by loving me

Phoebe Tonkin photographed by Alexandra Nataf for Matteau Swim SS17

staring at the ceiling and listening to sad pop punk songs is slowly becoming my thing

When she bared her soul the world, finally, experienced love.
—  H. Murcia 7:22PM 3/22/2017

If Jonathan wasn’t a figure skater, he would be a dancer and follow his mothers footsteps, but nope, Christophe came into his life and now he spends his days training to become France’s top skater to compete against other skaters (x)

main: @lahnce

So last night I was scrolling through my feed on Instagram and I was just seeing all these girls who were showing off their beautiful looks, their progress which is always very inspiring to me!! but I found myself starting to pick myself apart wishing I had their hair, skin, curves, muscles, etc. I was thinking about ways I could change myself to try and look like them, and feeling like I wasn’t good enough and why should I even try to reach my goals when I’m never going to look like them. When I caught myself thinking these terrible things about myself, I had to take a step back put the phone down and breath. I reminded myself that no I’m not ever going to look like them and thats OKAY because everyone is different and unique in their own way! And instead of tearing myself down I started to build myself up with kind words and things that make me a good strong person. Social media is a great thing, but is can also be a very toxic place. It’s okay to struggle and have these little moments because it reminds us that we are all human. The most important thing to do is to love yourself, say and think positive things about yourself because you are beautiful just the way you are and you DO NOT need to change yourself what so ever! ❤


Could you describe your marriage to us, Cath?