but like

my mother was telling me about how, when my little brother was like 2 or 3, people would tell her how cute he was and how he’d have “girls flocking to the door” etc

and she always rolled her eyes inwardly because a) when have you ever witnessed girls flocking to the door of any boy, that doesn’t happen and b) he was a toddler of course he was cute and c) how would you even know it’d be girls, maybe it’d be boys, or maybe it’d be no one, you can’t know that when he’s two

this was 25 years ago

and people are still doing this without thinking about what they’re actually saying

like come ON