but posting it anyway bc why not

why do ppl mock The Indie Girl Voice™ so much when The Pop Punk Guy Voice™ is one of the worst and most grating singing styles ever

3

tried out those kind of edits for the first time and had super much fun doing them! I’ll definitely do more of them in the future :D

Screenshots from: WHO’S MORE LIKELY TO…? // Valentines Special //

(srsly this video is just too cute, if you haven’t seen it and got 15 minutes spare time rn go watch it!)

I’m honestly still in awe at how underrated hyuk is like..he’s so well rounded. He’s a great dancer, vocalist, actor, and apparently now he writes music as well?? He’s smart (was the top of his class) and translates english for the members with ease, and he plays piano really well. He’s really dedicated to what he does and I don’t think many people know this but he’s SUPER SWEET to starlights (letting them squish his nose omg, being really friendly to an i-starlight when she was backstage at one of their tours, doing aegyo when the hyungs aren’t there lol) idk man more people should appreciate hyuk y’all are missing out

ok we all know how íþróttaálfurinn is an elf, yes? well let me just tell you this, icelandic elves are not like what u see in movies. like no. 1 rule about icelandic elves is don’t fuck with them or they will either make u go insane or steal ur babies. they might do it anyway even if u do nothing. also don’t mess with the rocks or the hills where they live or ur cursed for life. if an elf tells u to do something u better do it bc u’ll get a reward and everything will be good but if u don’t…. hoo boy u gonna regret it

its been so long but im still trying to figure out how you could go from “i love you” to “i don’t care about you anymore” in such a short amount of time

Small tips that make a (healthier) difference

Hey you! I dare you to try your best to follow this checklist tomorrow! But hey! Not so fast. Why not try it again the next day (and every day after that)? Sometimes it’s the smaller changes that can in fact help improve our health and wellbeing, especially when we think we’re short of time. School stressing you out? Everything is going to be ok. Try a few little things here. Tick everything off that you completed! Tell me how it goes for you!

This was a spontaneous post and I’ve found that I’ve been making errors in my posts recently! Plz correct me bc I am an egg. Hope u like it anyway.


Morning:

  • Wake up as soon as you do naturally or when your alarm goes off. Make your bed! Open the blinds!
  • Get out of bed and s t r e t c h – all the way from the very tips of your fingers to the tips of your toes. (Trust me, this feels good)
  • Set your intention for the day. This might be weird for some, but try it. Example: Today I will be productive. I will be focused on my tasks and I will take the time to relax when needed. It doesn’t have to be as complicated – Example 2: I can do this. Remind yourself again.
  • Eat breakfast. A MUST. Try my favourite: eggs (poached, scrambled or fried) on toast with avocado or baked beans. Yes. We are on a roll today.
  • Drink one full glass of water within the hour of waking (don’t down it all in one go though!).
    • Add 1/8 of a lemon to this. Lemon is great to alkalise the body and getting that digestive system of yours goin! This will flush out toxins in the body and support your immune system too!
      • Side note: Wait half an hour before brushing your teeth after this (or maybe do it before) because lemons are acidic after all and can probably do some damage to your shiny whites.
  • Try having a water bottle by your bedside and beside you throughout the day as a constant reminder to drink water as you see it. Trust me, this has helped improve my water intake a lot.
  • Organise your day. What are your plans? What are of priority and what are not? Try brain dumping this, and then organising each task/item into a list, categorised in importance. This will help decrease stress throughout the day and easy referral back to this list.
  • Dress in some lovely clothes! Your fave sweater and some cool black tights? 100%!! What about that pretty skirt you like with a nice top? HECK YEAH!!!

Midday:

  • Lunchtime! Eat again. Wholesome foods are an absolute must whenever you can.
  • Aim for 3-4 cups of water by lunchtime (inclusive of the glass of lemon water you had this morning).
  • Remember that intention you set this morning? Say it again.
  • Throw a compliment at someone. Be genuine. This will have a butterfly effect. If someone throws one at you to – don’t disagree! Say thank you. You rock, don’t doubt that.
  • Are there any ticks beside those tasks on your checklist from this morning? I hope so!
  • Throw in a random burst of exercise! In public too – who cares! Pick one of these: 50 starjumps! 3 sets of 10 squats! A quick walk around outdoors!

