but this outfit is so cute

So last night, myself and another girl were asked to leave a D&D game, before it even started, because the DM (another woman) didn’t like how we looked. Both of us were made up, hair done, cute outfits, with a lot of pink D&D accessories. She assumed we were very “feminine” so that we could flirt with all the guy players, and try to get advantages, or distract them. We were told we had to change into “normal” clothes (t-shirts or sweatshirts), and “uncake our faces”. We both left but became really good friends really quickly afterward.

I talked about this in a few select social media places after it happened, and something unexpected started when I woke up this morning. A lot of women had contacted me with stories of similar things, from both male and female DMs. It’s now 1:30PM here, and I’ve talked to 29 women, all with their own experiences that all fell under this particular umbrella.

Their experiences included:

- Being talked to like they’re a bimbo by everyone at the table.
- Having one or more guys at a table want to “help them” play, despite having even more game experience than they did.
- Being blatantly ignored by other female players.
- Having their character hit on endlessly by most of a table.
- Being hit on themselves, despite saying “no thank you” or showing obvious disinterest.
- Being touched a lot, either on the arm, shoulder, back, or in more inappropriate places by male gamers.
- Being told they’re “trying too hard to be a woman”, included trans women being told this by other women.
- Having the DM solely target their character in battles and with traps, after turning the DM down for a date or affection, and not stopping until the character is dead.
- Having it insisted upon them that they have to change their “girly” dice, bags, binders, clothing, etc to “fit in”.
- Being told they aren’t a “real nerd”, “real gamer”, “real geek”, “real fan” because they don’t fit the “look” — this is the most common one I heard.
- Being told by a table full of guys that their below-10 roll was in fact “rolling like a girl”.
- And of course, the “gold digger” argument. That a woman who glams herself up before a game is clearly only hunting for the nerdy guy who also makes a lot of money, and who is pretending to like these things to get at his bank account. 12 separate women told me this one, each of them were kicked out of their games with this being the explanation. None of them dated or flirted with anyone at the table at any point.

The common theme here was that all of these were public play games, either at gaming stores, or at conventions. You have to sit at a table with people you don’t know, and one would expect at least common human decency here, but instead this sort of thing happens. It’s not okay for people to be treated this way by anyone, for any reason, and I was mortified by the sheer amount of women coming forward to share in such a short period of time.

So I worked away at this picture, as I express myself in really dumb fashion sketches. 

It’s the club jacket for our Glam Girl Gamer Gang. 

Girls of all types, from all backgrounds, all sizes, all places in life deserve to be respected as a fellow player. THIS INCLUDES ALL GIRLS WHO LIKE “STEREOTYPICALLY FEMININE” THINGS.

IT IS FUCKING 2017 WHY IS THIS STILL AN ISSUE YOU DINGBATS

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Interrupting my #European updates for some #batman. Just one of the cute outfits I’m shooting for patreon it’s finally ready to launch ❤️ P.s. Just arrived in #Madrid, so if you guys have food or night life recommendations, let me know!
#curvy #thick #spain #lingerie #thighhighs #dccomics #garter

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anonymous asked:

2!p........dachuu???? ??????????????? ??????????????? ???????? i'mlost????????????????

LMAO I’M SORRY BUT OKAY 2P Dachuu is basically Dazai and Chuuya with inverted color scheme. It’s an AU mostly popular in the Korean fandom. Think black Atsushi and white Akutagawa but with skk. 

So basically 2P Chuuya is Chuuya with white outfit and blue hair meanwhile 2P Dazai has white hair, white outfit and black bandages. Personality wise 2P Chuuya is very cute and clingy and all lovey dovey as opposed to the normal tsundere Chuuya. 2P Dazai… well I don’t know much about him tbh aside from the fact that he’s also lovey dovey to 2P Chuuya as normal skk look on in disgust.

anonymous asked:

That's a different kitchen than the one she almost burned down in a previous video lmao so I'm thinking that's her new home that she talked about moving into a couple days ago. I didn't even make the connection with the outfits and that's the vid that made me fall in love with my Queen Mildred! Anyyyway, they posted a cute thingy on the K*ndaTv instagram and she looks hot

