tell you what, ill share this here because im a fucking idiot who knows tumblr will try to tear me a new one but i dont actually care.
until sort of recently i was very very very pro lables like ‘trans’ or ‘gay’ or ‘straight’ because none of them are 100% applicable.
as someone who solidly identified as a ‘trans man’, i thought about it alot and i realised, what is a man. if im a man then a man can look how im born looking, im still a man when i dont bind or if i look like some people who are born female look. because some people who are female are born male looking. its infinate and feeds back forever. im a man sure, but that doesnt have a specific way to look because gender is just what we percieve it as. this means there is no gender beyond biological male female because its all just a concept/construct. we are all non binary in a sense but thats still not right because were not non-gender we are all no-gender because it isnt real lol.
oh yeah and extra neato, because of this sexuality isnt real. men and women can look however.
gender aint real sexuality aint real because nothing is real have an existential crisis with a dash of nihilism induced depression.