but there's no other way

frick man if theres one thing i wanna say to anyone considering therapy or counseling is if you have the money/insurance to cover your appointments and a safe way to get there then please go. if you feel comfortable and want to go, then go bc it will change your life in so many ways. i know theres other factors and of course every case is different, but its one of those things that will help you in the long run and maybe youll never be 100% free of whatevers plaguing you right now but youll be able to cope with it better and for me at least, thats meant the world and more


I hope their relationship progresses to big sis and lil bro always making fun of each other vibe


critical role | fave percy one-liners (1/?)

credit to @critrolestats for the list, and @somethingveryodd for the suggestion over on my twitter

on [my] gender

I’ve been meaning to put this into words for a while now. I am agender, I don’t associate myself with either binary gender, I like to dress ‘masculine’ as much as I enjoy dressing ‘feminine’ and that doesn’t invalidate my gender, and I know that

but I also know that other people perceive me as being female. I’m reminded of that every time my dad refuses to use my name, every time my language forces me to pick “he” or “she”… for simplicity’s sake I use “she,” that’s what I grew up with, that’s what’s easier for others. and no matter how comfortable I am with my gender, no matter how open I am about it… I still know that the world at large sees a woman in me, and that makes me very very uncomfortable, because no matter how hard I try I’m not unaffected by it.

I see myself in wlw posts but I can’t rightfully claim to be part of that group because I am not a woman. or do I have that right because the world perceives me as such, because of my genitals, because of the way I was brought up/look/sound? (I don’t think so)

my attraction to girls is gay/”same-sex” because, again, I was raised a girl. I want to be able to say “I’m gay for that boy” too, since my lack of gender means I’m gay for everyone, but I can’t. I don’t feel like I’ve got the right to talk like that. I am agender, but in almost every context of my life I act as a “woman” so… what am I?


“I don’t have enough Star Wars in my room,” she says sadly, testing out the panorama function on her phone. (I was standing on my desk chair.  Also, the Padme, which you can’t really see from the angle of the panorama.)

Yes, I know, Indy’s an outlier; he’s coming down, sadly, so I can put up my TCW ladies.  I’ve actually got two mostly blank walls (one not pictured, along with most of my bookshelves) on which more stuff will also go up, I’ve just gotta get more stuff to hang it up with and decide whether or not to keep my big Narnia poster.

tranquilambiguity  asked:

do you have any other movie recommendations for infj?

This is essentially a list of my favorite movies, the first section are movies I think INFJ’s would love for various reasons, second section is less so, but still great movies. Asterisk denotes my ABSOLUTE faves

  1. **Mommy dir. Xavier Dolan (drama, mother tries to help her violent child ft. sad neighbor)
  2. **Mother dir. Bong Joon-ho (drama/thriller, a mothers son gets arrested for murder and she sets out to prove him innocent) (literally just watch the opening scene oh my god)
  3. Requiem for a Dream dir. Darren Aronofsky (drug addiction of all kinds, psych thriller, wild ride)
  4. **Black Swan dir. Darren Aronofsky (psych thriller, identity, desire for fame)
  5. **Oldboy dir. Park Chan-wook (psych thriller, revenge, the hero quest, love story)
  6. Snowpiercer dir. Bong Joon-ho (dystopia, classism, determinism)
  7. **We Need to Talk About Kevin dir. Lynne Ramsay (a mother tries to come to terms w her effed up son, bad shit happens)
  8. Memento dir. Christopher Nolan (told backwards, revenge, he can’t make new memories so he tattoos the shit out of his body to remember shit)
  9. The Prestige dir. Christopher Nolan (magic, hats)
  10. A Clockwork Orange dir. Stanley Kubrick (sadistic kid in weird future gets into loads of shit)
  11. **Princess Mononoke dir. Hayao Miyazaki (all miyazaki should be watched (especially Spirited Away) but this is my fave, hint: main dude is sometimes classed as infj)
  12. **The Tale of the Princess Kaguya dir. Isao Takahata (about love and life, beautiful, I cried)
  13. Wolf Children dir. Mamoru Hosoda (two half-wolf siblings grow up and try to navigate between being both human and wolf, bonus: interesting gender relations)
  14. **Audition dir. Takashi Miike (THRILLER/HORROR girl murderer? I can’t even remember but it was amazing)
  15. Her dir. Spike Jonze (I think we all know)
  16. **The Silence of the Lambs dir. Jonathan Demme (crazy dude eats ppl and bae is like wtf)
  17. **Mr. Nobody dir. Jaco Van Dormael (a boy who doesn’t exist doesn’t make any choices so that all the possibilities can all exist at the same time, +love stories)
  18. **The Imposter dir. Bart Layton (sick doc about a guy who pretends to be this family’s long lost child AND GETS AWAY WITH IT FOR A LONG TIME DESPITE OBVIOUS DIFFERENCES IN APPEARANCE)
  19. **Under The Skin dir. Jonathan Glazer (alien preys on men and devours them + tries to navigate humanity, a race she or they don’t understand)
  20. **Drive dir. Nicolas Winding Refn (a drama/thriller of a getaway driver and his romance w an innocent, I don’t remember honestly)
  21. **Pan’s Labyrinth dir. Guillermo del Toro (a young girl finds a fantasy world)
  22. BONUS:: the tv show Hannibal has an INFJ lead, and it’s a VERY OBVIOUS INFJ lead, Will Graham, aka Bae, so please please watch it’s amazing (it’s also about Hannibal the cannibal)

Other movies that aren’t my personal fave, but INFJs will probably enjoy::

  1. Amelie
  2. The Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind
  3. Fight Club
  4. V for Vendetta
  5. Donnie Darko
  6. Inception
  7. The Matrix
  8. Lost in Translation
  9. Melancholia
  10. The Fountain
  11. Se7en
  12. Moonrise Kingdom
  13. Magnolia
  14. Gattaca

Less INFJ-y but great movies::

*Heathers dir. Michael Lehmann (too many people named heather, murder disguised as suicide, teenagers killing teenagers, but all rlly funny??)
Wreck-It Ralph dir. Rich Moore (makes me cry every damn time)
*Whiplash dir. Damien Chazelle (drummer wants fame and is abused by teacher)
*Nightcrawler dir. Dan Gilroy (weird guy does weird shit at night with a camera and sometimes dead bodies)

If anyone has movie recs for me I am ALL EARS. I love movies, clearly`

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For some reason, I constantly feel as if time’s running out. I feel like there’s way too many things I wanna write, and do, and see… and there’s just not enough time to do it all.

anonymous asked:

i love how you always have something nice to say about the art you reblog in the tags lile "nice rendering" or "the anatomy is great" or "THIS IS SO CUTE" im sorry i just live people that use the tags for good




i catch dudes making posts about how much they like girls with traits not commonly accepted as atttactive as though i’m sposed to be proud of them for that.

“love a girl with stretch marks.” like youre waiting for us to clap for you and throw ourselves at you. like you’re so special and woke and enlightened for being the minimum amount of decent. you’re lowkey trying to project that you are not like other men and that’s gross as hell too. if not more gross for that added layer of deception.

it circles back. guys who talk like that sound just as bad as anyone else to me. you’re doing the same thing as the worst of dudes, just from a sneakier angle.

and you can say you’re an exception to the rule but that’s not gonna gain my trust. theres other ways to show respect for a woman than telling us what your preference is- that makes it about you all over again. tbh i just don’t give a shit what a guy likes, who fucking cares. nobody asked yall