Oh shit that’s a nicer kitchen XD  And thanks for telling me, her midriff is cute d:

spring with jin
  • a/n: gonna do these until/while i finish the college series :)
  • shopping for spring outfits and he would get a lot of ones that incorporate a pastel pink and he’d be so proud of himself. he’d look great in all of his pink shirts and etc.
  • would totally pick out something for you and if you don’t like pink he’d just get something with your favorite color
  • taking strolls through the park with jangu and you’d stop to sit on the grass and just take in the flowers blooming and the cool breeze as jangu would lie across your laps
  • lots of cute spring dates that would be spent at the park or going to the countryside or going to a beach or whatever and could you imagine jin singing softly bc wow
  • making pink lemonade bc why not and cookies and etc. with pink icing and you’d sit out on the balcony of your shared apartment and eat and talk as the spring breeze would brush past your hair
  • lots of baking. like, you’d tell yourselves that you’re only making cupcakes bc the mix and icing was like half off and it was pastel colors but no bc who would pass up sweets
  • you’d probably end having way too many cupcakes so you’d bring some over to the others except jungkook bc he was probably already at your place
  • would probably find spring-ish recipes (idk if that’s a thing) for the two of you to try out
  • and you’d probably have little get-togethers at your place or his favorite restaurant or something and you’d invite the rest of bts
  • doing your skincare routine together and he’d pick out which face mask he’d want you to wear
  • waking up early to stand out on your balcony just as the sun would rise and he’d hug you close to him
  • idk what this is but i feel like spring with jin would be just as amazing as any other time but the blooming flowers, cool breeze, and sunshine would somehow make things a thousand times better please love jin he’s so precious okay :)

I’m trying to be body positive to myself so I try to draw pretty pictures of myself. I’m very skinny irl to the point of you being able to see my ribs. I don’t gain waight cause that’s not how my body works, this bothers me sometimes so when it does I do this and go treat myself by looking at cute outfits and it helps me a lot.

(●´ω`●)💕

anonymous asked:

Hey! Could I get headcannons for Pharah and Tracer whose s/o is into really really cute things? Like they dress in mostly pastel colors and have so many cute trinkets and stuff? I love your blog btw❤

Pharah

  • Finds it so precious~
  • Pharah would never wear anything so girly or sparkly herself, but she likes how cutesy it all looks on her partner
  • Will be extra careful about their nice pastel clothes, laying her jacket down on benches so they don’t get them dirty
  • Subconsciously goes to untangle their necklaces or bracelets if they don’t store them properly
  • And if they wear those adorable bows in their hair, she’ll offer to retie them several times a day so that they look prim and proper!
  • Fareeha just wants her s/o to look as cute as possible and let them know she cares about them ^^

Tracer

  • This girl’s a whirlwind, so her s/o will have to watch out for getting their clothes dirty around her
    • Dust, flour, dirt, and so on…she’s not going to completely ruin their outfits, but they may have a few spots on their skirts
  • Totally fascinated by all their trinkets, wanting to carefully handle each one and ask them extensive questions on what it’s made of, where it came from…
  • May even ask to borrow some of their little earings
  • When they go out, Tracer may wear her Ultraviolet or Punk skin so they can contrast, yet complement one another~
Dating Rydel would include...

Requested by an anon

  • Going on lots of dates all the time. Some would be super romantic and planned to the very last detail, others would be spontaneous and random
  • Her always wanting to make videos with you; girlfriend tag, challenges, vlogs, and other fun videos. She’d always refer to you as her girlfriend on her videos
  • The two of you having cute matching outfits which she’d plan out
  • Her doing your makeup and hair for special occasions, and you doing hers
  • Stormie posting so many pictures of the two of you together; she’d be your number one shipper lbr
  • You being super close to her brothers and always hanging out with them when Rydel isn’t around
  • Ryland and Rocky teasing the shit out of you two, but really they’re just jealous that they don’t have a gf who’s as awesome as you
  • You being really close to Courtney and Vanni; going on double or triple dates with them, Ross, and Riker
  • Rydel always being so affectionate and touchy with you, even in public. Always kissing your cheeks or playing with your hair or holding your hand
  • The fans loving the two of you together and always leaving sweet comments on videos/pictures of the two of you
  • You two talking about the future a lot. Talking about what kind of house you two will live in, how many kids you’ll have, what kind of wedding you’ll have, etc.