but look at how attractive he is

anonymous asked:

The members once said that yoongi changes a lot when he falls in love or is in a relationship. He also said he'd change something of himself for her/him Can you explain why? Thank you♡ ilu ♡

i totally agree with that. he has jupiter in the 7th opposite his venus in the 1st. first let’s look at what oppositions create. i think opposition are less strenuous than squares. why? oppositions bring lessons and compromise. it’s kind of like two planets sitting across a table and screaming at each other. there’s definitely conflict, but if handled correctly compromise emerges. so in the end, the energies of both planets change in order to work together. also, oppositions are usually externalized. we often seek the help of others in order to work out the issues that come with oppositions.

let’s just look at how the energies between the houses interact. 1st house = self, identity. 7th house = relationships. an opposition between the houses means yoongi has to change part of his identity in order to make relationships work.

then let’s see the planets. venus = overindulgence, laziness. jupiter = energy, joy. in relationships, yoongi will be much more active and bright. he will smile a lot more, be more willing to try new things and explore with his s/o. he’ll attract sagittarius types who will broaden his horizons and take him on many adventures. this will surprise some people, especially those used to seeing his “grandpa” side.

finally, the signs. aries venus has the tendency of being selfish in relationships. on the other hand, jupiter is the planet of giving. he loses that self oriented nature in relationships. in addition, his jupiter is in libra, the sign of others. aries is all about “me” while libra is all about “we.” it may take some time, but he will eventually find the right balance. not over-giving in a relationship to the point where he’s taken advantage of (which is common in harsh venus-jupiter aspects) and also not being self absorbed. once he finds this balance, he’ll be able to have that fairytale romance his pisces sun dreams about 🌙

Originally posted by cyyphr

This this man
This human being
This reason of my sin
Is getting a reaction for him
Solo
Cuz he effected me so much
Now
Kim Namjoon….. RM.. Is my ultimate bias
I love him …. He owns my ass 🍑
And I have never been more attracted to him then in this damn MV
Like he was spitting fire and serving sinful looks
Like the man is already the epitome of sexiness in my eyes
Like he’s the whole package
Brain… Face…. Body… Know how to speak… And very understanding
But this remix just ..hdjshzjqh😤😩😫😍
And the “baby” at the start of his rap just *lip bite * (cuz there is no emoji for that)
If I died write Kim Namjoon as the reason I was gone

What Kind of Personality Steve Harrington is Attracted to:

  • Steve is attracted to someone who can make him laugh
  • I feel like whe he became “King,” of Hawkins he tried to be attracted to the loud, popular, extroverted girls because it made him look cooler
  • As time went on though, he found himself attracted to the shyer, more quiet girls
  • The girls in the popular crowd primarily reminded him of his shit friends
  • He didn’t want anything to do with them
  • Steve wants someone who can make him grow as a person
  • He doesn’t want to be a partier as much as he wants someone to love
  • He wants someone who will trust him whole heartedly and who he can trust with his life
  • He’s definitely be attracted to someone who was good with kids
  • Someone who knew how to take charge in a situation
  • Someone protective but fun and endearing
  • Even though he’d shoot for the shyer type, he’d love it even more if he/she could defend yourself
  • He/she couldn’t be spineless and would have to have a backbone (literally and figuratively)
  • Steve was told that being attracted to girls was the only way to go
  • But I believe Steve could see past the narrow mindedness and just like someone for their personality and not their gender

redmage123  asked:

Incubus Genji headcanons?

Incubus Genji headcanons!

Relationships:

  • He’ll do anything to tempt you to do what he wants
  • He’ll change how he looks to please you to make you fall for him, even if that means changing genders if that’s what you so please
  • When out of bed, he’s very sweet and will spoil you. He’ll spend most of his time with you, doing whatever you want
  • After a while(months for example) of sex, he’ll be very attached to you and only you and will refuse to part from you

Sex:

  • VERY attractive. No imperfections whatsoever
  • Intensly demanding when it comes to sex, will not stop until he gets what he wants. He’ll punish you harshly if you refuse
  • Even though he’s very demanding, he has to be careful not to fuck you to death. He’s very strong
  • Although he’s very sweet out of bed, he’s also immensely rough when it comes to sex
  • ALOT of kinks and fetishes. He’s been around so be prepared for whats in store 
  • Body is physically and structurally stronger and bigger so be prepared to be held down with no escape.

