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@20cell4cube reblogged your post: Gosh. Men are disgusting. Now we got the…

cut the fuck out the first sentence and i can fully agree with you

#when will you stop generalising people? #this is still sexism  #also men get raped too #and they even more need support from the society #because no one even considers them the victims #every sexist is disgusting #even more when it’s im defence of the other sex

See, I totally agree that generalisations don’t help and I’m the first to say “not all men”. I didn’t say or mean “every men” though. I said men. The part afterwards made it absolutely clear which men (and kinds of men) I meant. This also means that everyone else is excluded of this generalisation and I think that is something we shouldn’t forget in these kind of conversations either.

I wouldn’t ever put down men as the victims of abuse. I’m the first one to remind everyone that women are often not seen as sexual predators, because people don’t expect women to commit these hideous crimes. This was about one case though. Not a debate in general, but it shows what happened to many young women (and young men) in the movie business. A business where at that time, and in big parts today, women don’t hold the power to be perpetrators of this SPECIFIC kind of abuse.

The kind of abuse Maria Schneider had to suffer though is ONLY possible in a society where men that are perpetrators are in power. This is not a crime that happened while abused and abuser were in any way in a similar position. Two men in power decided to abuse their power to violate a person who depended on them. Maria Schneider spoke for the rest of her life how this couldn’t have happened in a work place where men and women were seen as equals. This is a situation that comes from men being in power and as a collective, as a group, decide that in the set of rules where they hold the power it is okay to abuse, use, and rape women, because they are not even considered as humans.

If men as the group that holds the power decide that they don’t tolerate single persons of their group to violate others, then is the moment I don’t have to say “men are disgusting”. It’s not the 70s anymore. And some things have changed for the better and I wouldn’t forget that there always have been great and rightful men. There are many great men. Many great feminists. None of them should feel attacked if in a moment of outrage someone spews a generalisation that is not a generalisation, but an accusation against people who commit and people who tolerate these crimes happening.

If we look around the movie business today we see that they as a group tolerate abuse. They don’t even question allegations of abuse and this kind of things have no effect whatsoever. Just google Casey Affleck.

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@ixdominus yeah they do! I agree with you so very…

I have had three female oc blogs and had to delete 2 of them for a lack of interest. I still have one but she is private at this point because only one wants to interact with her.

See this is exactly what I dont understand and I totally feel for you!! Why… when there are so many others out there feeling and thinking the same thing… do we all do this to each other?? It seems simple to me. If you have a female muse and want to rp with a male… and you also have a male muse then you rp with someones female in return and NONE of the female muses would be missed. right?!?!?

that memory problem feel when
  • me: hey can you remind me of that one thing again
  • them: wtf i already told you
  • me, banging pots and pans: I DON'T REMEMBER! I DON'T REMEMBER! I DON'T REMEMBER! I DON'T REMEMBER!
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joshua in very nice era

“jisoo, say something to the international fans!” 

“hey guys.” 

“something longer…” ©

Tsukishima Kei and Kuroo Tetsurou in suits commission for futakuuchi

LOOK AT THESE DORKS LOOKING LIKE THEY’RE GOING TO PROM TOGETHER OR LIKE SECRET AGENTS WHO HATE EACH OTHER BUT IS HAPPILY MARRIED AND NO ONE KNOWS EXCEPT THEM

i seriously just want one of those cliché character-gets-turned-into-a-kid episodes (especially if it’s adrien) because i mean imagine:

  • for some reason a new villian is going around paris turning people into children
  • adrien is on the unlucky side of that—fourteen/fifteen-year-old is now five years old
  • he probably responds to that by crying like most five-year-olds respond to everything
  • anyways
  • marinette might just happen to be in the area and might just happen to save him from danger
  • so now she’s holding this five-year-old adrien agreste in her arms and doesnt know what the fuck to do with him because she has to transform into ladybug but he doesnt have a mom and who knows where his fucking dad is
  • “oh god im holding a miniature adrien and he’s SO CUTE but he’s also NOT SAFE I CAN’T JUST LET HIM RUN AROUND PARIS AS A LITTLE KID WHAT IF HE GETS HURT OR HUNGRY?? WHERE DO I PUT HIM”
  • under the pressure of the needing to capture the akuma and save paris she decides her bedroom might just be the best place for right now since it would be suspicious of her to drop off a tiny adrien agreste at alya’s house (no matter how great she is at babysitting) and leave with no good excuse

this is good because:

  • marinette probably thinks adrien wont remember any of this afterwards so she doesn’t pay any mind to the various pictures she has of his teen self all around her bedroom
  • while he’s a kid marinette has no reason to be nervous or stuttering since this is a literal five-year-old who just dribbled milk out of his nose
  • it’s completely irresponsible to leave a child alone but adrien is pretty smart and good-mannered even for a kid so he doesn’t cause any trouble
  • except when marinette leaves, so does he
  • five-year-old chat noir causes ladybug to laugh her fucking ass off (but also make her concerned because this is a fuckin kid trying to save paris he’s either gonna slow her down or get hurt)
  • by the time everything is fixed marinette is completely, utterly embarrassed and apologies to adrien excessively but he assures her that it’s okay and he probably would have done the same thing in her situation (even if he still really doesn’t understand why she left in the first place)
  • he doesn’t mention the photos but he does feel a little closer to marinette after all of this

What she says: I’m fine.

What she means: Panic! at the Disco almost went by the name Pet Salamander. Those emos almost chose to go by Pet Salamander. Can you imagine how different things would sounds? “This is ‘I Write Sins not Tragedies,’ sung by Pet Salamander.” Ryan Ross why? Where did you get the idea for the name? What stood out about this name? All of the jokes about the exclamation point would just cease to exist. The emo trinity would have been Fall Out Boy, My Chemical Romance, and Pet Salamander. The jokes about panicking at discos would stop and would turn into jokes about salamanders i just wann

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tfw you’re just gal pals

tfw your secret is so obviously about her you can’t even look her in the eye

I can't get over the symbolism of Alec in white and Magnus in black at the wedding... Like ying & yang, the light and the dark, demons and angels, two polar opposites uniting as one...

Originally posted by shadowhuntersseries

In the shadow world, black symbolizes armor in battle, and white symbolizes mourning…  Magnus was ready to fight for his love that night [“when that love comes back to you, you must do everything in your power to fight for it.” ~Ragnor], and Alec was ready to, essentially, die [what Lydia did “saved my life. So I should go thank her.” ~Alec].  

Oddly enough, Alec is usually the man of war, and Magnus is the man who cannot die…   The subliminal undertones of war and death was fitting for the two of them, but the way the tropes were switched is intriguing.  Even the fact that Alec was the bold one in that moment, and Magnus was the quiet one ready to do what he was told, is another example of their typical roles being swapped.  It kind of exemplifies how their two personalities have meshed, and how they are two sides of the same coin.  In the end, the sad symbolism of the colors they wore that night was washed away with joy…they found each other, and nothing has been the same since.  

And for that, I’m glad.

whatever you do, pls don’t imagine draco fashionable malfoy in bright angry orange crocs

pls don’t imagine him wearing them with his sexy blacks suits/robes and saying haughtily, “these are the craze in muggle paris, trust me.”

and omg pls i beg you don’t you dare imagine him wearing them to dates with harry potter so so proudly

and muggles are giving them amused glances on the streets

but harry doesn’t have the heart to tell his boyfriend that crocs just don’t go with suits

besides harry finds it absolutely adorable that draco goes everywhere with those one pair of crocs

the funniest part is that one day a distressed screech is heard from draco and harry’s bedroom

and when harry, wand in hand and ready to fight, gets there,

all he sees is draco, clutching a copy of wizards weekly with a look of horror on his face

why didn’t you tell me about my bloody crocs?”

harry looks at draco in confusion then draco promptly shoves the magazine article in his face

it reads: ‘draco malfoy, now a fashion disaster?’

harry laughs and kisses his forehead. “those articles are rubbish, draco. if there’s anyone who can start a trend, it’s you.”

much to harry and draco’s surprise, it does become a trend.

at the next ministry ball, literally everyone is wearing crocs—except harry and draco. THE FUCKING ORANGE ONES ARE A FAN FAVORITE FOR SOME WEIRD REASON.

and hermione mentally face palms in amusement because that’s not how the muggles actually wear them