Arvo (/Afternoon… Straya):

  • Hit that 3pm slump? Same. Here are a few ideas to get you going, especially coming home from a long day:
    • NAP! 15-20 mins. No longer. No less. Be strict here or your sleep pattern might go funny and we don’t want that. (And groggy headaches are gross)
    • Exercise! This is so fundamental to our health and wellbeing. Try out short pilates videos (no equipment) here (that as living proof, work) or some really cool yoga videos here, here, and here. Yoga is great. Try this daily. Or take a brisk walk for 30 minutes  = wake up your brain, pick up your mood AND burn some fat. C’mon, go get your shoes!
    • Have a healthy snack, such as those listed in this great post by @tbhstudying. Get your brain and bod going, my friends!
  • Write down your to do list for any work, study or event related things that you need to complete this afternoon. Set out all your equipment, sort out your papers from the day and get organised!
  • Clear your (bedroom/bed/desk/floor/work/closet) space for 5 minutes every day. I’m guessing that you’ve started to pile a few things here like I do. This will save you time and help maintain cleanliness, staving away from the complicated stress that comes from having to reorganise just about everything which we all know to hate when we’re busy with other things.
  • Have you had your 5th and 6th cups of water of the day yet? Get to it!
  • Sit up straighter and you’ll look more confident and feel more confident. Your back will also be very grateful for this.

Night:

  • Continue all your extra to-dos. Get this done. You can do it!
  • Make sure to put something in your body guys. I’m talking food here by the way… don’t let that sentence mislead you! This is especially important for those of you probably thinking “I’ll just eat later” or “I’m not hungry”.  Eat. EAT NOW. PleASE.
  • Spend some quality time with your family. How’s their day been? Tell them about yours too.
  • Glasses of water No. 7, 8 and beyond should be here.
  • Prep your meals, lists, notes, outfits, etc. for the next day. Getting these things sorted now will help you get it out of the way and save you time!
  • Settle down a little. It’s time to wiiiind doooooooownnn. Read a book. Scroll through Tumblr (aaayeee!) – but not too deep into the pits okay guys. Watch a little TV.
  • I know a lot of posts say to switch off 1-2 hours before bed. If you’re literally glued to your electronics, try switching off 5 minutes earlier every day and replace that with something else. What about doing your prep items for the next day (listed two points back!!)? Or, do get those pesky chores out the way.
    • Side note: Cleaning your room often will help freshen it, get rid of itchy dust and decrease the chances of bugs and other smol random things to crawl around your room. (If that’s not a little motivation then I’m not sure what is…). It’ll also keep your space maintained so you don’t have to do it all at once. *Shudders* Plus the likelihood of those gross germs from the world hanging around and building up in there is a no-no.
  • Sleep! 7-8 hours. Your body will thank you for it. CRUCIAL for healthy brain and body function. Plus your mood and skin will improve (i.e. gOODBYE EYEBAGS and hELLO GLOWING SKIN).
    • Side note: I see you reading this at 12am when you should be sleeping. I see you.

I hope this has helped you guys a little or at least inspired you to make a small change to your daily routine! Try doing a few items here (e.g. glass of lemon water, sitting up straighter, 8+ cups of water) and record this on a habit tracker! The smallest changes often have the greatest effects!

Don’t forget to let me know how you go.

Kalyisah (@studywithkal)

6

anastasia • dir.  don bluth, gary goldman [classics]

<<why the change of  m i n d ?>>

                       <<it was more a change of  h e a r t .>>

I’ve been thinking lately about recovery from my eating disorder. For months on end, I was sure that I would relapse. It wasn’t that I wanted to or even felt that strong of urges, but more that it seemed to be a thing people did, and I was stressed and depressed, and had the opportunity to, so why wouldn’t I?

For whatever reason, though, I didn’t. I kept eating normally and all that jazz. I’m almost two years into recovery. I honestly take my functioning for granted; I’ve been learning math and classical Indian dance and languages. I have showed up on exchange as much as I could, and really implemented healthy coping skills.