                                                                                              ~admin Dire

Kim Namjoon

This this man

This human being

This reason of my sin

Is getting a reaction for him only

Solo

Cuz he effects me so much

Now

Kim Namjoon….. RM.. Is my ultimate bias

I love him …. He owns my ass 🍑

And I have never been more attracted to then in this damn MV

Like he was spitting fire and serving sinful looks

Like the man is already the epitome of sexiness in my eyes

Like he’s the whole package

Brain… Face…. Body… Know how to speak… And very understanding

But this remix just ..hdjshzjqh😤😩😫😍

And the “baby” at the start of his rap just *lip bite * (cuz there is no emoji for that)

If I died write Kim Namjoon as the reason I was gone


6
Keith Kogan: A Portrayal of Homosexuality Done Right

I always tell people that Voltron is a lot more clever than it gets credit for. It can spin a cliche/trope on it’s head beautifully, and while all the characters are easily digestible archetypes (i.e: the nerd, the loner), the creators add layers to them that not only make them feel like real people, but also makes social commentary on those very archetypes.

In no better way do they do this than with the character of Keith.

Before I get into how and why Keith deviates from you’re typical gay male protagonist, I want to establish as a fact that Keith is homosexual.

If you don’t see - what I consider to be - blatant evidence that Keith’s gay, well, I can’t say I blame you. Most people have ingrained heteronormative lenses, meaning they’ll miss the subtext of homosexual characters. Us in the LGBT community are much more attuned to seeing these because, well, for one, we’re queer, and two, because up until around the 1960s, the portrayal of gay characters in the media was illegal and could only be shown subtextually.

So it makes sense that people overlook the very nuanced portrayal of Keith’s sexuality, but if you’re willing to take off those lenses, it’s certainly there.

The first standout appearance of this is in season 1 episode 6: Taking Flight. Or as I like to call it, the day the shows name officially changed to Gaytron: Legendary Homosexuals

I think one of the disconnects for some viewers is that they don’t completely grasp the saying, “Show don’t tell,” the mantra of pretty much every writer. Not always, but typically, showing is better than telling. Or more accurately, telling needs to be used at the correct times and for the right reasons.

So how do they show us that Keith’s gay in this episode? Through three things, body language, actions, and juxtaposition.

You don’t have to be a body language specialist to understand the clear meaning behind Keith’s posture. Leaning, looking someone up and down, and a small, lingering smile/smirk are all subconscious signs of attraction. They’re also common ways of depicting male attraction in the media.

Speaking of depicting male attraction, lets look at how Lance’s flirts in the same episode.

Leaning. Check. Lingering smile. Check. Engaged eye contact. Check. The biggest difference is how blatant they are in their intentions, but that comes down to pure character difference. Keith is self assured and more genuinely confident. He also has a lot of walls up and isn’t so open. While Lance puts on a show/over compensates so that he might appear cool. You can also see this in their respective ‘I’m-checking-you-out’ postures. Lance’s body is open, he’s engaged and his eyes are on Nyma’s eyes. While Keith’s posture is interested, but more in an appreciative way. His body is closed off, and instead of looking Rolo in the eyes, he looks at his - um - physique. This is really fitting for Keith’s character, who again, has walls, and who also puts this mission first, and most likely has no intention of letting this attraction lead to anything other than having a nice piece of eye candy around for a couple of hours.

This is textbook juxtaposition. So moving along now.

I don’t want this to be a shippy post, so I won’t add all the times I think Keith shows attraction towards Lance, but I do want to mention this scene.

The use of the rainbow(the most recognizable symbol in the gay community) over lapping the bi flag colors is relevant for the same reason why the use of purple to symbolize the Galra is relevant. Purple represents royalty, imperialism, but also gloom and danger. The use of these colors and symbols are conscious choices.

