I'm not trying to be mean or unsupportive, I'm just curious as to why you decided to choose they/them pronouns. I have a bit of a similar issue. I want to use they/them pronouns but because I also identify as a lesbian, I don't know if that's okay for me to do? Thank you <3
i just feel like i dont identify completly as a female but its also not too big of a deal for me because i feel like i do identify as a girl but i dont at the same time so im trying to see if they/them pronouns will help me get more comfortable i guess??? and yes you are completly valid!!! nb lesbians are real and alive and valid!!