The members once said that yoongi changes a lot when he falls in love or is in a relationship. He also said he'd change something of himself for her/him Can you explain why? Thank you♡ ilu ♡
i totally agree with that. he has jupiter in the 7th opposite his venus in the 1st. first let’s look at what oppositions create. i think opposition are less strenuous than squares. why? oppositions bring lessons and compromise. it’s kind of like two planets sitting across a table and screaming at each other. there’s definitely conflict, but if handled correctly compromise emerges. so in the end, the energies of both planets change in order to work together. also, oppositions are usually externalized. we often seek the help of others in order to work out the issues that come with oppositions.
let’s just look at how the energies between the houses interact. 1st house = self, identity. 7th house = relationships. an opposition between the houses means yoongi has to change part of his identity in order to make relationships work.
then let’s see the planets. venus = overindulgence, laziness. jupiter = energy, joy. in relationships, yoongi will be much more active and bright. he will smile a lot more, be more willing to try new things and explore with his s/o. he’ll attract sagittarius types who will broaden his horizons and take him on many adventures. this will surprise some people, especially those used to seeing his “grandpa” side.
finally, the signs. aries venus has the tendency of being selfish in relationships. on the other hand, jupiter is the planet of giving. he loses that self oriented nature in relationships. in addition, his jupiter is in libra, the sign of others. aries is all about “me” while libra is all about “we.” it may take some time, but he will eventually find the right balance. not over-giving in a relationship to the point where he’s taken advantage of (which is common in harsh venus-jupiter aspects) and also not being self absorbed. once he finds this balance, he’ll be able to have that fairytale romance his pisces sun dreams about 🌙