While the above scene shows that Keith is attracted to men, this scene shows that Keith is also not attracted to woman.

What I love about this scene is that it’s such a cliche, and like I said up above, Voltron is good at turning those on their head. Here they utilize the tiered and true trope of accidentally falling into each others arms. If this was a hetero-centric Romcom than this moment would’ve been obviously meant to establish attraction, but instead, it does the opposite. Rather Keith personally likes Allura or not, she’s a knock out. So, if he’s attracted to women at all, and isn’t use to having that contact- which hes not - he should be at least somewhat shocked/flustered. If it had been an attractive guy that fell into Keith’s arms, I have no doubt that his reactions would be something beyond that blank stare. Considering he literally gasps every time Lance touches him

The last piece of “evidence” I want to show isn’t as blatant and may just be my perspective, but it’s worth mentioning.

The themes of Keith’s Galra arc are very reminiscent to coming out. He’s discovering parts of himself. He’s internalizing and hiding away said parts. He’s scared of what the people he cares about will think of him when they find out. If this is intentional, it’s brilliant, because while Voltron is set in a futurist world where sexuality is supposedly not an Issue, it still is for the youth of today. Meaning by having these similar themes, Keith becomes more relatable to LGBT people.

This is the part where, if you still don’t think Keith’s gay, I’ll have to calmly yet firmly ask you to get off my fucking lawn. For the rest of you, onward to victory!!!

LGBT individuals have a history of being badly represented in the media, especially now that gay characters have become a marketing strategy for a more progressive consumer base. Their whole character is often reduced to stereotypes or used as a giant walking gay pride flag that reads: look at us, we’re hip and with the times. Meaning, the majority of these characters plots and personalities are based solely on their sexuality. Which is a problem, because not only does it not help to normalize homosexuality, but it’s just not relatable to LGBT people.

I’ll give you an example. My mom’s a lesbian. She married to a woman and has two daughters, one who is trans and one who is bi. But despite how “gay"her life may seem, she very rarely describes herself as that way. She’s not active in LGBT issues. She doesn’t involve herself in the community. Shes not lesbian first and everything else afterward, and she is certainly not alone in that experience. Don’t get me wrong, LGBT individuals are more aware of their sexuality than cishet people, but it’s typically only because others point it out and remind us that its not "normal.” Still, for a lot of LGBT people, our sexuality is just one part of our personal narrative, not the whole damn book.

Another problem with LGBT representations is that their often just built off of stereotypes. Gay men are feminized and their sexuality is typically made the butt of a joke. They are shown as being promiscuous and having commitment issues. These are the standards.

But Keith abolishes all of those, and in such a seamless way too.

While Keith’s character is in no way excessively macho, he’s certainly not feminine either. He doesn’t mind getting sweaty. He’s temperamental and has anger issue. He lived a pretty low maintenance life in a desert shack, sleeps in his jeans like a heathen, and probably uses a dagger to peel oranges. Keith is a masculine character. He’s confident and self assured, but not vain. He’s emotional, but in a very private way. Whereas many other portrayal of gay men depict them as almost theatrically sensitive, confident, but only in their sexual prowess, and self absorbed, but only when it come to their looks and not when it comes to their skills.

This is already an impressive deviation, but what really makes Keith’s portrayal stand out is the way his sexuality is but a mere footnote in what makes his character his character, and how that fits into his personality and story arc so well.

The first thing you have to realize about Keith is that, while he certainly wants to connect with people, it’s not his number one priority. He has barriers. He fears rejection, and despite wanting to feel as if he belongs, its not hard to see how Keith has been conditioned to assume he’ll inevitability be left behind, and therefore places personal relationships low on his list of priorities. Meaning, yes, he was checking out Rolo, and yes, I believe that he’s very very fond of Lance, but I can’t imagine that Keith really sees these relationships becoming something substantial or romantic, and thus doesn’t put too much effort into perusing them. You can really tell what’s important to a character by what they focus their time on. Take Lance for instance, he’s a character who blatantly cares about friendships and has no problem openly flirting. That’s not to say Lance doesn’t care about the war, just like Keith’s reluctance to pursue meaningful bonds doesn’t mean he doesn’t want them. It just means that relationships and love obviously mean a lot to Lance.

