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harry not taking his shirt off in more than a year actually terrifies me??? because i don’t know what to expect when we see his naked body again like, i know what it looks like from the countless pics we got over the years, but since last year he’s changed his eating habits, is working out more than ever and the results are so good that we can see them through his shirts. how many times have we talked about the way his shirts hug his pecs? or the way you can see the taut muscles of his stomach through them? or his arms that seem to look more delicious by the day? his body is changing, it’s more defined it’s better and it’s healthier than ever, and i can’t wait for the day he’ll bless us with the sight of it again

[My sister and I] both like to eat. I’m definitely the better cook. I mean, I probably have more time on my hands to mess around in the kitchen. I’m a soul food girl [except] I don’t mess around with chitlins—anything that smells like that don’t need to go in my mouth [Laughs]. - Solange

I can’t cook. I’m the worst. Anything to do with cleaning, anything to do with cooking, anything to do with anything domestic, I’m just really bad. When I have time, I’ll figure it out. - Beyoncé

Posting another one because I’m so proud! I made another step towards my goal today by deciding to train again!
I was joking with my mom today about taking me on a shopping spree when I get to my “goal”. And she was like “but you already are! We have bought you clothes along the way! We were naive to think this would be exciting just at the end of your goal. When in reality it’s been a series of exciting goals throughout your journey!”
1st - 220
2nd - 165
3rd - 150
4th - 145
5th - 139

44.5% - 30.5% bf

I’ve been asked a few times about advice for freshmen, so I finally put together a list of advice! I found a few pieces of advice from other posts, just because I liked their phrasing! Hope this helps.

First Day Advice –

  • Get to know some of your teachers so you can ask them to write recommendation letters for college apps or scholarship apps in the future
  • Smile when you walk down the hall
  • Don’t feel like you have to eat lunch in the cafeteria (besides, it’s crowded and it smells weird)
  • Sit in the front your first day at least (it’s so helpful and you’ll be more focused; plus nobody can turn around and look back at you when you talk because DUH—you’re in the front)
  • If you get lost, look to someone older or even a teacher to help you (a junior named Tatum saved my life when I couldn’t find AP Human and I still remember that)
  • Take deep breaths
  • Say hi to one new person in your class when you sit down… just a quick “Hi!” might mean the world to someone

High School In General Advice –

  • Focus on improving and maintaining your GPA
  • Wash your face every night and take care of all your make up, even if you’re exhausted
  • Invest in some sort of resource to help you study for the ACT/SAT; it’s never too early to start studying honestly
  • Don’t blow all your money on the vending machines (and do NOT eat those Sour Beans or whatever, they taste horrible… also, the gummies will be cold, don’t be surprised)
  • If a teacher hosts a study session (which is RARE in high school) FREAKING GO TO IT because it’ll be like 100% helpful and a fantastic review
  • Exercising is a great way to blow off steam
  • Start projects the WEEK they’re assigned; it’s never too early to begin something
  • Do your homework as soon as you get home; it’s so worth it oh my god
  • Get some community service and extracurriculars under your belt
  • Procrastination is inevitable but try your hardest to avoid it
  • Girl to girl positivity! What I mean by this is compliment a girl on her shoes, her outfit, ect. It’ll make her feel so good and it’s just a nice thing to do (people will do it to you too)
  • If you need help, please just ask for it
  • Don’t play on your phone the whole time, please; sometimes it’s okay, I understand you have to send that one text, but just not all the time (it’s rude and teachers will feel bad)
  • Study
  • If you have any doubts about a person, trust your gut (“I don’t have a gut you motherfu—” ~ Mrs. Voorhees on The Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt)
  • That boy who is consuming your life right now probably won’t matter in a few years
  • Don’t worry about not being asked to any dances; go with a pack of friends and look fly af
  • Get involved (so clubs, sports, theatre, band, something)
  • Study for finals way ahead of time
  • Relax
  • Read as much as you can
  • Many worksheets are online if you’re that desperate (just google the name of it)
  • Use Sparknotes definitely, but don’t depend solely on it; actually read Romeo and Juliet
  • Try to get straight A’s
  • Even it seems stupid, have some school spirit (you’ll be here for four years, get used to it)
  • Don’t date senior/junior boys (it’s not worth it, dude, I’ve seen girls go down that path)
  • Be friendly to everyone, even if they don’t deserve it
  • Don’t feel like you’re “too good” for tutors; they actually help and I probably could’ve used one
  • Get some sleep oh my god I can’t stress this enough
  • You can do it, it’s not as scary as it seems
seventeen’s first tweet if they ever get a twitter account