I was just musing about the possibility of things going downhill this summer, and then my host mom knocked on my door to give me some ice cream. I was like, oh, ice cream, great! And then I ate it, end of story. Something my old dietitian said to me once was that I was afraid of both being okay and not okay, which is probably really apt. Relapse is always a possibility, and at least for me, right now, it would be a conscious choice. To quote @velvettruce, “I am afraid that I will fail at greater things than this.” The thing is, the stakes of my life are higher now.

The focus is not on my using behaviors, but how I can (potentially) use a postposition in Hindi. Expectations are higher, and I think that’s a good thing. The idea of maintaining recovery indefinitely is overwhelming, and yet, I might as well. Relapse would give me a break; it would be safe and familiar and what-have-you, but I want better for myself. I have proven, time and time again, that I’m willing to do what it takes in order to ensure that I have a future.

oops, i was going to post this on the first of november, but i ended up completely forgetting about them oops oops ;u;
anyways, i decided to go with a new type of layout after the month of horrific experimentation that was october (which is mainly the reason why i’ve avoided posting bullet journal pics last month ahahaha rip)

it’s been fun and relaxing to write out dates and plan things out and use these super cute stickers from copia design
esp that latte sticker bc i love you a latte :’)))))))

// taken from my studygram!

hello all!! it’s a new year which means i’ve had this blog for about half a year which is insane bc i don’t know what i did before this 😂 anyway i am still amazed by the kindness, sweetness and general loveliness of everyone and i can’t believe i have any followers at all let alone over 200 💕 thank you to everyone who made me feel welcome and the few that talked to me despite my awkwardness (thats something i wanna work on in 2017) and to everyone that still tags me in things bc i can never tire of tag games. emosh rant aside here’s everyone that brightens my dash and pulls me further into the kpop trash can i honestly love you all 😘😘 (ps sorry in advance if i missed ppl out or got stuff wrong im not a technology whizz so this took me ages)

mutuals - bold, faves - ❤️

{123-b}
❤️@6baekhyun❤️, @7soojung, @21jngdae, ❤️@92-pcy❤️, @92cby, ❤️@305heaux❤️, @absolutehun, @acousticmym, @addictedkpop, @aeribaek, @ahbaekhyun, @angel-in-slow-motion, @angelickai, @angelksoo, @artificialpuppy, @assbuttbaek, @asshun, @ayy-pcy, ❤️@babydae04❤️, ❤️@babydontpcy❤️, ❤️@babysebaek❤️, @baekfhyun, @baehkkyun, @baekhyeun, @baekhyun-baking-bacon, @baekhyunniee, @baekhyunsama, ❤️@baekhyunstolemyeyeliner❤️, @baekhyuntella, @baekhyy, @baeksaerii, @baeksee, @baekuynh, @baekvocals, @baekyeolsquad, @basic-bitch-baek, ❤️@bbhsthighs❤️, @berribaek, @bhyunq, @biaspentagon, @bigmoneysuho, @blowchanyeolsflute, @bonappejin, @boxianb, @brbcrawlingtokorea, @bulba-suho-r, @byeolks, ❤️@byunbaeklr❤️, @byunbaekssii, @byunchen, @byunspuppy, @byunutella, @byuny, ❤️@byuny-baek❤️

{c-e}
@causekpop, @celaystial, @chaerinrm, @chaichanyeol, @chaisoo, @chanbaekwife, @chanffeine, @chanshine, @chanyehet, @chanyeof, @chanyeollipop, @chanyeols-ear, @chanyeolsdeepvoice, @chanyeolsoo, @chanyoool, @chanys, @chenbaekery, @chenchantment, @chengineering, @chnyeollie, ❤️@conishizm❤️, @coolecstaticm, @corgibaek, @curlyheaux, @cyoungsjae, @cypherkookie, @cytaoplasm, @daenso, ❤️@danisonthefire❤️, @dayafterdae, @dazedjongin, @dazzlingkai, @dazzlynini, @death-by-jongin, @deerbbh, @derp-yeoll, @divinekai, @doitforsoo, @dokynsoo, @dokyungsooswife, @duckyhun, @dulcetyeoll, @dunwithexo, ❤️@eggheadsoo❤️, @eggsehun, @erinyx-s, @ethereal-baek, ❤️@exo–sexo❤️, @exo-official-lightstick, @exodusandchill, @exostortillachip

