but she needs to stop because this is not healthy for us

Monday 8:27am
I woke up with you on my mind.
You called me babe last night —
my heart is still pounding.

Tuesday 10:53pm
Today I realized we won’t work.
What we are is hurting her.
And I think she matters more to me than you do.

Wednesday 11:52pm
I broke things off with you today.
She barely said a word.
I’ve never regretted anything more than this.

Thursday 4:03pm
I shouldn’t have sent that message.
You shouldn’t have been so okay with receiving it.

Friday 9:57pm
I almost messaged you today.
I didn’t.

Saturday 8:49pm
I’m walking around town in search of alcohol.
They say that liquor numbs the pain of having a broken heart.
I want to put that to the test.

Sunday 2:32am
I heard you texted a girl you’ve never spoken to before.
I wonder if it’s because you’re trying to replace me.
I can’t help but wish you weren’t.
I thought I was irreplaceable.

—  a week with you on my mind, c.j.n.

anonymous asked:

it's so funny how briana's excuse for not keeping pants on freddie is that he doesn't like it. kids don't like eating vegetables but you make them because they need it to be healthy. kids get uncomfortable in lifejackets at sea but you keep them on for their protection. babies wanna stick their fingers in electrical sockets but you stop them to keep them safe. like? she literally doesn't know anything about parenting. a baby exposed in the rain could get a pneumonia.

Yep. This is the lamest excuse ever, if you don’t put the pants and let him do what he wants, he’ll not learn. Like, that’s super basic of the basic and yet 

Anonymous said to shadyshit91:How cringe. Either 1. No pub wanted these pics or 2. Louis’s team had to step in and stop pubs from using them– and B and her fam kept setting them up

Yike 

I really want people to stop creating this unrealistic expectation around black women’s body types. Especially for black women who are slender without curves.

Not every black woman is supposed to mature and grow into the same body shape. Some of us are naturally slender, and are not built to be curvy.

Also, men/women, don’t ever fix your lips to tell your black slender woman that she needs to gain weight, or she needs to get more booty, or you wish her thighs were thicker or that she had more cleavage, because only THEN would she be more attractive.

Stop comparing her to these Instagram vixens , girls with ass shots who waist train to death, and unrealistic body shapes in general. There are so many slender black women like myself who have to try so hard not to look at ourselves as last choice or inferior to curvier girls because of fuckboy preferences and fantasies.

In addition to self-esteem issues, there are HEALTHY slender black women who think something is WRONG with them because they are slender, and cannot achieve a “curvaceous” look. Also, there are HEALTHY slender black women taking part in Un-Healthy diets and purchasing products to achieve a look that is impossible without surgery, which is dangerous.

Moral of the story, is STOP BODY SHAMING. Body shaming isn’t just hurtful to curvier women , but it is also hurtful to slender women.

Feeling Bad for Seolhyun is Not An Insult to Zico

Like i see on articles a few people saying “poor seolhyun” or “i hope she’s gonna recover from this” after her break up with Zico. And honestly some people are so nasty to jump on and say “seolhyun lost nothing she’s doing fine” “stop making her look weak seolhyun has everything nothing’s gonna change”. “Why do you make Zico look like the big bad wolf?”. People need to pipe the fuck down we aren’t insulting Zico or saying Zico broke her heart or some shit. The reason why many of us  feel bad is because her image tanked the most. She lost alot of Cf’s, her whole image of the wholesome healthy beauty has been lost (which i think doesn’t matter I love her anyways but that was her main attraction in Korea). It has nothing to do with Zico, fact is when idols go into relationships the female idols almost always get the short end of the stick. They loose male fans, female fans of their boyfriends alot of times hate on them, the general public feels they lost their innocence and charm, overall they really just suffer, and this just adds onto the fact that AoA has had a really unlucky year. So stop trying to make it sound like Seolhyun is some stuck up pretty girl who was so lucky to even date “oppa” for a bit. Because it honestly has nothing to do with Zico or his actions. All that matters is a young entertainer wanted to experience dating but ended up being being publicly shamed for dating and going to a man’s house. She lost endorsements and “fans”.  It has everything to deal with double standards on female idols. 

This is why I need feminism. Both of these women are beautiful, but we’ve been conditioned to say that one is better than the other. Jennifer is obviously photoshopped in that image. Not to say that she isn’t gorgeous, but magazines use photoshop. And Kim? She’s not skinny, yeah, but does that make her ugly? No. Stop comparing people. Stop believing that someone can be “perfect”. No one is. And stop putting women down for not being thin, because every body type is different, and as long as you’re healthy, you’re incredible.

If you ever feel lost, remember your spirit is never lost, it’s just hiding. Your spirit stopped talking to you because you ignored her for too long. If you want her back, you need to start doing the little things you used to do for her that made her open up to you. Wake up earlier, eat healthy, go for walks, step away from all the technology that clutters your mind, lie in the grass and listen. Stop trying to find the answers. Sit still. Be quiet. Don’t expect anything.

Only then will she come back to you.

Stay Awesome

I’m always working on getting Aska to ignore other dogs on walks… but people who just decide I want her to meet their dogs and walk up to us are totally ruining it. Now Aska basically thinks all the dogs she sees will come to us because that’s how it is, and I think it’s pretty rude.
I usually walk away or tell them I don’t want them to meet and they’re like “Oh my dog is nice it’s okay” or “dogs need to meet other dogs it’s healthy!!!”

I’m not interested in meeting them and their dogs. My dog isn’t really interested in meeting them and their dog. Please stop.

People really need to stop comparing Anidala to Reylo. Anakin and Padme had a loving, egalitarian and gentle relationship from the beginning of their story. Bringing up the choking scene to prove that this couple is inherently abusive is dishonest because their relationship had already ended the moment Padme said she could not follow his path. Prior to that, their relationship worked pretty well, until Anakin started lying to her by the end of EP III after killing all the Jedi at the temple, etc.

His betrayal and his choking her is what killed her (she literally lost the will to live because of him) but that will never erase the loving and healthy relationship they used to have (which is what makes it tragic). Their relationship ended pretty quickly after Anakin made his decision to join Palpatine, so don’t pretend that it has been abusive all along, this is simply not canon. Anakin may have had darkness inside him from the start, which first showed when he slaughtered the people who had kidnapped his mother, but it never manifested in the presence of Padme until things went downhill from that moment.

Now, Kylo Ren has been shown to be murderous and abusive from the beginning (although he did have an “i almost followed the light again, thx god that didn’t happen” moment with his dead redeemed grandpa). I don’t believe he is beyond redemption, and they will probably go for that (it’s sort of a family tradition by now, huh?) but Rey watched this man kill his own father and they were not exactly being diplomatic when they light-sabered the shit out of each other). If there is to be any sort of romantic involvement between them, it should only be when Kylo has redeemed himself first. 

You wanna ship them, fine. Like I said, I believe in redemption and the possibility to build at the very least a trusting relationship (although I personally cannot fathom a romantic relationship between Rey and Kylo because I think he has already gone too far) but don’t be dishonest about Anakin and Padme’s story. That’s not cool.