seungcheol: hello everyone! i’m seventeen’s leader s.coups; it’s a nice weather today, isn’t it?

jeonghan: the angel is here! you’ve never lived ur life fully until you’ve seen me

jisoo: hi guys! it’s gentleman joshua; take good care of yourselves and eat lots of chicken they’re very nutritious

mingyu: guys wonwoo says my pick-up lines are lame do u agree

wonwoo: wHEN WILL MY CHEMICAL ROMANCE REUNITE

minghao: *posts a selfie of him and a cute puppy instead*

junhui: my name is jun i’m a vampire and i know wushu love me

jihoon: hi it’s woozi from seventeen and i produce all our songs and hoshi does the choreography and i pRODUCE all our songs and oh did i say i PRODUCE all our songs

soonyoung: naega hosh but my real name is soonyoung and u can call me soon

seokmin: hahaHA I’M SO EXCITED HELLO TWITTER I WILL BRIGHTEN UP YOUR WEBSITE WITH MY SMILE AND I LOVE U !!!!!

hansol: ur boi vernon is here pulling up on you wacks with a mac fully loaded don’t tell seungkwan but his english is still v low quality ooPS

seungkwan: yOOOO LADDDIIEEES it’S seungkWAN BOO FROM JEJU BUT UR WELCOME TO CALL ME BOONON I LOVE TO RAP AND TELL VERNON THAT I’M THE BEST QUALITY

chan: dOES ANYBODY ELSE HERE LOVE MICHAEL JACKSON WE CAN BE BFFS

What Dating Jungkook Would Be Like:

Suga Version,  Jin Version,  J-Hope Version,  Rapmon Version,  Jimin Version,  V Version

  • Shy hand holding
  • Stolen glances until you turn to him and smile (making him blush)
  • Whispered ‘I love you’ until he is more confident
  • Hesitant cuddling when you are alone
  • Movie marathons that become sweet make outs
  • Cosmetic shopping (for both of you)
  • Couple choreography that become childish laughter
  • Teasing the hyungs together mercilessly
  • Romantic dates out to eat or to the park late at night
  • Working on school work together but quickly getting distracted and goofing around with the 95 liners instead

anonymous asked:

Hey Azra, was hoping you could help me out a bit. I know you love the lines from 'Perhaps Patagonia' by Kate Clanchy and was wondering if you could share with me your interpretation of the poem? When I read it, it doesn't feel like it's meant to be terribly sad but I just sit there with an overwhelming sense of loss and emptiness in my chest at the lines: When I spoke of Patagonia, I meantSkies all empty aching blue. I meant Years. I meant all of them with you. Thank you!

Sometimes when I read certain poetry I can’t analyse at all why it makes me feel the way that I do because it doesn’t actually always make sense. Some writers don’t make any sense to me in the way that words are put together to form a cohesive sentence which you can understand, sometimes in poetry, words are put together to just make you feel like you’ve been punched in the stomach. 

Things like Katie Fallandays and “I want to eat your sparrow, come here. I want to lick your sparrow claws, come here. I want to suck your fingers off, come here. I want to give you your history back.” There are lines in that piece which bring to my knees and more often than not, they’re the lines that don’t make any fucking sense! 

Emily O’ Neill: “The memory of eye teeth
in my shoulder. The print of his rushed thumb
on my wrist. Forgive my stumble.
All I know of falling is finding the ground.”

