but my best friend wanted me to make it so

sean-loves-green  asked:

Bonjour Dark! Comment allez-vous aujourd'hui? I need some advice about something... My best friend keeps telling me that 'I'm not really transgender' because I like to wear make-up and wear dresses. What should I do? Should I stop being feminine and dress more masculine? I fucking hate myself so much. I just want to be normal.

“Transgender is an umbrella term for people whose gender identity differs from what is typically associated with the sex they were assigned at birth. Gender identity is someone’s internal, personal sense of being a man or a woman (or as someone outside of that gender binary). For transgender people, the sex they were assigned at birth and their own internal gender identity do not match. What this entails, is that being transgender does not signify that you must DRESS THE PART.”

Dark scowled, and banged one of his knees on the underside of his desk from the frustration.

“Your clothes do not determine the way you feel or how you identify. Your interests, your hobbies, the way you speak, the way you think, the way you act, who you love, they do not determine what you yourself know is truth. Your friend is naive to believe that wearing boyish clothes makes someone more of a man, or that wearing dresses makes them too much of a woman. You wear what you desire to wear, lovely, and don’t let any imbecile tell you that you’re too much or too little of anything. You are just right as you are.”

Me and my best friend of 7 years play a lot of League together. He’s a Yasuo main, and I’m a Janna main. I’ve had a crush on him for the longest time, but I find myself loving him even more when we play League and see him raging. I don’t know what about it that makes me happy, but I think it’s so cute when he does. He makes me want to cuddle him to make him feel better.

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Artwork by 阿咩

my best friend reminding me of the bad ass truth 💪🏻 she’s awesome on bad days, and i wanted to show you this because you might need to hear this too today!

“EATING IS NORMAL AND HEALTHY AND FOOD IS GOOD FOR YOU AND YOU WONT GET FAT FROM EATING ONE MEAL BECAUSE OUR BODY IS DESIGNED TO BURN CALORIES THAT WE EAT BY DOING DAY TO DAY THINGS LIKE GETTING OUT OF BED AND GOING TO WORK. YOU ARE PERFECT, STARVING YOURSELF MAKES YOU GAIN WEIGT SO EAT WHEN YOU ARE HUNGRY AND THAT WILL ONLY MAKE YOU HEALTHY SO TAKE NO NOTICE OF WHAT ANYONE SAYS BECAUSE YOU ARE PERFECT LYD AND I LOVE YOU”

I chicken out every time
I’m about to say the words I’m not okay
and I stop myself
Every time I say that the blades the family I babysit for look like they belong on my wrist more then the bracelets I wear do
and I don’t tell people
I still make excuses and I still feel bad for everyone who abused me
I silence myself
When I want to talk about the guy who was one of my best friends in my world
Or about the boy I loved
and how they both didn’t stop when I said no
And maybe I’m the monster here
Or maybe I just keep making people hate me
When one of my best friends who I dated doesn’t have the courage to tell me to let go
I don’t turn and tell them it makes me feel like I’m everything bad I’ve ever hated
Or maybe I’ve just spent so long around people who are toxic I can’t define myself from them

anonymous asked:

so i have a question: i was raised without religion, but since i've been at college, sometimes i go with my best friend (who is jewish) to shabbat services at hillel on campus. going to shabbat makes me feel connected with god in a way i've never felt before, and i'm considering getting a copy of the torah to study. i really do want to have a more serious relationship with god, and i feel like this is what he wants from me. is it okay to explore judaism in this way? or am i being appropriative?

Reading the Torah is in no way appropriation. Studying Judaism is not appropriation. Attending Shabbos with a Jewish friend is the furthest thing from appropriation. Keep doing what you are doing and if it speaks to you go talk to a rabbi.

So I’ve been filled with love and affection again lately and I really really wanna give a certain someone a hug *cough @jiminy-krispies cough*

So here’s the best I can do :)

You make me smile so much!!!

I look at cute things and I think of you cause I always wanna make you smile too!! And you’re a cutie :) can’t forget about that!!

You make me want to actually do things!! I’m usually okay with barely doing anything and just lying in bed on my tablet for most of the day, but now I want to go where you are and give you a hug, now I want to make things so you’re proud of me, now I want to do things that would make you happy :)

You’re such a nice person!! You always make me feel better when I’m sad and even if I do cry I can say ‘jiminy believes in me and everything will be alright’ and I won’t cry as much!!

You make me happy :) I’m so so glad I can be friends with you. I love you!!

Originally posted by moan-s

overwhelmed

i just want friends.  i have a husband who i see ALL the time and don’t get me wrong but i need gal friends too.  my two best and closest are the furthest away from me one in TN the other in DC.  he has his own set of friends and i have yet to meet or even want to meet them.  they aren’t my cup of tea.  

i can’t stand to be alone with my thoughts. 

i need someone to distract me and not make me feel so underappreciated.  

I really hate to say this but I will not be taking a lot of requests for maybe a week… I am currently undergoing a lot of stress and it seems like everyone wants to ruin my relationship with my girlfriend… One of my “friends” joked about wanting to kill her to get with me and those jokes make me REALLY uncomfortable and he’s blaming it all on him being sleep deprived… Then it’s like I’m the bad guy because I’ve ignored him a few times and everyone sides with him but if he makes me have a mental breakdown(happened quite a few times) everyone sides with him still except my girlfriend and my best friend…

I am so sorry to bring a bad vibe or be annoying to anyone

- Mod Sonia

Monday 8:27am
I woke up with you on my mind.
You called me babe last night —
my heart is still pounding.

Tuesday 10:53pm
Today I realized we won’t work.
What we are is hurting her.
And I think she matters more to me than you do.

Wednesday 11:52pm
I broke things off with you today.
She barely said a word.
I’ve never regretted anything more than this.

Thursday 4:03pm
I shouldn’t have sent that message.
You shouldn’t have been so okay with receiving it.

Friday 9:57pm
I almost messaged you today.
I didn’t.

Saturday 8:49pm
I’m walking around town in search of alcohol.
They say that liquor numbs the pain of having a broken heart.
I want to put that to the test.

Sunday 2:32am
I heard you texted a girl you’ve never spoken to before.
I wonder if it’s because you’re trying to replace me.
I can’t help but wish you weren’t.
I thought I was irreplaceable.

—  a week with you on my mind, c.j.n.