So what does Keith focus on? Well, he shows the most focus on relationships in season one, when the connections he had with his makeshift family was the post pressing thing going on. (You cant really form Voltron if you don’t connect with the other members) But after season one, with all the changes Keith goes through, we see a big shift in his priorities. First he finds out about his heritage, then Shiro disappears and he is thrust into leadership, and then most recently, he joins the Blade.

By framing Keith’s character like this, it allows the creators to make his sexuality natural and relatable in a very interesting way. Because as LGBT people know, our sexuality isn’t the most important part of our lives. Just like Keith, we have more to focus on.

That’s not to say that his sexuality will never be shown explicitly. Like I said, I don’t want to get too shippy, but I truly believe that Laith is endgame. So if and when that happens, his sexuality will naturally come into play. Sadly, their will be a lot of people who call it forced because they missed the subtext and are use to seeing gay characters depicted more as spectacles than real people.

Voltron has really done something special here. They’ve create a universe where sexuality isn’t an issue, and they make it believable by never bringing it up outside of naturally occurring, unforced, appropriate context. Even better, because the Voltron universe is so vastly different than our own, it would’ve been easy to make LGBT characters that we couldn’t relate to, but they don’t. They manage this so well that I honestly can’t phantom Keith’s sexuality being anything but homosexual despite the fact it’s never been explicitly shown.

But most importantly, they’re creating a higher standard for LGBT representation. They are normalizing it on a show aimed towards children who are heavily influenced by the media they consume.


That, my friends, is worth applauding.

anonymous asked:

(Spoiler starts here) Just so I get this off my chest *clears throat* MARINETTE IS OBVIOUSLY NOT JUST A FRIEND BECAUSE DID YOU SEE HOW THEY DANCED TOGETHER AND HOW ADRIEN DRAGGED HER TO DANCE FLOOR AND HOW HE JUST WENT ALONG WHEN ALYA PUT MARINETTE CLOSER TO HIM?

LEGIT HIS FOND ASS SMILES HE GAVE HER. MHMMM BOI

Originally posted by ryuzaki-lester

AND LOOK HOW COMFY HE LOOKS DANCING W HER

HIS EYES ARE LEGIT CLOSED. AND EVERYONE ELSE IN THAT ROOM WERE ALL JUST DANCIN AND CHILL AND ADRIEN GOT SO INTO IT LUSH:UISJSI:UJS

HE MAY NOT BE IN LOVE WITH MARI YET BUT BOY IS CRUSHIN OR AT THE VERY LEAST ATTRACTED TO HER

Epoch

Epoch (m) a period of time in history or a person’s life, typically one marked by notable events or particular characteristics.

Words: 11.3k

Genre/Warnings: smut, language and angst

Pairing: Reader x Jungkook

Summary: When Namjoon breaks up with you, you’re left wondering what to do. Realizing you’ve been unhappy with your life, you go off to Hawaii. In Hawaii, you meet a cute desk clerk named Jungkook who saves your ass. (Based off of Forgetting Sarah Marshall)


You were waiting for your boyfriend, Namjoon, to come over. He had just gotten back from New York, where he had a few concerts. You worked with him, you were a lyric writer and producer. He had called you last night, saying, that he would be getting in early and wanted to see you.