Poetry really is all that you make of it. You find things that other people don’t, and they see things that you can’t. Sorry it took me so long to answer your question but that quote for me ‘I meant skies, all empty aching blue, I meant years, I meant all of them with you.’ Is just about longing and want and seeing the stretch of the world in front of you and thinking that you want to spend it with just one someone. 

littleicelandthings asked:

So Denmark is a horrible chef. Like he can't cook at all. But he's amazing a baking. He's almost as good as France at baking. One night he tried cooking dinner for Norway only he horribly burnt it. He served it anyway hoping Norway wouldn't notice. Spoiler alert: he did and was like, "Denmark what the hell is this?" "Dinner..?" "No. It's really not." So they scrapped dinner and ended up eating the cake Denmark had baked for dessert for dinner instead.

i headcanon that when denmark’s anxious about something, he’ll go on giant frenzied baking sprees

and nor and ice will come home to find the fridge, the cupboards and pretty much every singe surface in the house covered in hundreds of little pastries, and denmark standing in the kitchen covered in flour in the middle of the carnage

27969) When I tell people I have an ED they laugh and say something along the lines of “yeah I eat so much I want to throw up too”. But they don’t understand. They don’t understand what it’s like to battle your own mind and body every day. They don’t understand what it’s like to lose control like this, and they probably never will. Eating a lot and puking once is not bulimia. Stop trivializing this.

PSA

I’ve been scrolling through my tumblog and over the last few days I’ve noticed so many people on this website like shreddernaut and thefitally and so many other wonderful souls that I look up to - getting bashed for loving how they look and flaunting it. And you know what, if I looked like those gods and goddesses I would flaunt it too (actually I look like the goddess that is myself and I flaunt myself as am)

Basically what I’m trying to say is that you should never let it get to you when people say you’re conceited or you have a big head. My mom made a comment to me the other day about how she hoped I don’t get a big head from losing weight and I told her it’s not “a big head” or me being egotistical.

As someone who struggled with an eating disorder, it feels great to love myself. To revel in myself. To show myself off so everyone can see how hard I’ve worked and all of the great things I’ve accomplished. I finally, finally, finally love every piece of myself. Every muscle and stretch mark and dent of cellulite.

I think the reason people call you conceited or cocky or egotistical when you love yourself is because they aren’t comfortable with their own self. I spent so long disliking myself that I can recognize when other people don’t like themselves. And misery loves company - they don’t want you to like yourself because it makes them uncomfortable but that shouldn’t stop you from loving yourself.

So to anyone who is struggling with loving themselves - let people who love themselves be a source of inspiration and not jealousy. Life is so much better when you realize it’s not a competition. Take a breath, exfoliate your life, and stop labeling self love and acceptance something it’s not.

Keep on keeping on.

anonymous asked:

You did weird shit when you were a kid, too. Is attacking Lena Dunham your way of feeling less guilty? Or is it away of pulling attention?

Yeah I did “weird shit” like eating mud or assuming I’d go down the drain if I was still in the tub when the plug was pulled, what I didn’t do was look into the vagina of children 6 years younger than me.  I’m starting to wonder if so many people really think she did nothing wrong or if it’s just one anon continually messaging me. 

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Progress pictures because it’s been forever??  This is me after a bigass breakfast and before pooping hehe 😏 

I haven’t been actively trying to lose fat, gain muscle, etc. For the first time in over 2 years I stopped trying to change my body, and I just let it be. I’ve been eating so many delicious things, “healthy” and “unhealthy” alike, and listening to my body’s energy cues. Most of my days are filled with walking, because not having a car in a California suburb requires other modes of transportation. I run when I feel like it, and when my tendinitis isn’t acting up. I don’t lift. I don’t even strength train, really. Maybe I should but you know what? It’s okay!

I’m still very in tune with fitness and health and all that, but they are not my big priority right now. They were before, and they might be again in the future. But right now, my priority is LIFE and LIVING!

