically shitposting so it's fine.
Oh. o.o …. OH! OH! HOLY SHIT! Okay, I’m sorry! I totally misunderstood that! I thought you were telling me that your two favorite blogs were shitposting (which you were) but that.. Wha.. I…. ahhh.. @~@ I didn’t know you meant me! I thought you meant two other blogs! I mean, I kinda assumed Cringe was one of them because they were doing a Q&A sorta thing, and plus everyone loves Cringe! But I thought you meant some other blog that I probably didn’t know about! Oh god… oh jeez….
I have said many times that this blog is not meant to set Black women and Asian men up. It is not to feed your fantasies and neither does it’s purpose include giving hope for obsessed men and women.
I am seriously sick and tired of people constantly asking “how to get an Asian man” “ What do I do if an Asian guy doesn’t like me” “How do I impress an Asian guy so he would talk to me” And believe me it’s not only the women but personally I get a lot of these questions from women seeking Asian men. And the worst part is, most of these women are generally looking for their K-pop or J-pop boyfriend and I’m here to lay it flat that THAT’S NOT GOING TO HAPPEN!
Being in an interracial relationship with an Asian man has its advantages and disadvantages. I am constantly exposed to a different way of life that what I am use to: both negative and positive. I learnt a lot about his culture and he’s learnt quite a bit from mine and it helps when we interact with others of the same background so we don’t look like noobs. But being in an interracial relationship is not all that it may seem on the outside looking in. My boyfriend and I are constantly ridiculed for being together, stereotypes are thrown at us on a daily basis, we get starred at A LOT, our family members don’t approve of our relationship…and the list goes on.
Going into a relationship with the idea that your significant other is going to be the K-pop/J-pop Idol or the Beyonce of your dreams is very unrealistic and potentially toxic. I would recommend that those of you that have a goal of “meeting the perfect black/asian person” take a step back and reflect on WHY! You will find out that superficial characteristics are what is drawing you towards those groups of people. I personally would not advise going into a relationship with that frame of mind!
I will clarify once again that this blog is to raise awareness and to show how lovely a relationship between an Asian and a Black person is. So I would greatly appreciate it if people would stop asking ridiculous questions.
One thing I meant to do alongside this blog is periodically offer for sale some pages as we go along through the story. I haven’t done that! But some pages recently posted on the RB Rerun Blog are available.