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From 0 to Albert Rosenfield in Twin Peaks, how done are you with everybody?

sometimes I go like ten mins without seeing a pic of Onew and I just think of him like oh wow he’s handsome and then I SEE a pic and I’m like FUCK ? I don’t remember him being that beautiful ?! clearly our minds cannot truly comprehend Lee Jinki’s beauty enough to form a memory that does him any justice because each time I’m just…blown away. whatta man.

anonymous asked:

(I love your writing it makes me wanna jump off a cliff with happiness) Can I uHHHHHHH get a drarry fic where it's 8th year and draco is quite and none of his friends are at hogwarts so he starts to make a habit of going outside at night and star gazing, one night harry decides he wants a break from the crowds so he goes outside only to find a sleepy draco and a whole lotto stars (Sorry if this ask sounded so demanding)

Ah thank you that’s so kind!  Only don’t go jumping off any cliffs!  Unless you’re base diving maybe…oh or bungee jumping.  Then that’s alright.  Also this took awhile because I started writing this in tumblr and IT ATE MY DAMN DRABBLE AND I WAS SO MAD, so it took me awhile to be less angry and start to try to write it all over.


“What’re you doing out here?”  

Draco jumps at the unexpected voice, snapping his eyes open and shooting the other boy a dirty look which is met with an impish grin.  Draco would be more annoyed at the interruption if he weren’t finding it so attractive.  Fucking Potter, try as he might Draco can’t seem to dislike a single thing about him anymore.

“I was…relaxing.”

“Looked like you were sleeping.”  

“I was not sleeping.  I was enjoying some peace and quiet before you so rudely interrupted.”

Potter doesn’t respond right away, so Draco finally looks at him and is surprised to see the other boy looking, well, nervous.  He wants to roll his eyes.  He doesn’t understand Potter sometimes, how he can be so smart and sarcastic and full of life and the next moment look like he’s unsure he’s wanted; he wonders what’s happened in his life that could make Potter so unsure how other people feel about him.  He wants to know desperately but they aren’t there yet so he files it away in his mental list of things he wants to know about Potter but may never find out.

When Potter makes no move to speak, or leave, Draco scoots to the side making room for the other boy to sit beside him.  He doesn’t say anything, just makes a bit of extra room on the blanket he’d transfigured when he’d come outside.  Thankfully words aren’t necessary and Potter slides down right next to him, impossibly close to Draco.

“So, Potter, what exactly are you doing here?  Isn’t there some sort of party going on in the common room?”

Potter huffs out a laugh, rubbing his hands on his knees.  “There’s always a party going on.  I just…there’s,” he sighs, looking a bit uncomfortable as if he isn’t sure what to say.

“There’s a lot of people in there.  Rather noisy.”  Draco sometimes wonders how it seems as if they both seem to feel the same, despite the fact that their experiences couldn’t have been more different.  It should be weird, realizing how much they have in common, but instead it just feels right.

The tension visibly leaves Potter’s body at Draco’s words.  “Yes…yes, that.”

After several quiet moments, Draco finds himself speaking without even consciously deciding to do so.  “I came outside to watch the stars.  Growing up I always liked astronomy, and I know what you’re thinking but it wasn’t some narcissist thing because I’m named after a bloody constellation alright.  It’s just…they’re fixed you know?  No matter what happens, whether we can see them or not, the stars are always the same.  I like that, knowing that some things are constant.”

“It’s beautiful,” Potter whispers, but when Draco turns his head to agree he realizes Potter isn’t looking at the stars, he’s looking at him.  And then Potter’s hand is reaching towards him, one of them reaching out to tangle his fingers with Draco’s and the other moving to the back of his neck.  They’re so close Draco can feel the other boy’s warm breath ghosting across his face.

“What are you doing, Potter?”

“No fucking idea,” he mumbles, closing the distance and pressing his lips to Draco’s.  Potter taste like fire whiskey and chocolate, and his lips are ice cold and chapped.  It’s perfect.

It occurs to Draco, as Potter pushes him down on the blanket, kissing him as if he were the air Potter needed to breath, that Draco has spent his entire life looking for something that wouldn’t change when maybe what he should’ve been doing was finding someone or something worth changing for.

Maybe like a dying star they will crash and burn, or maybe they’ll stay a constant he can look for on his darkest days.  All Draco knows as he reaches out to touch Potter in as many places as possible, is that for once in his life maybe he’s not so afraid of the unknown anymore.

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Jongdae gracing us with his beautiful exposed skin