I just want you guys to remember that while HEALTH should always be your number one priority, fitness and dieting don’t have to be. It can be easy to get sucked into it when you follow wonderful amazing athletes and models who have lives that revolve around those things. Or even just everyday people who are passionate about what they do. That’s beautiful. But don’t feel the pressure to prioritize it as much as they do! If you want to, that’s great. That’s awesome. But for those of you who just like staying active and eating what you want, when you want, don’t feel discouraged! YOU DO YOU. Your body will not become a potato. I promise you that. :3

HURT {SCOTT MCCALL}

13. Hurt (One Word Prompt)

He blamed himself. He hurt you. You shouldn’t have been there but you needed to help him. He loved you and couldn’t stop blaming himself for putting you in harms way. He sat by your hospital bed, not leaving your side at all. 

His mum walked in, sighing when she saw him, “Scott, you need to rest. You haven’t slept in days or eaten. I’m getting worried and Y/N wouldn’t want to see you like this.”

He sighs, rubbing his eyes, “I know but I can’t leave her. It’s my fault she’s lying here. I’m not leaving till she wakes up.”

His mother sighs, resting a hand on his shoulder, “I’m going to grab you something to eat. Get some rest.”

He smiles slightly, “Thank you mum.” 

His mum left the room, getting him something to eat. He knew his mother only wanted the best for him but he couldn’t leave you.

Personal stuff

so I’m scheduled for therapy in like six days and I’m nervous but also kind of excited because honestly at this point I’m just really sick of feeling guilty about everything I eat and having to avoid mirrors when I change clothes like lets just get in there and fix this already

I think I’ve started almost all of my conversations with my friends this week with something along the lines of, “Well it’s essentially Halloween already so this is something we have to start thinking about.”

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OOTD for a rainy summer day that feels more like early autumn.

I wore my new orange dress (IT HAS POCKETS!!!). Orange isn’t usually my color, but I think this dress worked on me, especially when paired with the burgundy scarf. It’s definitely going to become a key piece in my autumn wardrobe. 

Apparently I wasn’t the only one who thought the dress looked great. The owner of the tiny little Thai place where I go to eat lunch several times each week thought it looked amazing and offered to give me a similar vintage red dress from the 50s that she has which no longer fits her, so that’s really exciting.

  • orange dress — H&M
  • burgundy scarf — H&M
  • faux-leather jacket — C&A
  • black boots

Im good for a while
I’ll talk more, laugh more
Sleep and eat normally
But then something happenss
Like a switch turns off somewhere
And all im left with is the darkness of my mind but each time it seems like I sink deeper and deeper, drowning and no one can tell no one can help me and im scared, terrified that one day I won’t be make it back up
I feel like I am gasping
Screaming for help
But everyone just looks at me
With confused faces
Wondering what I am struggling over
When they are all doing fine
It makes me feel crazy
Maybe I’m better off dead

What the hell is wrong with me

The Satanspawn Weeb

Warning: some sexual harassment and violence. It’s gonna be a bumpy ride.

Me: anon: short Japanese girl, 22 at the time, large breasts (important to the story) bisexual
Satan: weeb: 24 years old, total stereotypical weeb, creepy, male
Jess: 23, girlfriend at the time
Brawn: male, friend, anger issues, strong

Let’s begin. So I’m at a con, 4 days, and I’m in a sweet rouge from x-men cosplay. Brawn is collosus, Jess is Jean gray. So in sitting eating lunch while everyone else is gone. Then this sloppy looking guy approches me in a hentilia cosplay (I don’t watch so I don’t know who it is) it’s satan. So he compliments my cosplay, even though he doesn’t know the character. I say thanks, and then we start talking. He had all the red flags out, and when I leave, he follows me like a stray dog. So when brawn see’s this, he flips shit and curses like a drunk Irish sailor who had his leg chopped off. Satan leaves, and then we browse the selection. Later, when I’m alone, I feel someone “glomp me” and I fall to the hard ground. I start yelling, and guess who it is? Anyway, then he apologizes, I accept, and that’s all that the con had to offer to the story.

Next: college

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