{f-j}
@fhawn, @foreversuho, @chanhunsbby, ❤️@ftjoy❤️, ❤️@funniestinexo ❤️ , @fvck-kai, @ga-yun, @galaxychen, @gaudyz, ❤️@gayiconpcy❤️, @girlsgenerachen, @gjrlgeneration, @glorious-soobooty, @glowinghobii, @got7europe, @gothchanbaek, @guitaristjin, @heart-kisori, @helloflowerboykai, @heterosexyeol, @heyyplayboy, @himchan, @hobiga, ❤️@hobisoo❤️, @hoeforluhan, @hoesehun, @hunandonly, @hunisthesun, @hunshines, @igot7dabs, @iluvpcy, @imgonnasooyou, ❤️@imtaebum❤️, @ineffablejhope, @intokai, @irideschen, @its-baekhyun-love, @jediyixing, @jieunyoung, @jihyped, @jiminiehoe, @jiminyoongistuff, @jimiyoong, @jinkis, @jisung, @wendaes, @jongdaemort, @jongdaes-mom, @jongdaesjaan, @jonginplease, @jonginsavedmylife, @jonginssoo, @jongwaedae, @julietmp3, @junbrows, @junmyeon-please, @junmyeonsbae, @jvungkook, @jxeyx

{k-o}
@k-popandchill, @kae-popx, @kaibility, @kaicahuetes, @kaifection, @kaimint, @kaipital, @kairamelo, @kaisdonuts, @kaisoo-on-ice, @kaiternity, @kaiuary, @kaixpcy, @kibub, @kimjunnoodle, @kimkaisohsehun, ❤️@kingbyunny❤️, ❤️@kingusoo❤️, @kinkjongin, @kireinakai, ❤️@kittyhunnie❤️, @kjonginswife, @kpopthirstaddicted, @krisinsanity,❤️@ksooslipring❤️, ❤️@ksoosoo❤️, @kystal, @kyungsmoothhh, @kyungsoss, @kyvngsoo, ❤️@lawlliets❤️, @laygion, @leaderirene, @lionbaekkie, @littlebyuns, @littlechefsoo, @lottobh, @lottomp3byexo, @love-seok, ❤️@lsdk❤️, @ludork, @luhan-vevo, @luhaven, @luhtella, @lullabyun, @memesyoongi, @minhyoks, @miniseokk, @minseokblackgf, @minjoonv@minseokslilmochi, @mpci, @mrsmamamoo, ❤️@nerdtasticawkwardpenguin❤️, @nunbuchen, ❤️@occasianallysuho❤️, @ohhhappydae, @ohhsenshine, @ohs-hun, @ohsehons, @ohsehunpai, ❤️@okaybaekhyun❤️, @omyvelvet, ❤️@oohsehunnies❤️, @oohsenun, @ooomybaek, @osh-personaltrashcan, @ot9s, @overnightprincess

{p-s}
@parkchanyoyo, @parklunatic, ❤️@parksexyeol❤️, @pastelhunnie, ❤️@pchan-yeol❤️, @peachyjwwoo, @peachysuho, @petityeols, @phallicsoo, @please-dyo-me, @pohroro, @porkdo-bi, @prankchanyeol, @prince-hobis-castle, @princekjm, @princewangeun, @puppy-chanyeol, @puppyeoll, @queenbyun, ❤️@r-velvets❤️, @rapperbaeksoo, @rhendyo, @royalnini, @rysooo, @sanadoll, @savesuho, @sebaeked, @sebaekkk, @sefuns, @sehlun, @sehun-the-last-airbender, @sehuncallmemonster, @sehungotbaek, @sehunjusthitthelotto, @sehunlays, @sehunnified, @sehunsdick, @sehunsi, @sehunsvocals, @sehunxng, @sehunyi, @sehurn, @senfinity, @senshisuho, @seokjinim, @seuldy, @shadesofyifan, @shesdreamjng, @shypcy, @sirjinki, ❤️@slayeol❤️ , @sleepyxing, @smhsehun, @soft-suho, @sonicdae, @soodolf, @soofection, @squeezemybyuns, @squishyssoo, @stardustksoo, @su-lay, @suavesehun, @sugacooki, @suhokai, ❤️@suhos-butt❤️, @suhosankles, @sunbaejin, @sunflowersoo, @suuhyngho, @svgamon, @sweetyeol, @sxhuns, @syuhope

