but in this case i'll make the exception

anonymous asked:

"I think I'll have my balls cut off" said no sane man ever.

People always ask me, “Why do you bother trying to deal rationally with hate mail? There’s no point.” Well, this is why. Clearly I’ve been able to make some headway with this one. They’re finally starting to understand: trans women aren’t men. It’s true, most men would never seek an orchiectomy (except in the case of cancer, perhaps, or maybe for cultural reasons such as certain monks, but far be it from me to rob someone of the oversimplified absolutes they use to justify their bigotry). Anyways, this is a good day and just goes to show that sometimes you can teach a crotchety, stubborn, crude, socially unadaptable, nasty old dog a new trick every now and then. 😊

anonymous asked:

How do you make your gifs images edges so black,clear and thick they are awesome

i smart sharpen at 0,3 radius removing gaussian blur with mode ‘darken’ and i add filter ‘minimum’ using setting 0,5 radius on roundness at 15% … sometimes using selective coloring black helps the lineart appear bolder and darker too.

and on my scenery gifs my settings are still the same except i remove lens blur when sharpening and i add filter ‘gaussian blur’ at 0,3 radius ranging from 30 - 40% instead of using ‘minimum’

depending on the scene/anime my sharpening amount ranges from 0 - 350%

Sarcastic Sentence Starter Meme
  • "Hi, I'm a human! What are you?"
  • "People have a right to be stupid, but you're abusing the privilege."
  • "The best part of my day is when you're not in it."
  • "Sorry, I'm busy right now. Tell me where you will be in 10 minutes; I'll make sure I'm not there."
  • "How about never? Is never good for you?"
  • "Well, who lit the fuse on your tampon?"
  • "Ah, I see the fuck up fairy has visited again."
  • "You are validating my inherent mistrust of strangers."
  • "I am already visualizing the duct tape over your mouth."
  • "What am I? Flypaper for freaks?!"
  • "I'm not rude. You're just insignificant."
  • "And your cry-baby whiny-ass opinion would be...?"
  • "I started with nothing and I still have most of it left."
  • "If I throw a stick, will you leave?"
  • "Whatever look you were aiming for, you missed."
  • "Hold on. I'm imagining you with a personality."
  • "Aren't you just a black hole of need?"
  • "Why don't you slip into something more comfortable, like a coma?"
  • "If you have something to say, raise your hand. Then place it over your mouth."
  • "Have a nice day. Somewhere else."
  • "You possess a mind that's not only twisted, but actually sprained."
  • "I never forget a face but in this case, I'll make an exception."
  • "Nice perfume/cologne. Must you marinate in it?"
  • "Oh wait, I forgot- you're a bitch!"
things i have learned about this alligator lizard

she’s remarkably chill for an alligator lizard. like she doesn’t want to be my friend, but she doesn’t mind being watched

she doesn’t understand water bowls and will only drink from her humid hide

not diurnal.  she won’t bask under her UVB light except at dawn and dusk

will fucking eat ANYTHING

not interested in climbing branches unless they’re placed slightly out of her reach in which case she will do anything she can to reach them

'Treasure Planet' Sentence Starters Part 2
  • "Just a lifelong obsession, [Name]. I'll get over it."
  • "What is the big deal? All we gotta do is find that one little wire."
  • "Ugh! Too bad my nose works just fine."
  • "I just don't want to see you throw away your entire future!"
  • "Yeah, what future?"
  • "Say hello to Mr. Mop and Mrs. Bucket!"
  • "Hit your head there pretty hard, didn't ya?"
  • "I'll make you proud."
  • "You know what they say. 'Familiarity breeds...' um... well, 'contempt.' But in our case..."
  • "Did you actually aim for that?"
  • "To muse and blabber about [subject] in front of this particular [group], demonstrates a level of ineptitude that borders on the imbecilic! And I mean that in a very caring way."
  • "In the flesh! Well, sort of, except for skin, organs and anything that - that - that resembles flesh, that's not there."
  • "Perhaps you've heard of me. No? I have a clipping."
  • "Well, I have a lot to offer anatomically."
  • "Again with the greatest possible respect, zip your howling screamer."

anonymous asked:

Can u talk about the comorbity between avpd and hpd? It may be partly bc of my bpd that I have a bit of hpd along with my other pds. But my problem is I want constant attention I need it but I avoid it or I do really ridiculous shit to draw attention to me and regret it (like I'll start blabbing my mouth making everyone listen when I had nothing to say except embarrassing shit or I'm constantly like posing and looking good but at the same time like, I avoid it all and don't approach anyone

First of all, I feel like everybody would benefit from viewing this chart. The book it’s from is not available online and I don’t own it, unfortunately, but I believe that the numbers are percentages. The lefthand column is primary diagnosis, the top is comorbid conditions. (Comorbid means more than one disorder is present in one person, in case anybody didn’t know.)

So, assuming I’m interpreting it correctly, people whose main PD is HPD also have AvPD 21% of the time, and people whose main PD is AvPD also have HPD 16% of the time.

I love this chart because it gives you a quick impression of how common PD comorbidities are! Very validating for those of us who feel like we fit “too many” PDs!

People who require extra attention, like people with BPD, HPD, NPD and DPD, can all absolutely have AvPD as well. I think you described it quite well, anon.

I think that the negative reaction that people with BPD, HPD, NPD and DPD receive to our “dramatic” behaviour and “attention-seeking” can encourage us to become more avoidant. That’s my experience of this comorbidity - I feel my Cluster B traits (I don’t have DPD) came before my AvPD.

I have often felt so helpless to prevent myself from expressing symptoms outwardly (violence, manipulation, etc) that I could only walk away from the situation, and try to avoid similar ones in future. However, this strategy never taught me how to process and accept those extreme emotions. It only hid my symptoms from others.

“Contradictory” symptoms like wanting attention and fearing attention might both happen at once; or certain situations might trigger one more than the other; or you might experience one sometimes and the other at other times.

For example, sometimes I’m so convinced I’ll ruin our relationship that I can’t even send a text to my best friend. Sometimes I have a panic attack if I don’t get attention very quickly. It’s okay when I only have one of these, but when I have both, I get very distressed, because the solution to one makes the other worse.

People with BPD, HPD, NPD and DPD also tend to rely on others to validate or provide their identity, to various extents. For many of us, isolation causes our identity to crumble. AvPD encourages us to self-isolate, regularly setting off those identity issues and making it very difficult to seek help or support with them. (AvPD has its own identity issues as well.)

Some recommended reading: PD Information MasterpostInternalised symptoms / Trying to impress others / Forming relationships when you have BPD and AvPD

I hope it’s okay that I spoke more generally about PD comorbidity than your question was asking. I thought it would be more helpful. If you needed more about HPD specifically, you could try looking or posting in the #honestlyhistrionic tag!

- Exo


Riarkle Stargazing AU: New York may have been pretty, but the closest thing to small lights in the sky was the tall skyscraper’s light being turned on. So, Riley, who was so use to being the light, wanted to see it. And Farkle, would do anything to get away from the world with his love, so he took them away.

Click on the pictures for mini-sentences

Request: Riarkle AU where Riley and Farkle go out of the city every so often to stargaze and talk about astronomy? :)

Low key we should mimic the ancient Egyptians and make our own Library of Alexandria, except this time we use our technology to both secure it, back it up, and make it accessible in case the world ever goes through an apocalypse-like event; that way, even if humans come close to extinction, we will still have all of the knowledge we knew before the collapse of society.

Oh, and we prob wouldn’t burn it down either