{t-z}
@taeblush, @taehyunganae, @taejagi, @taendelion, @taengs, @teddyjongin, @tellmewhatislove, @tenderloveforyou, @thatsjustmegs, @the-baekery, @thekimcouple, @thesofthun, @thickdicksuho, @tinyjunmyeon, @tipannies, ❤️@tousdae❤️, @tzuyuuwu, @untouchabyeolman, @v-dyo, @velvetsehun, @veriloquentmind, @versaceyeols, @viruspcy, @vitunkpoppi, @waltzsofa, @wendeer, @wetsekai, @winterheatmp3, @winters-lullaby, @wtfyixing, @wuboxian, @xehun, @xiao-saseum, @xiumania, @xiuminel, @xiuminsdreams, ❤️@xiupling❤️ , @yeolhighness, @yeollovemebaek, @yeollure, @yeolosaur, @yixingeol, @yixingsgf, @yooaesthetic, @yoongbeans, @yooseok, @yugyeomism, @zhangyixings, @zyxzjsdimple 

anonymous asked:

hello why do u think lena luthor has bpd (i don't disagree)

bpd is most often (not sure if it can be caused by genetic influences though i remember reading something about it?) caused by environmental influences in childhood such as neglect, abuse, loss, bullying - all of those can lead to someone developing bpd. for lena, from what we know about her past and from her relationship with her adopted mother and brother, she experienced neglect (both emotional and… physical? because she was adopted, regardless of the reason as a 4yo she was raised for a while in the foster system, even if she doesn’t remember much of it now, because she was too young, it could still leave long lasting effects). everything we know about her family life is that she never felt Good Enough to be a luthor, never felt loved by lillian, only ever felt cared about by lex who later turned his back on her (loss, possible emotional abuse by lillian)

so what we know about her past in canon (i’m not even talking headcanons just taking from what was on the show) is already enough to cause her to develop bpd. now what else makes me headcanon her with bpd?

one of the symptoms of bpd is impulsive and self destructive behaviour and despite not having much screentime so far we’ve seen lena putting her own life in danger multiple times

another symptom? fear of abandonment and intense and highly changeable moods, that’s what i saw watching the “be your own hero” scene from medusa. first she’s smiling and so happy to see kara and then she lashes out at her thinking kara will betray/abandon her, it can also be seen as splitting and black and white thinking (which are also symptoms of bpd)

it’s very likely that she has unstable sense of self (another bpd symptom) especially considering her complicated relationship with her adopted family and being a luthor

lastly, people with bpd often idealise others (that’s basically a direct result of black and white thinking) and from the way lena was talking about lex it seems to me that she was idealising him for a good portion of her life. people with bpd also usually have a “favourite person” which i think lex used to be and now it’s kara. favourite person is someone who is usually being idealised and/or imprinted on. it’s someone the emotions of a person with bpd most rely on, who they care about the most.

Drag Me Down - James Corden Rap Lyrics

Ain’t nothing to break a change or two

Nothing to nothing to break chain W

Hear the spit about penthouse view 

Yo changing looking out from my red house view yo

That’s all is done when the boys come through yo

Changing looking out from my red house view what

Don’t think about, be it

What nobody can do

D to the R to the A to the G me down 

Ain’t nothing to be around

Harry Ed Sheeran, whoa whoa

Niall Liam and Louis

What what what x285798 

  • enoch: thanks, mom... why is everyone staring at me?
  • millard: you just called miss peregrine mom; you said "thanks, mom"
  • enoch: what? no i didn't
  • miss peregrine: do you see me as a mother figure enoch?
  • enoch: if anything i see you as a BOTHER figure because you're always BOTHERING me